the things a good husband must do

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  1. yemi-yemo profile image47
    yemi-yemoposted 7 years ago

    A good husband must be understand  the nature of his wife and relate with her with all understanding, even when comes to sex.
    This has really help my marriage.

    1. Julie2 profile image60
      Julie2posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      A good husband should not deny his wife sex and use the "I am tired from work" excuse whenever she wants to get intimate.

      A good husband should learn that manscaping is a must especially if you like your wife to give you oral sex. Getting hair caught in the back of your throat isn't fun.

      A good husband should always make sure that his wife... let me stop! LOL.

      I got caught up in the moment, sorry...

    2. profile image45
      michaelhuyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      He must learn to cook meal for the family in case wife is too tired to cook food.
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  2. Cagsil profile image81
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    The only things that a man should do with regards to marriage..

    (a) be trustworthy
    (b) be patient
    (c) be accepting
    (d) be a listener
    (e) be a conversationalist

    There are no other things a man should do.

    1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image59
      SomewayOuttaHereposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      oh yea?...what about the sexxxx? what about the money, honey? and cookin' and cleanin' and all that?...lol  ...hey Cags!

      1. Cagsil profile image81
        Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Cooking and cleaning? This is ridiculous. I realize, that you are not on the same page as I am, but that's okay.

        I'm a domesticated man already, before marriage, so a marriage wouldn't change that. hmm

        1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image59
          SomewayOuttaHereposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          that's good to know Cags....and stick with it.....i've heard that story before...it changed though shortly after 'i do'....how's that?.....not sayin' you'd do that...but it happens....believe me!.

          1. Cagsil profile image81
            Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I can believe it. I don't doubt it's happened to you. And, I would think that you of all people wouldn't lump "all" husbands in the same basket, as your experience as lead you to believe.

            I'm a domesticated man and have no issues with cooking or cleaning my place. A wife, isn't a housemaid. wink

    2. habee profile image94
      habeeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Sorry, Cags - I think a man should also help support his family.

      1. Cagsil profile image81
        Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        This statement is absurd. It is common knowledge husband has to work, and most often not, so does the woman. So please. hmm

        1. Aficionada profile image85
          Aficionadaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I dunno Cags....  I have to say I see a huge heapin' helpin' of humor in the fact that an unmarried man is telling married women what a good husband must do.  I honestly can't tell whether you are being ironic in all of this or not.  big_smile

        2. habee profile image94
          habeeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I agree that the woman should help support the family, also. It should be a shared responsibility.

    3. Julie2 profile image60
      Julie2posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Cagsil, I agree that a husband should be trustworthy, patient, accepting, a listener, and conversationalist. You are so right on those. If those things stood that way many women would be blessed and there wouldn't be many divorces.

      SomewayOuttaHere, Sex is a big must have. Men seem to blame the woman as being the one to always deny it. I have found from having conversations with girlfriends that alot of men are the ones that are saying "No!" Hard to believe but true.

    4. profile image51
      jaymazkeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Cagsil I agree whole heartedly with the comments made about what a man needs to be, the exact way a woman should be too. I relationship should be approached from the aspect that each person is on a journey of discovery, therefore expect nothing from each other and gain everything.

  3. Happyboomernurse profile image84
    Happyboomernurseposted 7 years ago

    My husband is a good husband. He loves, honors and respects me, helps me grow, gives me support through rough times, and makes me laugh every day. He is my best buddy and we can share most everything, yet encourage each other to do some things independently so that when we see each other again at the end of the day there's more to share. I thank God for him every day am and truly blessed to have him as my spouse.

    1. habee profile image94
      habeeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I feel EXACTLY the same way about my hubby!

      1. Happyboomernurse profile image84
        Happyboomernurseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Cool! We are both blessed.

  4. ketchup101 profile image58
    ketchup101posted 7 years ago

    A good husband must be responsible.He has to make sure that he gives the care and love that his wife deserves. And he should be understanding and honest to his wife to make their marriage last.

  5. profile image46
    John Wiggensposted 7 years ago

    I guess I'am the bad apple in the barrel.
    I'm not the least bit interested in intimacy, to me its creppy.
    Last time we had sex was 25 years ago. Wife is not happy about that or the other things in our marriage. But after 43 years of marriage I have become hardened by it all.
    Now to old to even talk about sex and god see our selves naked.
    YUCK !!!!!! I don't want to even touch her body. I will continue to be me not say a word, fix things around the house, cook, help with the cleaning. And when there is nothing else to do go hide in the basement.

 
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