compliment
- Lecieposted 14 years ago
0I have a brain too, you know.....
yes, paper doll...you nailed it there! Funny part is, every man I meet (not just my hubby) treats me the same...! Is that why you decided to turn into a spider instead? 
That's right, MOW...and very insightful of you.
Up here in my web, I have no need to worry about such things...and in the spider world, the ladies rule.Thank you
*bows*- shine on....! I'll call you our 'glow in the dark' spider...!
The fact that I'm an actual human being and not the paper doll that he imagines I am.
ETA:...although, I suppose he really doesn't count as a "partner" anymore. Though we share the same space (economic and other reasons), we are certainly no longer "together."- Lecieposted 14 years ago0
lol, that would be a big compliment coming from a man.
- Lecieposted 14 years ago0
HAHAHAHAHA!! That's an old pic...that problem has since been corrected.
see, now you're making the same mistake: look BEYOND the legs....!
Ahhhh you are talking about feelings
now you have me interested.oh no no! You jump from one extreme to the other!
Looks............................. thoughts ............................... feelings!
Get into her mind first....then see what follows!NO NO NO stay with legs and things under that burlap sack, and feelings YUM YUM YUM
Sorry, I just don't know how to control myself, I try really hard to look girls in burlap sacks directly in the eye when I am talking to them, and really hard not to turn and look when a super pair of legs go by, I really do. Really.- oh, you sound convincing alright! now now...it's ok...we are complicated, aren't we? But glow in the dark just gave you the best advice ever up there!
Mind...then heart...then body!! All yours to keep!...
((( problem is, once they've had us, they DON'T want to keep us! )))hehe...now you're talking! See, that's where it gets more complicated: we want them to want us - in every possible way....and YET not chain us down....!
anyway, keep glowing... see u around..!
Edit: sorry Lecie for the hijacking!
This is a little sad
go and read my (only) love poem it might make you feel better!
I have had many relationships, and for some reason, given that I am not such a pretty sight, many have been with beautiful girls. In my case it is them that did not want permanence or commitment when it came down to it, once they tired of 'using' me! As I learned literary criticism I read this phenomenon as to do with how men and women see each other, the old idea that men are 'presence' and women 'looked at', but this just disguises the division between the two that has been forced by many modern (last few hundred years) issues like the rise of commodity forced the issue of 'property' which leads on to feminism which leads on to separation. One line of this argument says that women are free (quite rightly) and so must have certain rights but they can only take these from men who already possess them.
The result is people too concerned about their own self to be able to give up enough of themselves to the other.
BTW I am told I have a cute a*s.lets see a pic. of it sometime.
- Lecieposted 14 years ago0
Good luck. I have already attempted this strategy...it's been months now.
not a good idea! Think of the things you'll have to do for them AFTER they've complimented you and all....! @ Glow...um...best of luck with THAT... (taxes I mean...!)
- sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago0
You are all great and your partner needs to wake up! Just make sure you know what you want.
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