Why people love being alone?
I am still trying to find its answer, but its true that even I love to be alone. But dont know the reason yet
I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be alone unless you are isolating yourself from people or situations you don't want to face.
some people are more outgoing and like people around, others prefer being alone. I would go crazy if I always had people around.. how do people think when they are always surrounded by others?
being alone gives time to think clearly, focus, dream, be.
those are all pluses.
I have a dear friend who never wanted to be alone because it made her feel worthless and lonely, but eventually she saw that her self worth did not come from others and now enjoys her alone time.
it wasn't being alone that made her feel worthless, but her own thoughts that she didn't have to hear when surrounded by others.
I think, as with anything, there is a balance.
- Ghost32posted 8 years ago
0A few reasons, for me at least:
1. Nobody telling you what to do.
2. You can hear yourself think, not to mentions hear the crickets chirp and the stream burble outside the window.
3. Nobody telling you what NOT to do.
4. No guilty conscience for not listening to others.
The list goes on....
I don't know if people love being alone. It just depends on your circumstances. You can be part of a large, loud family where you can't get any time to yourself, I can see why you'd love to be alone.
- lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago0
so they don't have to hold their farts in, sorry it was unavoidable
What's this bored thing?
Between work, hobbies, books, exercise, etc. I don't think I've ever experienced not having anything to do. I suppose one might seek companionship of others if they didn't have anything at all to do...though some of us seize the opportunity to play inside our own minds.
Check out my hubs about the people I live with...and you'll see why you like to be alone
- ssbrookhaven65posted 8 years ago0
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