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Why do some women hate it when you stare at their breasts?

  1. dtn2885 profile image61
    dtn2885posted 6 years ago

    http://s4.hubimg.com/u/5169311_f248.jpg
    Why do some women hate it when you stare at their breasts when they are showing cleavage?

    1. profile image0
      kimberlyslyricsposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      they don't have any lol

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      writeronlineposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Don't know the answer, but here's Apple's solution....

      http://s2.hubimg.com/u/5175533_f248.jpg

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        writeronlineposted 6 years agoin reply to this

        Sorry, copy's too small to read. It says:

        "Apple has developed a computer chip that can store and play music in women's breast implants.

        The iBoob is considered a major breakthrough because women are always complaining about men staring at their breasts and not listening to them.

        Thanks to Apple, everyone is now happy."

    3. OutWest profile image62
      OutWestposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Because you look like a creep if you can't be subtle.  There's nothing wrong with appreciating, it's how you do it that matters. wink

  2. lovelife08 profile image60
    lovelife08posted 6 years ago

    Because it is offensive and disrepsectful to some women.  There are those women who appreciate such gestures and take it as a compliment, but others do not, for several reasons such as...

    They are self-conscious about the way they look.
    They find it rude.
    They do not like feeling as if someone only finds them attractive because of their looks, which in turn makes them feel somewhat trashy, for lack of a better term.

    1. Jerami profile image72
      Jeramiposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      So why do they wear tight tea shirts with fuzzy writting that makes us go out of our way to read what it says.  And she says   ....   look up here.  At my eyes. 
        So why put the small print or V  out there for us to trip over if ya don't want to see how silly we act?


         Admit it,  you like it when we get stupid.

      1. lovelife08 profile image60
        lovelife08posted 6 years agoin reply to this

        Read back on what I put.  I said there are those that appreciate such gestures.  But there are still those that don't.  I personally do not wear those shirts that beg for attention.  I dress decently and appropriately according to my environment.

        1. LiveLoveLaugh<3 profile image56
          LiveLoveLaugh<3posted 6 years agoin reply to this

          Agreed!  smile

          More so, if those women dont want the attention, then they should learn to cover up!  I don't know why they have it all hanging out if they don't want people to look at it in the first place.  Its kind of hard NOT to look when a 5 inch cleavage is staring back at you.

  3. prettydarkhorse profile image65
    prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago

    bec. they are breastfeeding, LOL

  4. dutchman1951 profile image60
    dutchman1951posted 6 years ago

    maybe they woould just like the conversation real, and eye to eye!


    my wife made me write this!!!!!!!    lololol

  5. Stump Parrish profile image59
    Stump Parrishposted 6 years ago

    I made a t-shirt that adresses this.

    Please tell your boobs to quit staring at my eyes

  6. prettydarkhorse profile image65
    prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago

    eye to boobs, boobs to eye then, nice conversation! Very productive and engaging, LOL

    1. dutchman1951 profile image60
      dutchman1951posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      lol

  7. IntimatEvolution profile image73
    IntimatEvolutionposted 6 years ago

    Because we have a face to speak too, just like you.  You don't see us staring down disrespectfully at your cock.  That's just plain rude.  I don't like it when someone is rude to me, so, I try to talk to men face to face.  Men should try it.  Maybe they'd realize that we woman aren't so different from them.  We like respect and kindness just as much as they do.

    http://i1-news.softpedia-static.com/images/newsrsz/This-Man-Has-the-Largest-Penis-in-the-World-13-5-in-34-29-cm-erect-2.jpg

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      klarawieckposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I tend to be rude...

                              ...sometimes

      1. dutchman1951 profile image60
        dutchman1951posted 6 years agoin reply to this

        now thats a conversation starter!

  8. Stump Parrish profile image59
    Stump Parrishposted 6 years ago

    Eyes may be the window to the soul, but boobs are the door knobs to heaven.  sry, I know I deserve what ever I get for that one but I simply couldn't not post that thought when it hit me. I will take it like a man as long as you keep me abreast of the real problem here. Please excuse my milking this for all it's worth. Go ahead and let me have it, tit for tat.

    1. kirstenblog profile image78
      kirstenblogposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      That is too funny! I think I might steal it! lol
      Hope ya don't mind, but it's too late, already nicked!

  9. Stump Parrish profile image59
    Stump Parrishposted 6 years ago

    No disrespect intended lovelife and in my defense, your comment was 8 comments before my last one. Sry but my memory is about as long as my....well never mind, just take my word it's pretty short. I reckon I'm just full of them today :-).

  10. habee profile image94
    habeeposted 6 years ago

    Doesn't really bother me. I'm used to it. My hubby didn't know what color my eyes were for six months. lol

  11. Sparhawke profile image60
    Sparhawkeposted 6 years ago

    Men are hardwired to look at chests, and those of us that don't are assumed to be less than men. The breasts serve no other purpose than to be a mimic of the buttocks of a woman bending over therefore are simply a sexual signal when in reality nipples like any other in the animal world would suffice. Men are even hardwired to look at other mens chests to gauge how strong a rival they would be.

    I have spent a lifetime forcing myself to actually look into a girls eyes, which isn't that hard anyway because a girls face to me is the most attractive thing about her in this day and age of overabundance, but you would not believe how many times I have lost out to the assholes as a result.

    Do you have any clue how much time women spend looking at a mans ass/waist/torso (in that order) when they walk away or have you decided to completely skip over that detail? wink

    (He is an interesting fact just for you, the shoulders of a woman are another sexual signal, mimicking the ass too...they are specifically designed by nature to pull a mans eyes downward, and who here is so arrogant to think that 65,000,000 years of evolution can simply be wiped out by 90 years of feminism?)

    By the way, it may come as a surprise to some that in this day and age of constant show it is now those who are covering up in long flowy dresses that are getting all the attention wink

    http://www.promgirl.com/_img/PRODUCTS/320/PromGirl-374339524.jpg

    Now, I am not saying that there is anything wrong with looking at a girls breasts or anything like that, or the opposite...you just have to realise there is a very simple reason for it and the man who makes the effort to look a girl in the eyes really doesn't get anywhere since direct eye contact for a man is an aggressive signal, that is not good.

    Also I have learnt once that holding eye contact for prolonged periods of time actually makes a girl uncomfortable as it is too "intimate", studies have shown that prolonged eye contact affects brain chemistry at the most basic seductive level, which is why for years restaurants have turned down the lights so that the pupils dilate and you have to lean further forward, which also helps with hearing since people speak quietly in a darkened room, just as they would've done thousands of years ago in a cave at night when predators are about.

    Holding a girls eye contact for extended periods makes a girl feel uncomfortable and therefore makes her want to get away from you, it is a hypnotist thing.

    Now, if someone wants to come back with an argument other than what has already put forward I would be happy to address it, but you have to realise it is not simply about men being pigs, we have been made this way by millions of years of evolution and some crappy article in the latest womens weekly rag or whining over a glass of wine is not going to change a thing lol smile

    (Women stereotype us men too, all you need to do is watch the most recent episode of UK Apprentice to see that at work)

  12. Joy56 profile image60
    Joy56posted 6 years ago

    why is it men hate being slapped in the face.

    1. Sparhawke profile image60
      Sparhawkeposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Because a slap in the face is condescending, sometimes when you see politicians backslapping each other it is not about camaraderie, it is about a power struggle...it is basically saying, I am the boss and therefore I have the right to put my hands on you, you couldn't get a much bigger put down if you shoved someones head under the water.

      That face tap/slap is pretty much the same thing, it is basically saying, "I am your superior and you are nothing to me, do as I say"

      Of course a proper face slap is something different, a REAL face slap has such power that it could knock Mike Tyson on his ass for a week but generally it is done to signify weakness in the other, that they are not worth a real punch.

  13. Joy56 profile image60
    Joy56posted 6 years ago

    really, i think the next time someone looks at my boobs, i will give them one almighty slap.

    1. Greg Sage profile image39
      Greg Sageposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I'm sorry.

      Were you saying something? :p

    2. Sparhawke profile image60
      Sparhawkeposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      The way to do it is to get the heel of your hand and bring it straight up onto the jawline, so that the middle of the heel of your hand just next to your wrist connects to the chin and the middle finger (the longest one) smacks the entire bottom of the ear lobe.

      Do not bring your hand around in an arc, that takes too much time...it is more of a push/slap action, if done right it will sting for a week since it is so fast.

      Anyways, that was a bit offtopic lol

      Men are very sensitive to hierarchy anyway, if you really want to make a man uncomfortable then take away his sense of self and put him in a situation he has never dealt with before.

      Even breaking eye contact in a certain direction can achieve this, most people break eye contact by either looking to the right or left or down, it takes a lot of practice to make it not look like your eyes are rolling back into your head but if you can break eye contact upwards convincingly a man will not even notice it, but they will certainly be left wondering what the hell just happened and feel at a distinct disadvantage to you.

      A chimpanzee does the same thing, a chimp will scream and beat branches on the floor in a rage to get attention, monkeys hate to get their feet wet but the one who purposely stands in a stream quietly and stares down his opponents will become the boss...

      You have to go against the natural flow of what everyone else has ever done smile

      By the way, acting like a lunatic in bank hostage situation has the opposite effect to the one you want, just saying...lol

      (In a hostage situation you want to make yourself as unthreatening as possible, and as valuable to the hostage taker as you can be, a lunatic is simply a liability and does nothing to show he is a human being)

  14. Stump Parrish profile image59
    Stump Parrishposted 6 years ago

    Joy, post a pic of em and I'll slap myself.

  15. psycheskinner profile image82
    psycheskinnerposted 6 years ago

    Yes clearly if a woman shows a body part she is asking to be leered at.  What next? Naked ankles?  Uncovered faces?

  16. Sarah Shepherd profile image61
    Sarah Shepherdposted 6 years ago

    I wish I knew what that was like... I hardly have any to start with!  So I couldn't rightfully answer this smile.  It's never happened to me! LOL.

  17. qwark profile image61
    qwarkposted 6 years ago

    ...beats me!
    I'm an "ass" man!
    I wait till they pass by, flip my head around, lower my sunglasses on my nose and watch those 2 gorgeous lobes rising and falling rythmically as the sexy wench saunters by me!!!
    Boobs?... secondary to solid in-shape "junk-in-the-trunk!"

    ...and they never know yer lookin' and appreciating (so I think  smile: )

    Qwark

    1. Joy56 profile image60
      Joy56posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      men are sad aren't they?????

      1. qwark profile image61
        qwarkposted 6 years agoin reply to this

        ...and you sexy ladies are responsible! smile:
        Place the blame where it belongs Joy...lol
        Qwark

        1. Greg Sage profile image39
          Greg Sageposted 6 years agoin reply to this

          You ladies have it all wrong.  Be thankful we're so predictable.  It makes us easy to control.  No need to herd them when they walk themselves into the pen.

        2. Joy56 profile image60
          Joy56posted 6 years agoin reply to this

          blame?????????????????????

    2. thighhighchick profile image58
      thighhighchickposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Your an ass, man!

      1. mega1 profile image81
        mega1posted 6 years agoin reply to this

        OMG!  was that a personal attack?  big_smilebig_smile

    3. drej2522 profile image81
      drej2522posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      hahaha...that's awesome...and I concur!!

  18. mega1 profile image81
    mega1posted 6 years ago

    if you're quick about it, you can reach out, grab an ear and twist hard and quickly - then smile and act like nothing has happened and finish your salad.  The guy won't know what hit him and won't know why he can't look in the direction of your breasts again without a sharp pain in the ear.  I've never done this but I have wanted to, oh, so many times!

  19. thighhighchick profile image58
    thighhighchickposted 6 years ago

    If you stare at them you willl never see them, if you look into my eyes when you talk to me ykou never know what might be

  20. Greek One profile image75
    Greek Oneposted 6 years ago

    i enjoy a woman's face, myself.

    Often I catch women looking at my 'package'.  I don't mind it... unless they point and start laughing

    1. platinumOwl4 profile image73
      platinumOwl4posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      When I meet a woman who is overly exposed, I think to myself  how many others have seen these and more. At  that point I can look her in the eye and never look at her breast.

    2. mega1 profile image81
      mega1posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      REALLY?  exactly how often do you catch them staring at your package?  maybe next time you should UPS it!

    3. Greg Sage profile image39
      Greg Sageposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Try wearing pants next time you go out.  See if that situation doesn't clear right up.

 
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