Hello, fellow hubbers, it has come to my notice that young girls at the age of sixteen are have boyfriends. so can any man marry such girls at that age?
It depends on what country you are in - here in England I believe it is 18, or 16 with parental consent. Mind you, lots of 16 year olds might have boyfriends, but would absolutely not want to get married. And most of these relationships will not last or be long term, 16 is so young. Most people wouldn't want to get married until around 25 plus.
so why should society allow their children to have boy friends at that age
Why does having a relationship mean that you must get married?
It sounds like you're coming from a religious background here. Too many marriages based on a short relationship or parental selection end up with problems such as abuse or violence. I'm not saying that self selected ones don't, but at least with self selection one can make the choice.
Where do you live, Joe? Societies all around the world are different - here, marriage is not something to rush into but something to be sure about. Here, most people live together before getting married - something that has changed dreastically over the last 40 years or so. In fact, marriage is something which has come to be a personal choice - many couples do not get married at all, or wait years before tying the knot. Some get married younger, but either way it no longer matters.
Hence, if I had a 16 year old daughter I would be pretty horrified if she wanted to marry at 16, and I would not give consent. I would want her to wait and be sure she had met the right person, go to university etc., find her way in life. Marriage at a young age is more likely to lead to divorce. But in my opinion there is nothing wrong with a 16 year old having a boyfriend, without thinking that she has to settle down for life.
I believe in most countries, a young person who is below the age of maturity (generally agreed to be 18 or 21), must have either the parents or the courts permission to legally wed.
I'm not in favor of a sixteen year-old girl to get marry. She is not yet capable of building her own family. She is too young and still immature in handling her responsibilities. She can't be a goo mother and wife. And she still haven't enjoy her single life.
by Delilah3 years ago
Why is my sixteen year old so determined to annoy me?Into boys, she wants to be able to go hang out at night, doesn't care about her school work, and has just had a bad attitude lately towards me!
by Ultimate Hubber4 months ago
If you fell in love with someone 20 years elder than you, would you marry them?
by Lewis Wanjohi5 years ago
When a 19 year old asks you whether or not to marry at that age, whats the right answer
by mdlawyer5 years ago
Is there anything wrong if a man of 50 and a woman of 20 want to marry?
by Shivani Gala2 years ago
Is there a 'right' age to get married? Why?We all grow up being told some day you will have to get married. However, each culture traditionally has a 'right' age to marry. Things have changed since and I wanted to know...
by dashingscorpio4 years ago
Is age really just a number?Hugh Hefner age (86) founder of Playboy Magazine, married Crystal Harris, age (26), last night on New Year's Eve in an intimate ceremony at the Playboy Mansion in Los Angeles. Does he love...
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners.
Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners.
HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc.
HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.