Sexual Worries

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   Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years ago

   Men frequently worry about their size, or how well they will stack up. I know women worry about things also. Both sides please let it all hang out.

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   HealthCare Basicsposted 14 years ago

   Never had a problem here. Family genes left me blessed with the equipment to please. I will say that my family was very hedonistic in the islands and I learned how to explore sex as an opportunity to share pleasure for both persons involved..........

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   Mishaposted 14 years ago

   Umm, I guess it's not about size, it's about skill

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   kmackey32posted 14 years ago

   Skill yep thats right...

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   KCC Big Countryposted 14 years ago

   WTF? Is this 'bitch or brag' night?

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   Mishaposted 14 years ago

   4th of July hangover

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   Beth100posted 14 years ago

   Is this like comparing scar stories?

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      We frequently hear from women say; look how big his hands are, wow, huge feet and always comes down to one thing. Do women worry about their breast size?
      
      A friend had a theory years ago. "Women with small breasts are more likely to (pardon me) fuck because they want to make up for a short coming. I don't think he's correct, but I wanted to hear the female side.

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         Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Harvey, good grief...  What kind of a thread did you start here?
         
         Anyway, no.  I don't think women with good self esteem (no matter what size they are) are likely to be like this.

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            fierycjposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Why is a woman's predilection for sex perpetually equated to low self-esteem?

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               Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Well, from what I surmise about the question asked...and in such a manner, that's my take.
               
               But you are right, too.  Much of predilection for sexual appetite has to do with hormone levels, basically, in both men and women.

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            Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I don't understand why so many people go off topic and continue it. The question s an every day dating situation. Is someone a prude?

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               Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               The significant other would be the one to contend with any 'prudishness,' and no, no--he doesn't think so.
               
               Maybe its been so long since you've been 'flirted' with, you don't recognize it, .

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                  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Maybe it was over my head, lower and upper. Tell me where the flirt is,, it's not like me to miss it. I must be getting old!

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                     Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Um, mmmmkay... You are a serious flirt for an old guy...
                     
                     But, sorry, there's just a subtlety/verbal thing that's either there, or it isn't.  I just don't think it could work out for us!

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                        Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        What us are you talking about, are you dreaming. I enjoy flirting, but it's innocent. You may think I can but I can't reach across the country, it's just not that long. Maybe two or three states, but that's a max.
                        
                        One day you'll find out that 60 isn't old, unless you let it be.
                        I can't stop laughing, this is fun. I did have to run off another 20 something this week, I just don't get it.

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                           Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           Harvey! People are gonna talk. I've been in this situation before, .
                           
                           And a 20-something, huh?  Oh, I'm jealous...since you are as old as MY mom, the 20-something could be your grand daughter!

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   Colebabieposted 14 years ago

   Umm I'm a 34D and good in bed... so there that theory goes.
   
   Being good in bed is an individual thing. It's not: "If you're this then you're that."
   
   As far as a guy's size. It does matter... to a certain extent. The average size is 5-7 inches erect. It does matter more how you use it, but there's gotta be something there to start with. Not saying that if you're small you can't be good in bed... sure you can, you just gotta know what you're doing.

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      Davinagirl3posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Big is good.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      34D and good in bed doesn't apply to my quote. It said small breasted quicker to get in bed.

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         Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Oh I'm sorry. You're right. I guess I just see f&%^ and equate it to having good sex. But as far as my friends are concerned, the ones with the smaller breasts are no bigger sluts than those with larger Like I said, I think sex is an individual thing (for the most part).

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            Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Actually I like smaller breasts - they tend to coincide with more pronounced butts

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               Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               What if you've got the booby and the booty?
               I got the booby, my sister got the booty though

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   pgrundyposted 14 years ago

   The way to get a woman to have sex with you is to make it clear that you want to be her friend and are in no way concerned about sex. Go shopping for purses. Listen to her feelings and commiserate. Talk about her hair. If you are even halfway attractive then after a few days of this she will get so confused she will rip your clothes off just to be done with it.
   
   Seriously.
   
   If you act like you want it, she's got you, not vice versa.

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    Colebabieposted 14 years ago

    Ooo not me. I would introduce him to my friend Alan, maybe they would hit it off.

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       Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       You are too young. Wait several years, then re-check you attitude.

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          Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Well I hate shopping, couldn't care less about my hair, and don't usually open up about my "feelings" until I like the guy anyway. I wouldn't want a guy to go shopping with, or listen to my "feelings", that's what girlfriends are for. Having a guy not be sexual is not gonna make me want to have sex with him. Gotta have a balance. Sorry!

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             fierycjposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Gawd, I wanna just marry you right now!

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             Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             LOL That was not the point Don't show that you are interested in sex, and the other party will demand it. Works pretty good both with men and women

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                pgrundyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                This is getting scary Misha.

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    annvansposted 14 years ago

    What difference does it matter what a man has as long as the bills are paid?  lol

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    Colebabieposted 14 years ago

    What ever happened to honesty? If you want sex, then want it. There isn't anything wrong with that. So if I act like I don't want sex my boyfriend will ask me for sex? How about not having to ask in the first place?

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       Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Agreed.  Mutual consensus seems to work most of the time. 

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    lrohnerposted 14 years ago

    Having had a relationship with a man that was not amply endowed, I can tell you that it's not all about size, but it certainly is not all about skill either! 
    
    Someone made the comment about women worrying about their boob size. Yeah. They're either too large or too small. They hardly ever perfect. That's just a female thing.

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    Mishaposted 14 years ago

    Most of all I like the variety, you know

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    Jellyrugposted 14 years ago

    Interesting thread.
    
    This is a catch 22 situation, those who say they are gifted would literally be blowing their own horns. Those who say anything else, may be perceived as lacking several inches of reach.
    
    So, I shall remain silent.

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