Forgive or Forget?

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   curlytree2009posted 15 years ago

   Which is more important? To forgive or to forget?

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      graceth0masposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Depending on the situation, I'd say I'd rather forgive. Forgetting takes time. You may forgive but can never forget.

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      wusluposted 15 years agoin reply to this

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      lovelypaperposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I think they may be two different things. You can forgive but it's hard to forget.

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   Sophieanne1213posted 15 years ago

   It's always better to forgive.

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   theirishobserver.posted 15 years ago

   as someone who has sought alot of forgiveness in my life, I dont expect people to forget......

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   lyricsingrayposted 15 years ago

   i don't think you can compare the two. sorry.

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   theirishobserver.posted 15 years ago

   hello lyrics and how are you

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      lyricsingrayposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      good my love, and you?

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   theirishobserver.posted 15 years ago

   doing real good, would love to reach out into cyber space and give you a big hug....hurry up microsoft give of some new interactive cyber tools xxxx

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      lyricsingrayposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      damn. i have no patience and I need you.damn.

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   theirishobserver.posted 15 years ago

   soon soon

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   kmackey32posted 15 years ago

   I may beable to forgive but I will never forget!

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   Naomi R. Coxposted 15 years ago

   As I told my ex, I might forgive but I'll never forget.

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    TattoGuyposted 15 years ago

    It really depends on the situation, I would never forgive someone who murdered a member of my family or a friend. And I forget nothing !

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    Poppa Bluesposted 15 years ago

    I don't think you can ever forget, but you can forgive.

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    donotfearposted 15 years ago

    Forgiving is most important, although it's often hard to actually feel it. Forgetting is another thing. Takes a while sometimes. Too bad we don't come with a button that can be pushed on & off to forgive & forget.

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    efeguyposted 15 years ago

    both,but forgiveness can lead to the other step
    
    and that is to forget

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    Ivorwenposted 15 years ago

    I think forgiveness is most important.  It is the act of forgiving that sets one free from the circumstance.  As long as one holds a grudge, they will never be free, and bitterness eats the one who holds it, not the one it is aimed at.
    
    To forget is different.  Deleting something form the memory is almost impossible, but how we feel about it is under our control (in the long run).

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