Should a Woman's Virginity be for sale?

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   Stevennix2001posted 14 years ago

   Ladies, would you ever sell your virginity for money?  And if so, for what price would it be worth it to lose your virginity to someone that you don't even know or love?  Do you find it empowering to women to have this kind of control, even knowing that it could make you as much as 4 million dollars too.  Granted, I know this is probably a fictitious story by the maury show, but here's a clip of the video if you want to see it.
   
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qmC_sgdJYCQ
   
   
   what i would like to ask you ladies are, pretend your still a virgin (if your not already), and ask yourself...is it worth selling your virginity for sex?  Sure, you can earn potentially a lot of money, but is it worth it?  Please discuss. I would like to apologize to anyone that this forum offends in advance, and I mean no ill offense by it. I was just simply curious after i saw the video on youtube while searching videos on a hub i was working on. 
   
   edit:  the hub i was looking for videos for was for the film, "Virginity Hit" by the way, in case anyone is curious to ask.

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   Stevennix2001posted 14 years ago

   i guess nobody has anything to say.

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      WryLiltposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Was waiting to see who else jumped in - plus I'm just about to head to work.
      
      I think it depends on the girl - I don't think I would have had a problem selling mine if needed. I always swore it wouldn't be with a guy I planned to marry.
      
      But if the girl had a lot of emotional attachment issues or saw the first time as a big deal (ie christian background), then I'd say no, she shouldn't.

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         Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         thanks wrylit. i appreciate you giving us your take on this.  although i can't say i agree with the ethics or morals behind such a thing.  then again, it's the girl's choice to do what she wants. thanks alot for the input before heading off to work.

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   Rhysjcposted 14 years ago

   Well I wouldn't want to buy it.

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      neither would i. can you honestly believe according to that maury story, that woman got like almost 4 million dollars for her virginity?  damn, that's just sad about our society these days.  then again, i know if i sold my virginity, i'd be lucy to get a damn penny.  lol. of course, im not a woman either, and i'm no brad pitt either, so it's not that surprising. lol

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   Cagsilposted 14 years ago

   Should a Woman's Virginity be for sale?
   
   I guess that would be a woman's choice. Pretty much ends the rest of the discussion, due to the fact that someone else shouldn't be able to tell her that she isn't allowed to, because it's her body.

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   alternate poetposted 14 years ago

   I wouldn't bother buying anyones virginity, I have found virgins to be hard work and unsatisying on the whole, and when they become a non-virgin they are so noisy and self obsessed.  Once they have achieved non-virgin status they seem to think that they 'own' you in some way, frequently getting 'clingy' and almost always they telephone constantly after the event to either castigate you and blame you for their condition, whatever non-virgin condition is, or they keep banging on the door whimpering 'again, again' and just will not go away.  I personally am sick of the whole thing and have decided to give them up, really they are not worth the trouble, and paying for it, well that is just virgin on the ridiculous !

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   klarawieckposted 14 years ago

   Oh Steven! Of course I'm insulted!!! I had no idea we could put a price on this! Why didn't you tell me twenty years ago?!!!

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      because i didn't know about it twenty years ago, as i was only ten years old back then.  lol.  i doubt seriously a ten year old would know a lot about sex outside of hearsay. lol.  anyways, im sorry about that.  lol.  im sure the guy you lost your virginity to though was a very lucky man.

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         klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         That's why I'm insulted! You should have told me ten years ago when I was young and fresh! Who would want a 35 year old virgin now?!

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            Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            your 35?  wow, you look very young for your age in your avatar though.  in fact, when i first saw you, i thought you were like 19 or something.  you look very good for your age, so im sure a lot of guys would want you.

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               klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               It's amazing what a good camera and the right light can do!

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                  DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  and a happy smile.

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                  Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  well you look very sexy if you ask me.  i'm sure that picture probably doesn't do you justice i bet, as im willing to bet your a lot more attractive in real life.

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                     DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     see..thats a good compliment!!  oops..sorry to intrude..

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                        Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        lol. nah, its okay. i appreciate the advice. lol.

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                           DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           no prob, and I like your kitty.

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                              Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              aw thanks. well hes actually not my kitty. i just used this pic once to promote a hub i wrote about war, and liked it so much that i use it sometimes as my avatar.  i like your avatar too by the way. 

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                                 DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 well, I know. Ive seen that kitty around, but I like him anyway.
                                 
                                 and sure, that klara chick is hot.  her hubby better appreciate it. 
                                 
                                 oh, just saw that last bit. Thank you.  Its me, about three weeks ago. I got a new shirt.

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                                    Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                    well it looks very good on you.

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               DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               steven.....hint..never say "for your age" its like..oh!! your old..ok you look good. I know thats not what you meant at all, but its how it feels...just so you know.    Just say...damn woman, your hot!!  that works.
               
               and to answer your question, I personaly didnt have a choice, it was taken, and so now I would say...no way.  I would not sell it. BUT if some ohter girl chooses to do so, in sound mind, thats her business I would not find fault with it.

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                  Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  oh okay.  thanks for the advice. i didn't realize i shouldn't say "for your age" when complimenting a girl, as i'm still learning how to flirt. thanks for the heads up. sorry to hear about what happened to you regarding your virginity though.

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                     DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     nah, its fine.
                     
                     I just figured, you might like a girls input. I only speak for myself tho..Im sure others may disagree. But I hate in when people say..OH!!! you look good, for having three kids. Like..umm. would I look bad if I hadnt had three kids? why not just say...you look good.  like I said, just my feelings, and your welcome.

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   prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

   it is priceless so you give it to the one you're going to marry

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   klarawieckposted 14 years ago

   Steve, DoorMattnomore is what you call a pretty girl. But trust me when I tell you, I look more like a real mermaid, not like the fictitious character.
   

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      DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I like mermaids.  really.  not "little mermaid" but..you know...  man, I should shut up!!

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         klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         

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            DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            good thing this is under "akward moments" huh? hahahahaa

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               klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Sounds like you're tired?

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                  DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  tomorrow is my 11 year wedding anniversary. I spent all day proclaiming how things are better. That, and housework, laundry dishes etc. I have three kids that I homeschool, thats not easy. I also have insomnia, among a host of other ..."issues" that Im dealng with. I love my hubby with all my heart, and hes just a guy, I get that. Things have been rough for a while but they are/were looking up.
                  
                  Hes currently passed out drunk and I had to explain to the kids why he didnt kiss them good night.
                  
                  Im slightly pissed. and tired.

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                     Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     im sorry to hear that happened to you doormatt.  i hope things get better for you.

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                        DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        thank you, they will. Notice i said ..slightly.. 

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                           Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           i know. i was just trying to be nice.  it's a shame that your husband treats you like that sometimes.

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                              DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              you are nice. thank you. and he doesnt mean to. hes just a human, with problems. I knew it when I married him. "in sickness and in health" ya know? thanks agian tho.

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                     klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Oh DoorMattnomore, I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you guys talk it out tomorrow once he's back to being himself. I am blessed to be married to a man who does not like alcohol at all, but he suffers of anxiety and you never know how he'll react to change of plans. He's good to me and all, but sometimes it's difficult to deal with him. Just know you are not alone on this. We all have our marital issues.
                     I hope you get some sleep. Tomorrow will be another day.

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                        DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        yup. tomorrow is always a nice promise. dont get me wrong, I love my guy dearly. I understand and it will be fine. But for right this second...Im not going to bed just yet....
                        
                        we have pretty awesome good plans for this weekend, and its going to great, Im sure. After 11 years, you kinda get to know somebody. While Im annoyed, I know Ill get over it. 
                        
                        and over here, Im the one with anxiety issues he has to put up with. Wich he does nicely. 

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                           klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           That's good. I put up with his anxiety attacks too but he's worth it. He has so many great qualities! Can't complaint. I'm not perfect either. You know, I think this is a good topic for forum. I think I'll start one. Let's see who participates!

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                              DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              it is a good topic, and I will participate tomorrow, but Im fading fast and off to bed.
                              
                              
                              have a good night all!!

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                                 Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 goodnight doormatt

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                                    klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                    Good night Doormatnomore. See you around!

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                                       DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Nah, I doubt that. I bet in real life your a knock out.

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   Catering101posted 13 years ago

   I would if my life depended on it...but otherwise, I wouldn't dare myself to be in such a situation. It's just too humiliating for me.

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      yeah, i don't see why anyone would want to be put into that type of situation, unless they're that desperate for money.  i mean this poor girl has no idea what kind of guy might buy up her virginity, as he might be a deranged murder for all she knows.

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    Disturbiaposted 13 years ago

    If you're going to sell it you can only sell it once, so go for the highest price.

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       Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       good point.

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