Fall in love with a guy/gal contrary to your ideal man/woman?

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   aleyahposted 13 years ago

   will you fall in love with a guy or gal who is entirely different with your ideal man or woman?

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      Shahid Bukhariposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      The Chemistry of love, is beyond, differences, and similarities !
      
      Love is Giving, without expecting anything in return ...
      But be careful, don't throw away your life, and dignity, in the name of loving.
      
      One who truly loves you, Respects you, in both word and deed.

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      noyon_kuposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I think the term ideal is vary from man to man.

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   Internetwriter62posted 13 years ago

   I guess anything is possible. It depends on the differences, I still think having the same core values such as sharing the same faith is important.

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   ThisGirlsOpinionposted 13 years ago

   What is ideal anyway?  I guess when you are single for as long as I have been, you really just do not measure people that way.  I would prefer to have a healthy relationship over any of the fantasies or criterion that seem so important.

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      Christy Goffposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I don't think that anyone really knows what is ideal, until you meet them.  When you find them, you can't think of anyone more perfect for you.

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   recommend1posted 13 years ago

   Having a cut-out shape of the perfect partner in front of your eyes just blinds you to the actually perfect partners who you see all the time - but ignore.  Pre-conceptualising a partner is as damaging and stupid as preconceptions generally are.
   
   The key to finding a perfect partner is to make yourself more acceptable - not try to impose your requirement onto another. or you may as well go out and buy one that fits !

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   workingmomwmposted 13 years ago

   There is no such thing as an ideal man. There is a right person (or people) for you. And these people may not be right for someone else. But no one is perfect.

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