How do you deal with of having a husband being fb friends with his x fiancee.. a
You have to ask yourself several questions:
Do you trust your husband?
Were they always FB friends? Do they have children together?
How many years have they known each other?
Does (he) believe she still has feelings for him?
Have they maintained their friendship before he met you?
Are they in contact by any other means or meet in person?
Do you feel threatened by her?
Was this a "secret" you recently discovered?
Is it a "deal breaker"?
Are you contemplating running down to the courthouse to file for a divorce? or Is this a power play for you against her.
Ultimately you have to decide whether or not you believe something is going on between them or not. You can let him know you're uncomfortable with them being FB friends.
However if (he) considers her to be a "real friend" he may not feel obligated to give up his friends especially if this was something {you knew about before you ever married him}.
Most people resent being {forced to do anything} especially if their mate initially (acted) as is if they were fine with things.
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them (as is) or move on.
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