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Do girls really like shy guys?

  1. Sonic241928 profile image59
    Sonic241928posted 7 years ago

    Let's say he has cool interests, but he's just not very talkative or the "live of the party."  And, let's say he's just a little bit nervous sometimes.

    Can girls (on average) really fall for a guy like that?

    1. Kimberly Bunch profile image60
      Kimberly Bunchposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Sure if the guy is making eye contact! Enough so, to let her know what's up. Throw in a smile and if she's interested she will approach you. At least given the opportunity to do so.

      smile

    2. Rick Radcliff profile image58
      Rick Radcliffposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Of course, just don't be shy about the fact that you like a girl, which pretty much goes along with what Kimberly said. Plus, most people are only shy in certain situations or places. When they're in their comfort zone, they can be talkative and the life of the party.

      Seriously though, don't think about it too much if possible.

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        speak for yourself.  i usually hate talking about myself, but i don't mind asking others about their lives. besides, outside of hubpages, my life is pretty dull to say the least.  lol.  trust me, i live my life almost exactly the opposite of hugh hefner.  he's rich and gets all the women.  me, im broke and i couldn't get a girl to like me to save my life.  lol.  oh well.  im not upset about it, as i've been blessed in other ways, as a friend once showed me.

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          Lecieposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          i like you steven and i've fallen for a guy that's even duller than you. it's not what a guy talks about that i go for but how they treat me. if he can't take his eyes off mine and just adds some funny comments or input when i talk about something to me he's worth his weight in gold. especially if he acts like a gentleman by opening doors and things like that. i don't care what he has to say or how interesting it is as long as he shows that he enjoys what i have to say.

          1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
            Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

            aw thanks lecie.  i appreciate you saying that.  however, i wasn't trying to put myself down though.  i was just making a joke about myself.  besides, rodney dangerfield did that to himself all the time, so i just say stuff like that to be funny.  however, i guess online it comes out wrong though.  lol.  oh well.  besides, i know im a great guy for any girl to have but at the same time, I know im not brad pitt or sam worthington.  as im sure if a sane woman had to choose me or one of them, then i doubt seriously I'd have a snowball's chance in hell of getting the girl.  lol.  hell, im not gay but if i was that girl, i'd pick one of those guys over me.  lol.  sorry folks.  im a realist as you all can tell.  as a amateur film critic on here, i make it a point to never ignore the obvious.

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              Lecieposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              i would chose you over them, i've heard from their past flames that they are jerks. brad for instance refused to have kids with jennifer, then he divorces her and has kids with angelina. doesn't make any sense to me. i like a guy that's always honest about what he wants and usually has the girls best interest at the heart of it. yes sometimes without hearing the words directly something meant to be a joke looks serious in type. sorry i misunderstood and hope you're doing well.

              1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
                Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

                aw thanks lecie.  i appreciate you saying that. i would definitely pick you too over jolie and aniston anyday.  wink  although i don't usually follow hollywood couples, as i don't care about their lives.  however, everyone that i know in real life does, and from what i heard was that brad actually wanted to have a baby with jennifer aniston.  in fact, that whole ross getting rachel pregnant bit, on friends, was actually brad's idea, as he wanted her to have his kid.  this way she wouldn't have to hide her pregnancy during the show.  however, she didn't want to have kids, so he left her for Jolie.  but you are right.  one would think that if you love someone so much to marry them, then it wouldn't take you less than a year to find someone else and marry them.  to me that just says, i never loved you in the first place and your expendable.  however, that's just my thoughts anyways.

        2. Rick Radcliff profile image58
          Rick Radcliffposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          The so-called "life of the party" is often the person who shows interest in others, and enjoys listening to them. It doesn't necessarily have much to do with talking about yourself. Although, it does help if you can listen and relate to the person you're talking to. Hence, "relationship."

          Also, Steven, you seem to have no problem talking about yourself here on hubpages in your comfort zone.

          1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
            Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

            oh that.  well in real life nobody ever listens to what i have to say half the time, or they just dismiss it immediately.  hence, why i can express myself so much better on hubpages, as i feel like people here understand me better and actually LISTEN to what i have to say.  where as in real life, i have a hard time articulating my opinions about anything in general.  lol.  which might explain why most people think im simple minded when they talk to me but when they see my writings on here, they can't believe it's the same guy that stutters a lot, who wrote such BRILLIANT film reviews.  lol.  don't ask me why, it just something people have told me a million times in real life that read my work on hubpages.

    3. Stevennix2001 profile image91
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      depends on the girl we're talking about here.  plus, it also depends on like how nervous the guy acts around the girl.  if we're talking shy as you said not very talkative much, then that might be fine.  if we're talking about nervous as in making a complete imbecile of yourself, then i would say no.

    4. the pink umbrella profile image81
      the pink umbrellaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Yes! as long as they arent too shy to show they like you, than shy gys are just as awesom. Im not really head over heels for the life of the party anyway..

      1. Sonic241928 profile image59
        Sonic241928posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        That's encouraging!

  2. cupid51 profile image76
    cupid51posted 7 years ago

    I would like to say that it is very difficult to analyze the criteria of liking between a man and a woman! Sometimes a handsome man likes a most ordinary looking girl, sometimes a most beautiful girl likes an totally unattractive man! It is really unexplainable! mad

  3. EmmaMedu profile image80
    EmmaMeduposted 7 years ago

    If he is smart and has cool interests, but talk about it all the time and doesn't need anyone else to know about it, he can be very attractive to women.
    It all depends on woman's taste. Some women like very easy going men, while others like those who don't talk much, but act when the right time comes.

  4. luvpassion profile image60
    luvpassionposted 7 years ago

    I never did in school...I always liked bold guys that weren't afraid to approach me.

    I'm not saying shy guys aren't great...they could be, but how would you ever know.

  5. PeppermintPaddy profile image67
    PeppermintPaddyposted 7 years ago
  6. PeppermintPaddy profile image67
    PeppermintPaddyposted 7 years ago

    I like shy guys but always seem to choose the bold, aggressive, self-obsessed guys.

    1. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Ditto!!!!

  7. blondepoet profile image75
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Love is such a funny thing.
    A women has a way to even draw the shyness out of a guy if she desires.
    Why look at that show 'Beauty And The Geek'.

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      klarawieckposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      A woman can drive a shy man insane by talking nonstop for five hours straight... especially if she talks about fashion, makeup, the new victoria secret models, and her pilates class.

      1. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        LMAO smile smile
        At times I think a woman can drive anyone crazy lol as well

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          logic,commonsenseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Your hubs drive me crazy, but in a good way! smile

    2. profile image67
      logic,commonsenseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Isn't that "The Beauty and the Greek One"? smile
      Do you have the desire to draw the shyness out of me? smile

      1. blondepoet profile image75
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Well lets pretend you are shy ROFL for starters, and of course I will, I have seen change already lol. smile
        You are an easy pupil Logic, top of the class.

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          logic,commonsenseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Aw shucks BP, I'm blushing from my head to my head! smile
          How'd you know I was easy?

          1. blondepoet profile image75
            blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I used my inner sensory esp tactile respirators, I have many special abilities Logic smile
            I feel my way as a basic rule.

            1. profile image67
              logic,commonsenseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              A list of those special abilities can be emailed to me!
              You can feel my 'way' as well! smile

              1. blondepoet profile image75
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                smile smile

            2. Eric Graudins profile image60
              Eric Graudinsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I can definitely confirm that !!! lol

              1. blondepoet profile image75
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                I showed Eric the basics on the back of his Harley going through crocodile infested outback roads in Tassie.
                LMAO great memory

                1. Eric Graudins profile image60
                  Eric Graudinsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  Not a Harley - a BMW.
                  But I fully understand that you were in no condition to recognise the type of bike at the time lol

                  1. Mark Knowles profile image58
                    Mark Knowlesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    And she breaks the first rule. sad

                    Never, ever, ever accuse a BMW rider of riding a Harley. wink

                  2. blondepoet profile image75
                    blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    Hahahaha oh what a condition I must have been in.
                    Dang your home brew must have packed a punch.
                    Ohhh now I remember isnt that the car I parked in that big blue box

                    http://s2.hubimg.com/u/916101_f248.jpg

  8. waynet profile image78
    waynetposted 7 years ago

    I'm a shy guy...... big_smile

    1. blondepoet profile image75
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Oooooooo I can tell. smile smile

      1. waynet profile image78
        waynetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Shabba.....!

        1. blondepoet profile image75
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Awww you widdle shy thing you. I'll widdle you out your widdle shell LMAO.

          1. waynet profile image78
            waynetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            hehe...she said widdle......lol!

  9. SomewayOuttaHere profile image60
    SomewayOuttaHereposted 7 years ago

    ..sure...it could depend on age etc...my ex was quiet and reserved (if that is what you mean by shy) when i first met him...but that changed as he became more comfortable...the reason for his quietness was a transformation happening in his life...

  10. Pearldiver profile image81
    Pearldiverposted 7 years ago

    Is it true that they are often 'Pre-maturely' Shy as well? yikes hmm

    1. Sonic241928 profile image59
      Sonic241928posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Well what do you mean?

  11. kmackey32 profile image63
    kmackey32posted 7 years ago

    I do now... Loud ones are trouble... lol i conflict with loud men because I am loud....lol

  12. habee profile image95
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    I prefer assertive men.

  13. Rod Marsden profile image76
    Rod Marsdenposted 7 years ago

    Gals can fall for shy guys. I have an aunt who married a shy guy and they are very happy together. They are opposites in many ways. She can talk your ear off about anything. He brightens up when you talk photography.

    Generally speaking gals who do fall for shy guys virtually have to hit them over the head with a lump of wood and drag them into their caves. This is something not every gal is prepared to do.

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Hello. My name is Charlie, and I'm shy. It must be true, always has been for me. big_smile

  15. habee profile image95
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Yeah, right. We believe you, Charlie. Uh-huh.

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    big_smile big_smile big_smile

 
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