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soul mate

  1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
    greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago

    Do you believe there is  soul mate for everyone?? One person you are MEANT to share the rest of your life with?

    1. lorlie6 profile image86
      lorlie6posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I don't know about everyone, but I have been with my soul mate for 22 years now and it's a blast.  I adore the guy.  We have an amazing history together that is priceless!

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yeah, thats a great story. smile Congrats btw

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      vox vocisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I believe there is a soul mate for some people but not for all! Many people aren't capable to love deeply and many aren't capable at all. That's why most marriages last a lifetime because of the habit and not because people are soul mates. Having a soul mate is a gift from God so I think one has to pray for having one and deserve one with good deeds.

    3. wsp2469 profile image61
      wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If there IS I don't think everyone finds him/her.

    4. susanlang profile image57
      susanlangposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Mark, my one and only. 25 years inlove and still on our honeymoon!  Love you sweetheart!

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Welcome to hubpages greeneyes! and yes I do believe in soulmates..I have married mine smile and soulmates don't just go for humans. I have found soulmates in friends and in pets as well smile

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      good point!...soulmate may not always be romantic.  smile

      1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
        greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Thanks for your post... I am positive I found mine and to be honest it has been really creepy sort of lol. I mean when you play battle ship and put your boats and I mean ALL of them in the same spot with the same idea THAT is where it got creepy LOL. But I know what you mean about animals to cus I KNOW my cat understands me lol.

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          it may be creepy but in a way it is a good sort of creepy. smile glad you have found yours. and yep my cats understand me too gotta love it hehe

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          Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          congrats on both counts. Its good to be understood.  smile maybe write a hub about finding your love?

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      Hokeyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You said it all.  smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        thank you Hokey smile

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    i used too
    now i think its more like, finding the right person at the right time, and then sticking with it.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    there is a Gaelic saying for soul mate and soul friend...Anam Cara. My husband and I have that on our wedding bands. smile

    1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
      greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      nice.. so what do you think on something here. This man and I have been talking for some time now and every single day we will be talking about something and we will say the same EXACT thing at the same exact time!! This has happened so much that we both sort of ignore it now when it does and it is still happening.. But we played a game of battleship and that is when I really started gettin creeped out. I kept winning over and over again so we played one more game and this time I thought it would be funny to clump all of my boats together in one spot on the board and put my little tiny one in my upper left corner. We start playing and I told him wait till u see where all my boats are and I laughed and him having the same sense of humor as me he laughed and said I know right I did the same thing. So we start playing and come to find out he put all his boats in one spot to in the same spot of the board and put his little boat in the top right corner!!! EVERYTHING that we do and say feels like hes a mirror image of me!! I completely freaked out after that because it is so much to digest for me.

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        my parents once bought each other the same stupid card for thier anniversary
        my husband always knows things before I say them
        dont be creeped out.  smile

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        whoa that is creepy...you guys share a brain yikes just kidding but that is totally cool that you guys have the same thoughts and the same ideas. it makes love even more special.

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          greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I just dunno lol. I mean its really sweet and all but it was really a lot to digest for me. Because the sort of stuff I figured only happened in movies. I just dunno if I was ready for it yet lol

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            myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            (((hey green shift to 'chronological' view of the forums, that way we can tell who you're replying to! smile)))

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              greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              it is I didnt pick quote when i responded

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Oh my dear green eyes we are never ready for when love comes into ur lives, creepy and all. when it comes it will come not on our time but on love's time and that will be whenever love believes we are ready for love.

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    oh look crazd!!!! another one gets the midnight cat stares!!  lol thats awesome @ your wedding bands.

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    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    I like the idea of 'soul mate', just not the part about spending the 'rest' of my life with him! roll

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      awwww mow....you KNOW how I really feel.....lets try to be good for the new guy..   wink

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        greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I will think of writing a hub on it.. I also am gonna do one on men and women and toilet seats!!

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          Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          HA!!!  I will read that.  smile Ive been thinking about it too...but Im lazy

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol toilet seat wars!

          and yea definitely write one about your experiences..it's great to write those becaues they give ppl hope

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            greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            well I agree with men on that one.. I mean seriously men shouldnt have to put it down hence that means SHARING the seat. after all we leave it down for them to have to put up so why not them leave it up? only makes it fair smile. It is actually inspired by my "other half" if you will

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              Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I can see it from both sides...of course having fallen in a few times because the seat was up...and it was dark and I was blind because of no contacts in I like it being down better lol

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                Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                lol im the only one who cleans the bathroom n hubby wears contacts.... I leave it up for him

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                  Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  aaaa Justine you are too nice! lol

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                    Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    hahaha. nice has nothing to do with it....its real messy if i leave the seat down. I know to check before i sit, falling in SUCKS.  haha

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        myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        big_smile no choice darling....! ok...will be good now...though cracks often show!

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          Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          ouch...im trying so hard to not rain on everybodies parade.....lets go over to the tribe or somethinng..
          xo

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    woohoo justine we aren't alone lol ooo the kitty version of Midnight Stares is horrible lol and thanks it was by chance I was lookin gin my favoreite magazine shopirish and there they were...fate? chance? who knows but they were definitely meant for us

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      thats cool.  smile

  8. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image87
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 7 years ago

    I absolutely believe there is a soulmate for everyone. Out of the billions of people in this world, there has to be at least one made specifically for me. The ultimate love story, right?

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    wychicposted 7 years ago

    Yes, I think there is a soul mate for everyone, but a large percentage of people never find them because they settled before they found the right one, or just never happened to be in the right place at the right time. I almost missed mine; I married a guy who was far from my ideal, because I thought my "perfect man" couldn't possibly exist and it was asking too much for anyone to be that person who mixes perfectly with me. It turns out my perfect man DID indeed exist, and thankfully he was there waiting when I left my first marriage...it doesn't seem to work out like that very often.

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    I hope so.

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    StormRyderposted 7 years ago

    It's possible..My parents met when they were in 6th grade and say they knew then they would be together someday..They have been married for 24 years now.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    yep a bath I don't want to have! lol

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    My official answer to the OP
    Yes, I believe in soul mates. Unfortunately, the simple fact of 'finishing each others sentences' does not equal magic. Relationships are work and require constant attention on both sides. Just cuz someone is your soulmate doesnt mean they wont check out, one day. And I think everybody has more then one. Timing is a factor.

    1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
      greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      no we arent finishing sentences... we are SAYING the same EXACT sentence at the same EXACT time EVERY SINGLE DAY!!! so much so that is has become the "norm" for us=)

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        its really cool. all i meant was...most likely you ARE meant for each other, but that fact alone wont make it work. Its an amazing gift to have found each other, never take it for granted.

        1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
          greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          i always said if i ever found HIM that i am sure i will think... ok now what am i going to do with him?? ROFL

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            Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            play battleship?
            i had a good friend once. we used to play 'Guess Who' and she would always guess who I was within 2 guesses, no questions asked. I DO know what you mean about creepy. Have a good Valentines Day!

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    do what you only can do: love him for him smile

    1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
      greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I feel deep down to the depths of my soul that I do.... Theres major change going on inside of me I prayed for this to happen someday I just figured i would be a good 43 yrs old by then lol

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        awww. see thats good?

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        okay gotta ask how old r u?

        1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
          greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          im 27=)

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            aaaa so love has decided to grace you with its presence earlier than you had thought. smile

            1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
              greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              im sure of it smile looks like i wont be walking this earth alone... and most importantly it is with someone who SEES how I do.. and LOVES GOD like I do... so many important things to me and he is right in front of my face smile I think I have calmed down somewhat since the game we played lol. Im seeing it for what it is and am not feeling like this is impossible or some sort of dream. I am so happy!!

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                Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                smile  never turn your back on a chance of happiness, even if your scared. Congrats again.

                1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
                  greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  ty very much!

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          confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Love that you have irish written on your wedding ring. I love the Irish language. Are you related to any Irish?
          And yes there is a soul mate for everyone and when you find that person you just know.It cant be described!

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            yep on my mom side her great great grandpa left Ireland because of the potato depression. so I have Irish running through my veins and my hubby is an Scot-Irish big_smile

            1. confused barbie profile image56
              confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              What part?? Its quite a small country hahaha:)

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                Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                truthfully no idea...she didn't know her great great grandpa and couldn't get any info out of her mom

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                  confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  pitty:( It was probably Kerry that was hit worse with the blight.
                  At least you can be proud to have Irish blood

          2. greeneyes1982 profile image56
            greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            exactly!!! cant be described and most people wont understand even if you try to!! but its like no one else on the planet exists! but yet almost like they can see into our souls when we talk... Im not even going to try to explain it because there really isnt a way to its more of an intuition and feeling and just KNOWING

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              confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Yea you just know there the one. No one can describe it its different for everyone!

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    if there isn't I got lucky and met mine-I say yes.

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      and welcome greeneyes big_smile

  16. peptalk profile image58
    peptalkposted 7 years ago

    I think that there is such a thing as soul mates and I would love to find mine.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    I am glad you are now seeing this love as it is meant to be seen. a person to share your life with. and i hope he thinks of it in the same light as you do. smile

    1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
      greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      oh he does most definately!! in fact hes asking me what im waiting for right now lol. not entirely sure what hes asking there but I THINK I have some sort of idea

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        And what is your idea of what he is asking? Me I think it is relationship wise he is asking.

        1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
          greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          im thinking the same thing.. he says he knows exactly what is happening here and he has been praying for me before i ever came into his life. hes been single for 5 yrs waiting for the right person he has ultimately left everything up to God.. i dunno if anyone believe in God here but that isnt my topic here. He said he knows for a fact that Gad brought me to him and I feel the same. He is telling me that he knows what I know and I know what he knws and that is that we are meant for eachother and that I dont have to wait any more

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    here is a song for you and he to listen to. it means a lot to me and my husband as well.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZp6pmgbZyU

    1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
      greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      thank you that is so sweet!!

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        you are very welcome. smile

        1. greeneyes1982 profile image56
          greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          so far our fav song has been by savage Garden lol I know old school but to the moon and back has been one we both love

          http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uhdajt0C1sE

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    you might be right CB could have been Kerry. never know big_smile and truthfully I don't know if I am Irish but I do say I am Irish since my family is..I'm adopted

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      confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Your Irish in my books smile

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Guiness for everyone!!  smile

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          this is one Irish who DOESN'T like Guiness lol

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            confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I would have to agree!!!!!

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Savage Garden rocks! big_smile one of my fav bands too old school or not hehehe

    love To the moon and back and also Truly Madly Deeply is another good one smile

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      peptalkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      "I want you' was always my favorite

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yep...soo many good songs big_smile

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      greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      i love TMD... but for him he said it makes him kinda sad a little lol he is one of those men who are in touch with himself not afraid to express emotion and I LOVE IT!!

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        greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        i also like i knew i loved u before i met you AWESOME song!!

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yep another classic

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        aaa yea my hubby is like that too...at times though when he does get too emotional it does get on my nerves shhh don't tell him I said that

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          greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol i wont.. but im gonna go for now all im spending time with him and we are listening to sermons and listening to worship music together have a wonderful day all!!!

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            Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            tell him a hubber named Crazdwriter says hi! big_smile hehehe and listen to that song with him. it's a great one and it talks about God. GREAT song big_smile

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    thanks CB big_smile

    1. confused barbie profile image56
      confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Your welcome...
      "I want you" love that song. Prob sound stupid ha but who is TMD?

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        peptalkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        The first time I heard this song was at my step-sister's house.

        The chika-chika-cherry-cola part had me right off!

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          Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol have you ever tried to lipsync to that song. PHEW your mouth gets a work out. or even singing...I did the whole lipsynicing thing in my bedrooms when I was kid...loved doing that song big_smile

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            peptalkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            It is one of the hardest!  Try Billy Joel's 'We Didn't Start the Fire' lol

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              confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I have did that or should I say attempted one night when I had one to many hahaha

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    TMD means Truly Madly Deeply by Savage Garden

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      confused barbieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      makes sense haha I can just blame that on my blonde hair ha
      I lovethat song true classic!

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    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    100% absolutely.If you find that one truly special person make sure you don't let them slip away. I lost mine, and he truly was my soul mate. Sure I miss him, but after the grief is gone, you go on with life a richer person, for having experienced a great highlight in your life, that adds to your great book of life and loving.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Okay I am off now too peeps...I have to run out and get a couple of things from Target. big_smile have fun chatting everyone

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    that's okay peptalk I'll stick to Savagen Garden lol

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      peptalkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol.... I'm in agreement there

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    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8b0vGZFE … re=related
    Oh god this cannot describe your soul mate more...

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      Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      okay last post LOVE LOVE LOVE that song, blondepoet. Good post!

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      peptalkposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That's it!  WOW!!!!!

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        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oh god I want this so much

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    greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago

    ok so now we know we were brought together for sure but WHY is what we are trying to figure out now....

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    greeneyes1982posted 7 years ago

    i am wondering something now.. i need help here. we have a bond and now lately i keep feeling a lot of heart ache and i dunno why. it feels like it does after a break up w someone.. maybe its cus he loves so far way i dunno. a little advice pls and pls read my other posts so u know where im coming from before you respond thanks.

 
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