Talking to unconceived child?

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   tiginbanposted 15 years ago

   OK, I know this might sound a bit weird but I've started visualising/imagining/talking-to the child I hope to conceive in the coming months (cos I believe they're floating around in Spirit-land before they're born).
   Has anyone heard of someone doing this and/or know of any nice affirmations I can include.
   Many thanks

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      Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Are you serious?
      
      A bit strange?
      
      What makes you think that you are about conceive a child? Are you trying, as in, injections or are you just simply hoping that you will conceive a child by your desire for one?
      
      I'd check with you later about this, but since I don't have information, it would be difficult to even conceptualize the mythic/mystic nature of what you hope for.
      
      I'm of the understanding that you've formed a belief that there are spirits or souls flying around you, therefore you can talk to them.
      
      This is a mystical phenom that people experience is simply your sub-concious, trying to tell you something of value and not something mystical as you appear to believe.
      
      Your religious beliefs have clouded your appearance of choices that you have, but don't realize. I'm not open for interpretation of your belief, because your beliefs have nothing to with the nature of your existence.
      
      I suggest you go for a walk, see something very appealling your senses and re-evaulate your life.
      
      This is just a simple suggestion.

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      SassySouthernposted 15 years agoin reply to this

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      Pearldiverposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Yes You Are Right! You Sound Extremely Wierd
      
      However; This disorder was documented in 1937 as being: "PreConceptional Howling Syndrome."
      
      And Yes You Are Right about affimations: They are the first step to healing the disorder.
      
      Researchers found that the Most Positive Affirmation to be used by afflicted parties has tended to be one that goes something like this:
      
      "Why oh Why Do I Waste My Life and Sanity to Contemplate My Navel So? Why oh Why Don't I just merely get pregnant? OWWWWWwwwwwllllllll."

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   darksideposted 15 years ago

   What a strange topic for a thread.
   
   Not sure about the whole 'floating about before they're conceived'. I think you might find that the unconceived are doing laps in the gonads.
   
   Just don't be talking to them in public places mmkay.

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      frogdroppingposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Not sure whether you wrote this for laughs but I absolutley howled when I read it. Utter class.
      
      As for talking to an unconceived child ... it's not a child when it's not conceived. It's not really anything.
      
      Now a baby in your womb is different and there are many claims regarding the benefits of doing so.
      
      I guess when you think about our Prince Charles chatting away to his plants, chattering away to sperm and/or unfertilized eggs is fairly normal
      
      @PD - I'm trying not to laugh at your comment too. I'm still smiling at Darksides ...

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   Pacal Votanposted 15 years ago

   Don't get discouraged by the voice of common sense above though. I can confirm your suspicion that we are around well before we are conceived. I had been around my mom and she tricked me into believing she would be a great mom.

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      Mark Knowlesposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah but........

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         Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         

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   Don Wposted 15 years ago

   I wrote a poem to my (then) girlfriend which could be used in the same context. It's called then, now, always:
   
   I loved you
   As we meandered through time
   Before we were born.
   
   I love you
   As we wander through life
   Learning to be.
   
   I will love you
   When we dance with the stars
   Forever free.

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   blondepoetposted 15 years ago

   I have heard talking to a unborn child is one of the most loving things you can do. They actually hear sounds very well.

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      Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Yes, talking to a unborn child that is ALREADY conceived and growing, does have some effect on the child.
      
      My nieces are perfect proof of this. My sister has two children, five years apart. Her first child, she constantly read books and absorbed as much as you about parenting, child welfare and many other things. Her second child, she did not bother doing anything.
      
      The first child has graduated high school, runner up to Validictorian, and been given scholarships to colleges.
      
      The second child is still in school, but struggled in her early years of school, but picked up much more and more quickly, as she learned year from year. But, she's not even close to her sister.
      
      This puts them on an unlevel ground.

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      Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Happy to see you!

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      rebekahELLEposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      it is and it's very bonding, but this poster is talking about talking to an 'unconceived child' ...  btw, 'unconceived' is not in a reputable dictionary.

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      arthritickneeposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      At least an unborn child has been conceived. You have something to aim at when you start a talking.
      
      Where do you aim your conversation to the unconceived? Out the window? Up a tree? Surely not at your belly when the wee one hasn't arrived.
      May be you could aim the first half of the sentence at your ovaries and finish the sentence directed at the expected sperm providers testes.  Would get tedious though, wouldn't it.
      
      Hmmmmm....
      
      Never before has one question resulted in so many more.

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   Denno66posted 15 years ago

   Cags, I am convinced that you are not human.

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      Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you. While I dwell here on Earth spending my time among those who are mortal, I've found enjoyment.
      
      Just kidding --->

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         Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

         Hmm, not too sure about that......

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            Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

            That's okay. You can believe what you like.
            
            I'm not here to change who you are, just to help you think differently.
            
            
            
            Knowledge is Power. Understanding is Limitless.
            
            Therefore - Knowledge and Understanding turns to be Limitless Power.

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               Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

               Nah, you think too differently than I. I'll stick to my world-view, thanks.

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                  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                  And believe it or not, that's specifically is why I do what I do.
                  
                  Yes, you are not willing to listen to reason, but the simple fact that you are willing to accept my train of thought is different than yours, acknowledges that my work is in fact sticking into people's mind.
                  
                  So, I leave you with that to ponder.

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                     Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

                     Ah, not my idea of reason. My reason works well enough for me. Your reason works for you. See how that works?

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      Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

        I think that he is saying that it is irrational to hope for anything. To want something before ya get it is stupid in his opinion.
         Grandpa told me that ya gotta want something before ya can get it except for stuff like VD, and flat tires
         
         That is it..Light bulb moment... Cagsil has got a flat balloon and he wants to let tha air outa everybody elses.

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         Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

         My Gawd. He's a Poopy-parter, then?

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   Don Wposted 15 years ago

   Nothing wrong with being 'a bit weird'. When you start fitting in is when you should start to worry.

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   sneakorocksolidposted 15 years ago

   Well I'm not trying to start an arguement but, I know we are around because we accept the "First Estate" to have an oppertunity to come here in the first place. Soft sweet sounds of a mothers voice can only be good for such small ears.

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      Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

      No argument from me.

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   Jeramiposted 15 years ago

   I'll bet some people would like theit thread back.
   
      We should be nice and let um have it back.
      
     I'll start another thread called the Cagsil show.
     We can go over there ya think ??

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      Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Let's go!

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         Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         Hmmm....?

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            Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

            Hey there.

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      Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Brilliant. You go, it will be much quieter here.

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    Cagsilposted 15 years ago

    What's up?

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    Denno66posted 15 years ago

    Not much. You?

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    Cagsilposted 15 years ago

    Not much...just trying to help and getting to know a few people.

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    Denno66posted 15 years ago

    And ticking off a few, too I see.

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    Cagsilposted 15 years ago

    Hey, what can I say?
    
    I don't like when people butt into a conversation, when there isn't a need. There wasn't anything I did that was up for debate, until he questioned my actions.
    
    Not my problem.

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    Denno66posted 15 years ago

    You have a strong position some find bothersome. Not to say it isn't correct, just different than most. Eh, it's all good.

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    Cagsilposted 15 years ago

    Thank you.
    
    I find it interesting that people don't realize their place anymore.
    
    Everything is out in the open, nothing is private anymore. It's pathetic.
    
    There is NO shame. People really don't care what their actions, do to others. It's sad.
    
    And, when I'm in public, including the forums, I'm going to emphasize basic civility. It's rude to question someone else's actions, when you were not invited to the conversation.
    
    There was absolute no logical or rational reason for him to question what or why I did something. And, you know- I bet you, he doesn't realize he did anything wrong.
    
    That is even sadder.

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    Denno66posted 15 years ago

    If people put as much energy into their own lives as they do in others, the results would be astounding!

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       Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Straight up TRUTH in that statement there.

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    Denno66posted 15 years ago

    I do enjoy observing others, too, ya know

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       Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       I found it to be very enlightening. The more you take in from all the people you come into contact with, can give so much knowledge. You just have to know what you're learning? For some, this can be a challenge, but I've been a people watcher all my life.

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          Denno66posted 15 years agoin reply to this

          I tend to take those views that are 180 degrees from my own and examine the Hell out them. The rest, eh, I set aside for later.

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             Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             See, I take it all in examining as it happens. I am forever looking around, noticing where people are, who is moving in what direction, who each person's course is going to interact with those who are around them. It like, at times, things come into focus, at a slower pace, which allows me to either prevent something from happening or to get out of the way myself.
             
             The clarity have is so much fun. I'm sorry. I disgress. And, the funnier part, were not on topic.
             
             I'm outta here. This has run it's course.
             
             See you somewhere else, I can presume?

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    rebekahELLEposted 15 years ago

    hey, maybe you two should find a chat or IM?
    
    you've kind of taken someone's thread off topic...

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    Denno66posted 15 years ago

    Quite right. Sorry for any inconvenience. Thanks rebekah.

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       rebekahELLEposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       maybe start a thread in hubbers hangout?
       
       at least you two are civil. good night all~

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    SassySouthernposted 15 years ago

    I am sure that you are on to something. My niece at the age of 3 years old told me that while she was waiting to be born that  saw moms and dads lined up in a straight line. That she was able to pick out her parents.
    Many years later my grandson told me he picked out his mom because "she needed me".He also told me that babies talk to their moms before they are born but most don't listen. Also, that babies can talk to other babies while in the mom's belly.He was right his mom did need him.
    So I would say go ahead and talk to your child. Later while that child is very young ask what it remembers before being born. You might be in for a surprise.

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    Lisa HWposted 15 years ago

    I believe that with each new baby comes a brand new soul that will grow along with the child.  As someone who sees the absolute uniqueness and specialness of each child I just can't make myself believe their beautiful, new, little souls have been recycled.   

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