For happy marriage communication is must

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   falgunimishraposted 14 years ago

   I THINK FOR ANY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION IS MUST .
   
   If you think that your relation should survive for ever then it is must.Marriage is a beautiful thing there is nothing in this world.It is that relation after which you don't need any other relation or I want to say that husband plays all in one role .He plays as a father, brother, mother ,sister& definitely as a best friend but only when if you have got a good human being.
   
       A perfect or good human being I mean who have a good understanding,affection& love for you from the bottom of the heart,no any showmanship, honest for you,the last thing which is very important that is with whom you feel safe& secure.
   
   For explaining the importance of this relation I want to take the reference of real story of my friend to whom from the childhood I know her . She is Indu I know her nature very well she is very loving , honest ,intelligent & so simple she didn't have a any big imagination regarding her husband . Before marriage she used to tell me that " I WANT A BEST FRIEND AS A HUSBAND WHO CARE FOR ME A LOT" but after marriage her all imagination get in vain.her husband is very reserve never express the feelings .Her husband had a relation with some characterless girl  who even after his marriage always demanded money & her husband gave it .When Indu came to know all this she  fought with him & instead of understanding her he abused her .He is a an alcoholic & lier also.Several times he beaten her  she have one child also .He told her that I CAN ABUSE YOU BUT CAN'T ABUSE THAT GIRL.So if he told her clearly before marriage that fraud girl is more important than any thing else so atleast her life might be saved.Now she is living seperately with her child.
   
   On the conclusion I would like to say that clear communication is must and after any kind of dispute they should communicate to each other.Verbal dispute can be tolerable but in any condition physical violence should not be tolerate .
   
   Now at the same time if your husband is not good for you then there is no enemy is greater than he .
   
   Communication is act as a breathing agent for healthy relationship. Suppose if you are angry than shout loudly over each other but don't keep in heart say it frankly.But after shouting over each other hug each other then seriously it will melt all your bitterness of your relationship in a few seconds.

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   Pearldiverposted 14 years ago

   Thank You Very Much
   
   I Am Single.... But I Always Find That I get the right Answers Whenever I communicate the Question to myself!

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      falgunimishraposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      thanx a lot for responding me.

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   falgunimishraposted 14 years ago

   Thank you very much for responsing me.

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   dianne143posted 14 years ago

   this is great

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      falgunimishraposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      It is nice to read your message thanx and keep in touch.

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   Zubair Ahmedposted 14 years ago

   You very correct correct open communication between two married people is a must.  Also trust, forgiveness, and overlook short comings.

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      falgunimishraposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      THANX FOR SENDING COMMENTS. IT IS NICE TO READ YOUR COMMENTS. U R MOST WELCOME.

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   kirstenblogposted 14 years ago

   Good stuff, you should put in a hub. Folks can leave comments there of course and if outside traffic finds it they could A. Be helped by you and B. You could possibly earn a little bit from it over time.
   
   Definitely got a potential great hub there

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      falgunimishraposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      A NICE COMMENTS   FOR WRITING WE NEED READERS LIKE YOU THANX A LOT

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