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   Lecieposted 15 years ago

   what's the one thing about yourself that you've been waiting on your partner to notice and compliment?
   mine would have to be my willingness to put others needs before my own. but yours could even be a physical feature for instance i have a cute freckel on my right foot.

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      myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I have a brain too, you know.....

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         TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         Yes, this one is related to mine...It sounds like we're in the same boat.

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            myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

            yes, paper doll...you nailed it there!  Funny part is, every man I meet (not just my hubby) treats me the same...! Is that why you decided to turn into a spider instead?

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               TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

               That's right, MOW...and very insightful of you.
               
               Up here in my web, I have no need to worry about such things...and in the spider world, the ladies rule.

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                  myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                  ....or they can bite.....! ah.... wise spider....fragile yet strong!

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                     TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                     Thank you *bows*

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                        myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                        shine on....!  I'll call you our 'glow in the dark' spider...!

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                           TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                           AWESOME!! I love it.
                           
                           
                           I would suggest that if a man gets into a woman's mind and can stay there, he should have no problems revealing anything her more sensual nature has to offer.

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         tony0724posted 15 years agoin reply to this

         I knew that !

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   TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years ago

   The fact that I'm an actual human being and not the paper doll that he imagines I am.
   
   
   ETA:...although, I suppose he really doesn't count as a "partner" anymore. Though we share the same space (economic and other reasons), we are certainly no longer "together."

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   Lecieposted 15 years ago

   lol, that would be a big compliment coming from a man.

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      TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      LMAO So, you've found that other men have problems in that department as well?
      
      THank god...I was feeling so stupid for choosing this one...Lol

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   Lecieposted 15 years ago

   lol...you're not alone. i think i'm stupid becomes our motto until we realize it's not us it's them. but shhh don't tell anyone i said that. i don't want to have to do the dishes for the 14th time this month.lol

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      TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Hey! I found the secret to not having to wash dishes....I STOPPED COOKING FOR HIM MWahhahahahaha! LMAO...

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         Lecieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         i never thought of that. thanks for the tip.lol

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   Rafiniposted 15 years ago

   hhmmm, I have to think back to when I was married....hhmm...Anything that wasn't sexual in nature!  lol

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   TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years ago

   I swear...I'm not even all that hot, okay...but I can wear a burlap sack (or just a bulky t-shirt) and STILL have to tell guys "Uhh, hello...my face is UP HERE."

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      alternate poetposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Did he notice (like I just did) that you appear to have two left legs missing ?

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         TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         HAHAHAHAHA!! That's an old pic...that problem has since been corrected.

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         myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         see, now you're making the same mistake: look BEYOND the legs....!

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            alternate poetposted 15 years agoin reply to this

            Ahhhh   you are talking about feelings   now you have me interested.

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               myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

               oh no no! You jump from one extreme to the other!
               
               Looks............................. thoughts ............................... feelings!
               
               Get into her mind first....then see what follows!

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                  alternate poetposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                  NO NO NO stay with legs and things under that burlap sack, and feelings YUM YUM YUM 
                  
                  Sorry, I just don't know how to control myself, I try really hard to look girls in burlap sacks directly in the eye when I am talking to them, and really hard not to turn and look when a super pair of legs go by, I really do.  Really.

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                     TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                     hehehehe...well, at least you can talk about it honestly. Apparently it's quite difficult. Perhaps us ladies will have to try to understand...

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                     myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                     oh, you sound convincing alright!  now now...it's ok...we are complicated, aren't we? But glow in the dark just gave you the best advice ever up there!
                     
                     Mind...then heart...then body!! All yours to keep!...

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   TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years ago

   Yep! It's a top down thing rather than bottoms up...LOL

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      myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      
      
      ((( problem is, once they've had us, they DON'T want to keep us!  )))

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         TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         Yeah...I've heard this is a hard-wired thing. I wonder if  human morality gets in the way of the reality of instincts...I struggle with this issue...since I believe in the power of choice and free will.

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            myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

            hehe...now you're talking! See, that's where it gets more complicated: we want them to want us - in every possible way....and YET not chain us down....!
            
            anyway, keep glowing... see u around..!
            
            Edit: sorry Lecie for the hijacking!

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               TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

               You got it! Hey...am I following you? *goes to make sure I am*
               
               
               
               
               Yeah! Sorry Lecie!!! I'll bow out now...gotta finish my taxes. Ya'll have a good one!

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         alternate poetposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         This is a little sad   go and read my (only) love poem it might make you feel better!
         
         I have had many relationships, and for some reason, given that I am not such a pretty sight, many have been with beautiful girls. In my case it is them that did not want permanence or commitment when it came down to it, once they tired of 'using' me! As I learned literary criticism I read this phenomenon as to do with how men and women see each other, the old idea that men are 'presence' and women 'looked at', but this just disguises the division between the two that has been forced by many modern (last few hundred years) issues like the rise of commodity forced the issue of 'property' which leads on to feminism which leads on to separation.  One line of this argument says that women are free (quite rightly) and so must have certain rights but they can only take these from men who already possess them.
         
         The result is people too concerned about their own self to be able to give up enough of themselves to the other.
         
         BTW I am told I have a cute a*s.

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            Lecieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

            lets see a pic. of it sometime.

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   Lecieposted 15 years ago

   i vote that tomorrow we all go on strike until our partner compliments us. no mre lifting a finger for them until they tell us what we want to hear and they have to mean it.

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      TheGlassSpiderposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Good luck. I have already attempted this strategy...it's been months now.

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      myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      not a good idea! Think of the things you'll have to do for them AFTER they've complimented you and all....!
      
      @ Glow...um...best of luck with THAT... (taxes I mean...!)

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   sneakorocksolidposted 15 years ago

   You are all great and your partner needs to wake up! Just make sure you know what you want.

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