OK, I know this might sound a bit weird but I've started visualising/imagining/talking-to the child I hope to conceive in the coming months (cos I believe they're floating around in Spirit-land before they're born). Has anyone heard of someone doing this and/or know of any nice affirmations I can include. Many thanks
What makes you think that you are about conceive a child? Are you trying, as in, injections or are you just simply hoping that you will conceive a child by your desire for one?
I'd check with you later about this, but since I don't have information, it would be difficult to even conceptualize the mythic/mystic nature of what you hope for.
I'm of the understanding that you've formed a belief that there are spirits or souls flying around you, therefore you can talk to them.
This is a mystical phenom that people experience is simply your sub-concious, trying to tell you something of value and not something mystical as you appear to believe.
Your religious beliefs have clouded your appearance of choices that you have, but don't realize. I'm not open for interpretation of your belief, because your beliefs have nothing to with the nature of your existence.
I suggest you go for a walk, see something very appealling your senses and re-evaulate your life.
Don't get discouraged by the voice of common sense above though. I can confirm your suspicion that we are around well before we are conceived. I had been around my mom and she tricked me into believing she would be a great mom.
Yes, talking to a unborn child that is ALREADY conceived and growing, does have some effect on the child.
My nieces are perfect proof of this. My sister has two children, five years apart. Her first child, she constantly read books and absorbed as much as you about parenting, child welfare and many other things. Her second child, she did not bother doing anything.
The first child has graduated high school, runner up to Validictorian, and been given scholarships to colleges.
The second child is still in school, but struggled in her early years of school, but picked up much more and more quickly, as she learned year from year. But, she's not even close to her sister.
At least an unborn child has been conceived. You have something to aim at when you start a talking.
Where do you aim your conversation to the unconceived? Out the window? Up a tree? Surely not at your belly when the wee one hasn't arrived. May be you could aim the first half of the sentence at your ovaries and finish the sentence directed at the expected sperm providers testes. Would get tedious though, wouldn't it.
Never before has one question resulted in so many more.
And believe it or not, that's specifically is why I do what I do.
Yes, you are not willing to listen to reason, but the simple fact that you are willing to accept my train of thought is different than yours, acknowledges that my work is in fact sticking into people's mind.
I think that he is saying that it is irrational to hope for anything. To want something before ya get it is stupid in his opinion. Grandpa told me that ya gotta want something before ya can get it except for stuff like VD, and flat tires
That is it..Light bulb moment... Cagsil has got a flat balloon and he wants to let tha air outa everybody elses.
Well I'm not trying to start an arguement but, I know we are around because we accept the "First Estate" to have an oppertunity to come here in the first place. Soft sweet sounds of a mothers voice can only be good for such small ears.
I found it to be very enlightening. The more you take in from all the people you come into contact with, can give so much knowledge. You just have to know what you're learning? For some, this can be a challenge, but I've been a people watcher all my life.
See, I take it all in examining as it happens. I am forever looking around, noticing where people are, who is moving in what direction, who each person's course is going to interact with those who are around them. It like, at times, things come into focus, at a slower pace, which allows me to either prevent something from happening or to get out of the way myself.
The clarity have is so much fun. I'm sorry. I disgress. And, the funnier part, were not on topic.
I am sure that you are on to something. My niece at the age of 3 years old told me that while she was waiting to be born that saw moms and dads lined up in a straight line. That she was able to pick out her parents. Many years later my grandson told me he picked out his mom because "she needed me".He also told me that babies talk to their moms before they are born but most don't listen. Also, that babies can talk to other babies while in the mom's belly.He was right his mom did need him. So I would say go ahead and talk to your child. Later while that child is very young ask what it remembers before being born. You might be in for a surprise.
I believe that with each new baby comes a brand new soul that will grow along with the child. As someone who sees the absolute uniqueness and specialness of each child I just can't make myself believe their beautiful, new, little souls have been recycled.