How many times a week should a couple have sex?

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   optimus grimlockposted 14 years ago

   I say atleast 5 times a week, just depends on whats going on in your lives!

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      well seeing as how I never had a regular girl friend before.  well i did, but i wouldn't call them exactly normal relationships...well maybe one but it wasn't that intimate.  lol.  however, if it were me and she'd be agreeable to it, I would say at least two to three times a day or more if things really heated up.    lol.

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   LeanManposted 14 years ago

   At least twice... per day!!!

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   SomewayOuttaHereposted 14 years ago

   how about including 'good, steamy, sex' in that question - rather than something that sounds like going through the motions.......and gettin' it over with.......X times a week. LOL!
   
   back to work - takin' a break and there was the question.....

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   Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

   you mean with each other??

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      LeanManposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I don't think on your own counts... lol

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         Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         damn.. there goes my stats from my teenage years

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            LeanManposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I think we need a fuller definition of SEX, after all Clinton said that certain acts were not actually sex..

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               Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               exactly... for me as a married man, I would like 'sex' to include watching re-runs of Baywatch in the nude by myself while I eat ice cream

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                  LeanManposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Baywatch is banned here..... Ice cream is ok as long as you eat it in separate sides of the store and not with a woman... The most erotic thing I see is women dressed as Ninjas all the time...

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                     Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ninja-loving

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                        LeanManposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        Each time you unwrap one you never know what you will get...

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   Rafiniposted 14 years ago

   as often as they feel like it. 0-35

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      scratch my previous answer.  i like rafini's better.  lol.

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         Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         
         
         
         so, you can live with 0 on occasion?

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            Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            lol.  yeah, i can.  as long as I can get the 35 more often than the zero.      besides, i have a lot of energy when it comes to certain....things.  lol.  not to brag or anything, but that's what my ex told me.  although she broke up with me immediately after we did it, but still that's what she said. it's a long story.

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   Cagsilposted 14 years ago

   Couples who are exclusive to themselves, should have sex as often as the two of them feel like having it.
   
   If the couples are not exclusive, then it would depend on much more other factors.

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   SomewayOuttaHereposted 14 years ago

   yea - but don't forget the 'good, steamy sex' part.
   
   LOL!

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   SomewayOuttaHereposted 14 years ago

   okay where is the female perspective......you guys are just too busy.....with your thoughts on this  - what about the good part?

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      Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      you mean when she gets up to make me a sandwich?

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         SomewayOuttaHereposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         LOL - that's what I'm getting at......

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   optimus grimlockposted 14 years ago

   Any type of sex between a man and woman.

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    myownworldposted 14 years ago

    Depends on what stage you are in your relationship:
    
    Start : when do you NOT have sex?!
    A few years down the road : Once/twice a week
    Several years + kids later : yawn...too tired...
    Eventually : Sex, what's that?

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       LeanManposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I hope not.... Been married a while and it is still when ever and where ever we can.... lol

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          myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          you'll get there my friend, no worries...

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    Kathryn LJposted 14 years ago

    You mean people have sex every week!

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    dawnMposted 14 years ago

    Hi I wrote an article with just like that, and many hub viewers answered it in the reality hub series if you want to take a look.  http://hubpages.com/hub/how-many-times- … e-have-sex

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    WaffleCheeseposted 14 years ago

    Keep your sex life private and you'll be fine on the amount.

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    Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

    one should have sex with one's partner as many times as it take to assure that one's partner feels fully satisfied and relaxed....
    
    then it is time to go back home to your wife

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       myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       

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       Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       

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    Kathryn LJposted 14 years ago

    LOL!!! May I refer you to Sex, procreation or a female ploy for world domination - the world according to Zoidberg.  It says more about sex than I could on the forum. HaHA

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    Richieb799posted 14 years ago

    well I was on holiday with an ex once and we did it 5-6 times over 2.5 days lol

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       Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       6 times over 2 1/2 days!?!?!
       
       By my estimation, that's a total of 10 full minutes of sweet loving

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          Richieb799posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Nah I go for at least an hour and a half each time lol (Ive been compared to a bunny rabbit before) So I feel quite adequate

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             Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             I;ve been compared to a rabbit too... but I always tell them that size doesnt matter

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             Spacey Graceyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Richie - is that the Duracell bunny or the other poor rabbit in the ad that runs out of steam???

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    Ben Evansposted 14 years ago

    I always say quality over quantity.  If a person has enough time to have sex all day long, then that is great.  So 6 to 8 hours, sounds good to me.  How many times can a person have sex in that period of time?
    
    In all seriousness, I think there is an expectaion that people have and when they dont have sex as often as they believe the should they think something is wrong.  There is a lot of sexual disfunction.  I think a couple must discuss it and see what their expections are and try to have something that will be amenable to both partners.  I think all too often people dont talk and hold anger inside as well frustration.  It is shocking if we looked at how often people actually have sex with their partner and compare it to the the expectaions they have.
    
    The answer should be........A amount that would be amenable to both partners.
    
    If you have very little sex and you think you should have more you will be unhappy.  Sometimes time limits it so we just need to talk and be realistic.

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    leebertteaposted 14 years ago

    It's a silly question really, I mean are you going to keep a list and count? Sex like that would be meaningless when it should be spontaneous, like an explosion, a sudden burst of combustion started by the spark of a look, a touch, a gentle pat or squeeze of the bum and then an eruption into flames of frantic passion. Sex isn't something you do on a schedule, lets see we have to f**k 5 times this week so when will it be good for you? Ridiculous! If you feel passionate enough about your partner you'll both have more than enough sex in a week, that is if you can ever have enough sex!

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    jondavposted 14 years ago

    i'd settle for once lol

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    as often as I can get it up these days.

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