I believe the word you used to start the thread explains it!!! Pure selfishness! Its sad, but true! Some people think their feelings are more superior than others! Why would you not want someone yet not expect them to be with someone else? That person is full of it. Usually this type of person has already moved on and taken on a new love, yet expect you to be alone! Nonsense! Pure selfish, egotistical bull hockey! Ignore their rantings and move on with your life!