Great sex with an ex (The Boomerang efffect)

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   devonna31posted 14 years ago

   Would you get back with your ex,if your current partner/mate
        was NOT so great in the sac???
   

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      speedbirdposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Under no circumstances should you get back to you EX

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      Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      well you can always TEACH him some moves to make it better.  Maybe try some kama sutra or something to enhance it.

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         schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Hi Steven, yeah that would be nice- a willing subject

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   schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years ago

   so long as my feelings don't get hurt- depends on which ex...

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   Stump Parrishposted 14 years ago

   If sex is the only thing important to a person, Why bother getting married? Chances are you knew your mate was lousy in bed before you said I do. It would seem that lying to your mate is not a problem and that my friends is a problem. How would you feel if it was your mate trying to find a better lay?

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I thought we were talking about a relationship not marriage.
      Personally I was think of a failing relationship that was ending. No cheating is not good. But in many cases, sex goes very downhill, esp when some men become lazy and selfish (woman can too I guess).

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         Stump Parrishposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I did make an assumption there didn't I? I also assumed that the person in question was in another relationship. If that is not the case then I would say more power to them.
         
         I know what you mean about things going down hill. Men get lazy, women get tired, and they both end up with a headache. I get the feeling that too many men treat sex like the do their driving privledges. They consider it to be a right to make love to a woman and not a priviledge. Some women view making love to their man as a chore rather than considering the (slim) chance it presents for some personal pleasure.

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            Stump Parrishposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I just went back and re-read the question. She definately mentioned that the individual has a current partner/mate.

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               schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               oh ok

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            schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            yeah, agreed. Too bad we all we're completely compatible chemistry wise...then again that could be a dud eventually too.
            I think both people have to keep the romance alive-pledge to that is. It's not hard if BOTH are willing(:

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   Midnight Oilposted 14 years ago

   Never in a million years.... moved on since my ex and learned a lot about myself in the process.   What I want now and what  wanted then is very much different, and I am not prepared to step back down to a previous 'life'...

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   schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years ago

   Yeah, good point MO.
   
   We left our ex's for a reason and going back just for sex is stupid because we don't really want to be with them...
   
   Moving forward

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