Why should there be a war between God and Sexuality?
What makes you suppose that this is even the case, except that you just haven been taught so? There's no "More Powerful" or "Less Powerful" that counts. That's part of the spiritual BS. that people are told day in day out and just is a very effective manipulation mechanism through the mean of making people feel Guilt, unworthiness ...etc...etc... and follow those who pretend to apparently know better, but do not at all! The best way to have an unstable sexuality is to suppress it and make you unable to learn your own essence that happens to have it expression through Sex, seen as something pure and not something dirty; that alone makes the difference between how you're going to handle the question or not.
God is One and omnipresent in everything ... in lack of words, understandable for anyone. But this should be easy to get.
Now my question! How can there be War between God & Sex, when Sex is the mean to create life? Why should we feel bad because Sex is beautiful?
Just because someone or some specific institutions want to temper with your mind and way to feel and say/decide what this has to be? Well, they do a pretty bad job on making people feel better and grow on their own.
Sex probably isn't what you've been taught all along and is closer to God than you could ever have imagined. But what would happen if you would come behind the real understanding of the nature of sex and that your own sexuality might lead you to a better understanding of who you are and what God is in that context ..?!
Dare to connect God and Sexuality to be one!
There's no reason to dissociate everything in order to keep people totally dysfunctional in their own sexuality. That is just sad.
YOU matter, God matters, Sex matters, let it be a question of healthy spiritual expression of yourself and your partner, combined!
Why shouldn't it be that way?
To me, that's one of the healthiest ways!