How is a conversation between a man and a woman who are dating to be?

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   davvvvycposted 14 years ago

   what are the things that a girl wants and does not want to hear form a guy
   i want to know the do's and the do not's,when talking to her.like things that make her like me and things that do not
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   davvvvyc says
   
   Do you make her feel safe and loved by what you converse about? Is she accepted for who she is as a person by you? Agape love of God is to serve her in God's sight to give her what she wants and needs and not to teach selfishness by your attitude. If you pass this test of friendship perhaps your dating will be fruitful and forever! Your bodies are the Temple of the Holy Spirit and there to glorify God! God gave us marriage to give Covenants that are good and right for us and not self-destructive like mutual agreed upon sex would be prematurely to the marriage. She needs your courting but only after a date or three when you decide to pursue for her being 'right one' for ya. May God add HIs blessing! Add to your life from scripture what God has done in your heart to your conversations and build a ministry from God to you and, her to you, and you to her in the Holy Spirit. Make yours be a Divine Romance not a gaga one that turns bad. God is to be glorified in everything and to be enjoyed forever!

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      IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Just listen to her.  Look focused and sincere.
      
      Get laid, and praise his name.  I think Skyfire gave you a chant to try.
      
      Personally I like, Oh God Damn!  Oh god damn- there it is......!

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      speedbirdposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Say things that make her feel special..that way you will be guaranteed 'success'

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   skyfireposted 14 years ago

   Oh jesus, yes.. aah....

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      myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      you mean you actually understood all that??

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         skyfireposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         

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   AdsenseStrategiesposted 14 years ago

   Suggestion Number One:
   
   Do not be longwinded

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   Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

   Of course, your average woman wants to hear about religion during a first date.
   
   By the second date, the topic should move towards taxidermy.
   
   When you are ready to make your move… start talking about different burial practices…
   
   Just before you take out the condoms, get her hot and bothered  by reciting lines from Star Trek.
   
   Then go back to your parents basement alone and knock yourself out

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      AdsenseStrategiesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You're saying reciting lines from Star Trek is a BAD idea...?!

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         Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         As the Klingon's say 
         
         "SoH vetlh nIH"

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            wyanjenposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            phew. I'm so relieved that I do not understand that.
            It means I'm only an intermediate level nerd.
            

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      myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      
      
      bitter experience........

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         Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         A hands not just made just to say "Hi' to Vulcans, you know
         
         

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      IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Oh god Greek.  I love your humor and wit.  I can't stop laughing.  That is so great. 
      
      Oh no- I think I've pissed my pants.
      
      Damn your funny.  I think I'd sleep with you regardless or not, if we ever got to taxidermy.

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   wyanjenposted 14 years ago

   What a girl wants to hear from a guy:
   The truth. What he's thinking, what he wants, what he likes to do.
   
   What a girl does NOT want to hear from a guy:
   Some kind of manipulated conversation in which he tries to figure out what she wants him to say in order to make her like him.
   
   Friendship is tested by actions, not by how well you can twist something around in a conversation to give off an appearance.
   You don't make somebody feel safe, you let them feel safe by proving they can trust you. That can't happen if your idea of a communicating is guessing what she would want you to say.

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   sgoutsourcingposted 14 years ago

   This is a good topic, I believe that the security in which a woman seeks in a man says a lot.  The communication and listening to one another with allowing God to be first raises a standard.  A woman always like to hear how important they mean to the male.  There is something deep inside a woman that is of such nourishment that is needed from our mates that brings a new woman out with encouragment of stability of what they mean in the relationship.  When many women don't hear this, some get low self esteem and begin to view themselves as inappropriate in the relationship.

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   Lady Roseposted 14 years ago

   Be yourself. Dont try to be something you are not. Be genuinely interested in her, be loving, kind, ready to listen to whatever she has to say and not be judgemental. And honestly commend her for whatever she has done to herself to appear pretty to you.

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   ILuvUKentonposted 14 years ago

   Tell her how much you love her. Tell her how much she means to you and how you'll always be there for her.
   
   Girls don't like being made fun of. Don't make fun of her.
   Instead of calling her sexy call her beautiful or pretty instead.
   
   
   
   If you need any more advice, please let me know.
   I'll be happy to help.
   
   _THN_

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   ediggityposted 14 years ago

   The conversation should be like any other conversation.  Don't try to be someone you're not.  If you do, it will surely show, and you will look foolish. 

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    soneblomposted 14 years ago

    Interesting question.... as is usauly the case nervesness can lead to talking to much and saying things you could be embarassed about later, so think before you speak. Listen to what  is being said so you can answer or reply to the right question or add to the conversation.

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