Would you make out with a stranger if you are a married woman.

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  1. Love Prince Dee profile image60
    Love Prince Deeposted 2 years ago

    Would you make out with a stranger if you are a married woman.

    What would provoke you to do do this?

  2. Aime F profile image82
    Aime Fposted 2 years ago


    Personally if I found myself seriously considering it I would need to think long and hard about why I felt for even a second that it was okay to cheat on my husband.  Then possibly seek marriage counselling.  If all else fails I would say "this isn't working" and separate, making it clear we were to see other people, before kissing anyone.

    1. Love Prince Dee profile image60
      Love Prince Deeposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Wow, I like the way you argue. Definitely, there must be a reason that provokes a person to think of cheating. If that reason is dealt with, one can never cheat!

  3. KsenijaZ profile image93
    KsenijaZposted 2 years ago

    Why would I do that? If I am married, I am married - for the reason. For and with love. I would divorce if I thought this isn't it. And even then I would not choose the stranger.

    1. Love Prince Dee profile image60
      Love Prince Deeposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      I like that! But I am still waiting to see what other ladies got to say about this.

  4. tamarawilhite profile image91
    tamarawilhiteposted 2 years ago

    There are women who will do this to get validation of their sexual attractiveness or out of the mistaken belief that making their mate jealous makes him care more about her.
    In both cases, this is a violation of the sexual fidelity that comes with marriage. And triggering this type of jealousy is cruel and makes her responsible if he becomes paranoid or stops trusting her.

    1. Love Prince Dee profile image60
      Love Prince Deeposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      That's true. Thank you.

  5. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 23 months ago


    Odds are you aren't going to find very many married women who would publicly state they would make out with a stranger or any other man for that matter. And yet if you happen to watch TV shows like "Paternity Court", "Cheaters" or "The Maury Povich Show AKA You are NOT the father!"
    It's clear that there (are) married women who cheat.
    Since I'm not a woman I can only speculate as to why a married woman might make out with a stranger.
    It's "girls night" or a "girls getaway" fueled with alcohol/partying and {she's been bored} and wants to cut loose.
    "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!" or a similar mentality. European and Caribbean vacations can be tempting for (some) women who may have had fantasies of men with foreign accents.
    This is common of young & immature women who may have gotten married too soon or truly miss being "single".
    Being with a "stranger" usually means it's going to be a "one night stand" and it dramatically reduces their odds of getting caught.
    Whatever is "missing" in the marriage does not rise to the level of running down to the courthouse to file for divorce, lowering her living standards, splitting up assets, dividing up family & friends who choose sides and any child custody battles.
    The goal of most cheaters is to hold onto all that is "good" in their marriage while addressing their other "needs" on the side.
    They have no desire to (replace) one relationship with another.
    People cheat because they don't think they will get caught.


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