What About Women Confuses You?

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  1. profile image57
    Tulia Lacineposted 4 years ago

    I know that lots of guys (if not all) think girls are the most confusing creatures ever. What about us makes you confused?

    1. dashingscorpio profile image71
      dashingscorpioposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Nothing.

      With age, life experience, and wisdom you come to stop gaging people by gender and look at them as individuals. Whenever someone says "all women" or "all men" want or expect a certain thing they're being flippant.

      Our biggest mistake is expecting men and women to be the same, think the same, and want the same things. Learning to accept people for who they are without any preconceived expectations is the key.

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      1. Olealea profile image71
        Olealeaposted 2 years agoin reply to this

        I completely agree. We should see each and every person is an individual

        1. Miebakagh57 profile image73
          Miebakagh57posted 2 years agoin reply to this

          A woman is a dual. That's why she's had to be understood unless she open up as an individual.

    2. Miebakagh57 profile image73
      Miebakagh57posted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Hi, what aspect of "confuse" state? Is it just the person of the woman? A woman, a beautiful woman on first thought never really confuse(a man).

  2. Millicent Akinyi Okello profile image57
    Millicent Akinyi Okelloposted 4 years ago

    A guy should never make a woman confused and vice versa. When it comes to relationships, going for what makes you feel happy is the key.

  3. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
    Kathryn L Hillposted 4 years ago

    Men, when dealing with women, find them to be difficult and confusing because men are not women. It's the same for women when dealing with men. Exactly the same. This is because men and women by their natures are very different. We have expectations of the other based on what we ourselves could accomplish. Un-met expectations is the cause of most relationship problems. If a man cannot understand why a woman cannot be more like himself, there are bound to be troubles.

    My question is, can gay guys understand women better than straight guys?

    1. Stephen Traylor profile image57
      Stephen Traylorposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      On the gay guys, I don't think so.  I think what helps me the most is being a student. Appreciating women and learning from them. Enjoying the Feminine and taking notice - their graces and mannerisms, their mental, emotional and physical abilities which differ from men.  Women to me are special and I pay attention and enjoy learning from/about them.  Not to say that I understand them.  But I'm male and there are things about men that baffle me as well.

      1. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
        Kathryn L Hillposted 4 years agoin reply to this

        Aren't gays more in touch with their femine side?

      2. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
        Kathryn L Hillposted 4 years agoin reply to this

        I'm glad you accept females and try to see the best in them. Women should do the same in regards to men: Accept them and value them.
        And both should express their best qualities ...
        consistently and truthfully.

        What if one has little to no goodness within them?

        Well???

        It's hard to read males or females when either is out to deceive. Then, confusion is to be expected.

        1. Miebakagh57 profile image73
          Miebakagh57posted 4 years agoin reply to this

          "What if one has little to no goodness within them"-                                            That is hardly a picture of a dead corps. Would you say of a dead body so and so very wicked?                                                                The creator after making the had this witness: "very good."                                                    The answer can be found in just one word-manipulation!                                    Women, even men like to manipulate themselves to no understanding. Unique creatures!

          1. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
            Kathryn L Hillposted 4 years agoin reply to this

            soul mate vs cell mate:
            One must discern for oneself.

            1. Miebakagh57 profile image73
              Miebakagh57posted 4 years agoin reply to this

              The soul to discern the cell or the cell the soul? Whatever you mean?

              1. dashingscorpio profile image71
                dashingscorpioposted 4 years agoin reply to this

                I believe Kathryn was defining soulmate/cellmate different from you.
                A "soulmate" is someone you want to spend your life with.
                A "cellmate" is someone you feel "stuck" with (as in a prison cell).

                The myth of a "Soulmate" connection is being with someone who (instinctively) knows what to do or say to make you feel better. She/he understands you on a deeper level, and usually shares your same values and wants the same things you want for the relationship and out of life.

                A "cellmate" on the other hand is someone you may feel like you "settled" for or you're unhappy being with BUT yet  feel like staying put because it is the "best option" for you for a number of reasons whether valid or not.

                Some people dread the thought of "starting over", hate the dating process, are unwilling to sacrifice/lower their lifestyle standards, feel they lack the ability to live on their own, believe staying in a toxic relationship  is still best for their children, feel they're too old and so forth.

                There are lots of people in long-term relationships and unhappy marriages who consider their partner to be a cellmate not a soulmate.

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                1. Miebakagh57 profile image73
                  Miebakagh57posted 4 years agoin reply to this

                  Agreed. That's likely to break the discussion?

  4. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
    Kathryn L Hillposted 4 years ago

    Specifically, I imagine men are confused by women who make an attempt to please them, then once they attract the guy's attention, run the opposite direction.
    Some females just want attention and then don't know what to do with it, once they get it.
    Do guys do this?
    No, I don't think so. They will wait until they really like a girl before they make a move. Usually, it's a sincere move, which they plan to see through until the end. A girl, I think, is always ready to run.

    1. Kathryn L Hill profile image79
      Kathryn L Hillposted 4 years ago

      Yep.

    2. Miebakagh57 profile image73
      Miebakagh57posted 3 years ago

      She's not interested in his world? That's probably a cellmate affair. And what's the way out? Wondering too in totos.

     
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