Life goes on with or without you

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   Misbah786posted 3 years ago

   
   
   
   It's strange how individuals are hated for being genuine and adored for being fake.
   I'm too old to be concerned about who likes and dislikes me. I've got more important matters to attend to. I will love you if you love me. I will support you, If you support me. If you hate me, I don’t care. Whether you're there or not, life goes on.

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      dashingscorpioposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      It's unfortunate we don't reach this conclusion until after we become older.
      
      So many years are wasted worrying about what others think of us.
      
      

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         Misbah786posted 3 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks, Agreed,  DashingScorpio.
         Blessings to you

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         Kathryn L Hillposted 3 years agoin reply to this

         "So many years are wasted worrying about what others think of us...." some never get to this realization.
         
         But yes: Every time I am rejected, I will redirect myself toward something better.

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            Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

            I agree with you here.  Everytime when we are rejected, we try to redirect ourselves to something better.
            Blessings to you!!

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      Kathryn L Hillposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      if you hate me, I care.
      Darn it, I care.
      How does one get to the point where what others think about you doesn't phase you or effect you. Where how you imagine or sense how others either accept or reject you, really truly doesn't affect you in the least?
      
      wondering

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         Castlepalomaposted 2 years agoin reply to this

         Kathryn, I like you. Don't understand religions, yet do support your human right for it.
         
         Not ever been slandered anything close to these life threatening Covid topics in my lifetime. It gets me down too, for where ever I go. Keep your integrity up and have fun. Because it's the not the person who has the most toys in life who wins. It's the person with the most joys in life, who really wins.

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            Kathryn L Hillposted 2 years agoin reply to this

            Thank you, Castlepaloma, I appreciate the encouragement and I like and encourage you too. Your last line says it all.

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         Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

         Do good but don't chase people. You can't make anyone stay in your life if they are really not willing to stay. Keep the door open for them to come. Give them a chance but when you see they have gone just shut the door. Forgive them and  Move on! Be strong. I know it's difficult. It's difficult for me as well. But it's important too. Yes, Don't care but also don't talk bad about them. Set them free. This is also Love!
         Blessings!

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   Jodahposted 3 years ago

   Very wise words, Misbah. Blessings.

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      Misbah786posted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks a lot, John
      Many Blessings to you too

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   Li-Jen Hewposted 2 years ago

   Thank you for your quote @Misbah. I hope everything is going well for you.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much, Li-Jen. Yes, Everything is fine by the Grace of God. This is quite an old forum post. It appeared back in feed after a comment.
      Blessings to you!!!

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   Brenda Arledgeposted 2 years ago

   Misbah
   Wise words from a wise lady.
   Life goes on...it's sometimes hard to accept the fact that others do not like who you are, but time doesn't stop for anything.
   We must keep going, so we need to stop worrying & make each day count.
   Be happy for who we are.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Agreed. Exactly, We must keep going, so we need to stop worrying & make each day count.
      Blessings and Love to you

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   Readmikenowposted 2 years ago

   Reminds me of an old saying.
   
   "I'd rather have you hate me for telling you the truth than have you love me for telling you a lie."

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