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Sexual Worries

  1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
    Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago

    Men frequently worry about their size, or how well they will stack up. I know women worry about things also. Both sides please let it all hang out.

  2. HealthCare Basics profile image81
    HealthCare Basicsposted 7 years ago

    Never had a problem here. Family genes left me blessed with the equipment to please. I will say that my family was very hedonistic in the islands and I learned how to explore sex as an opportunity to share pleasure for both persons involved..........

  3. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Umm, I guess it's not about size, it's about skill smile

  4. kmackey32 profile image80
    kmackey32posted 7 years ago

    Skill yep thats right...

  5. KCC Big Country profile image82
    KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago

    WTF? Is this 'bitch or brag' night?

  6. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    4th of July hangover lol

  7. Beth100 profile image83
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Is this like comparing scar stories?

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      We frequently hear from women say; look how big his hands are, wow, huge feet and always comes down to one thing. Do women worry about their breast size?

      A friend had a theory years ago. "Women with small breasts are more likely to (pardon me) fuck because they want to make up for a short coming. I don't think he's correct, but I wanted to hear the female side.

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        Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Harvey, good grief...  What kind of a thread did you start here?

        Anyway, no.  I don't think women with good self esteem (no matter what size they are) are likely to be like this.

        1. fierycj profile image84
          fierycjposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Why is a woman's predilection for sex perpetually equated to low self-esteem?

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            Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Well, from what I surmise about the question asked...and in such a manner, that's my take.

            But you are right, too.  Much of predilection for sexual appetite has to do with hormone levels, basically, in both men and women.

        2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
          Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I don't understand why so many people go off topic and continue it. The question s an every day dating situation. Is someone a prude? smile

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            Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            The significant other would be the one to contend with any 'prudishness,' and no, no--he doesn't think so.

            Maybe its been so long since you've been 'flirted' with, you don't recognize it, wink.

            1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
              Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Maybe it was over my head, lower and upper. Tell me where the flirt is,, it's not like me to miss it. I must be getting old!

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                Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Um, mmmmkay... You are a serious flirt for an old guy...

                But, sorry, there's just a subtlety/verbal thing that's either there, or it isn't.  I just don't think it could work out for us! wink

                1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
                  Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  What us are you talking about, are you dreaming. I enjoy flirting, but it's innocent. You may think I can but I can't reach across the country, it's just not that long. Maybe two or three states, but that's a max.

                  One day you'll find out that 60 isn't old, unless you let it be.
                  I can't stop laughing, this is fun. I did have to run off another 20 something this week, I just don't get it.

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                    Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Harvey! People are gonna talk. I've been in this situation before, wink.

                    And a 20-something, huh?  Oh, I'm jealous...since you are as old as MY mom, the 20-something could be your grand daughter!

  8. Colebabie profile image61
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    Umm I'm a 34D and good in bed... so there that theory goes.

    Being good in bed is an individual thing. It's not: "If you're this then you're that."

    As far as a guy's size. It does matter... to a certain extent. The average size is 5-7 inches erect. It does matter more how you use it, but there's gotta be something there to start with. Not saying that if you're small you can't be good in bed... sure you can, you just gotta know what you're doing.

    1. Davinagirl3 profile image62
      Davinagirl3posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Big is good.

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      34D and good in bed doesn't apply to my quote. It said small breasted quicker to get in bed.

      1. Colebabie profile image61
        Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oh I'm sorry. You're right. I guess I just see f&%^ and equate it to having good sex. But as far as my friends are concerned, the ones with the smaller breasts are no bigger sluts than those with larger smile Like I said, I think sex is an individual thing (for the most part).

        1. Misha profile image74
          Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Actually I like smaller breasts - they tend to coincide with more pronounced butts wink

          1. Colebabie profile image61
            Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            What if you've got the booby and the booty?
            I got the booby, my sister got the booty though big_smile

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    pgrundyposted 7 years ago

    The way to get a woman to have sex with you is to make it clear that you want to be her friend and are in no way concerned about sex. Go shopping for purses. Listen to her feelings and commiserate. Talk about her hair. If you are even halfway attractive then after a few days of this she will get so confused she will rip your clothes off just to be done with it.

    Seriously.

    If you act like you want it, she's got you, not vice versa.

  10. Colebabie profile image61
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    Ooo not me. I would introduce him to my friend Alan, maybe they would hit it off.

    1. Misha profile image74
      Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You are too young. Wait several years, then re-check you attitude. smile

      1. Colebabie profile image61
        Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Well I hate shopping, couldn't care less about my hair, and don't usually open up about my "feelings" until I like the guy anyway. I wouldn't want a guy to go shopping with, or listen to my "feelings", that's what girlfriends are for. Having a guy not be sexual is not gonna make me want to have sex with him. Gotta have a balance. Sorry!

        1. fierycj profile image84
          fierycjposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Gawd, I wanna just marry you right now!

        2. Misha profile image74
          Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          LOL That was not the point smile Don't show that you are interested in sex, and the other party will demand it. Works pretty good both with men and women smile

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            pgrundyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            This is getting scary Misha. yikes

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    annvansposted 7 years ago

    What difference does it matter what a man has as long as the bills are paid?  lol

  12. Colebabie profile image61
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    What ever happened to honesty? If you want sex, then want it. There isn't anything wrong with that. So if I act like I don't want sex my boyfriend will ask me for sex? How about not having to ask in the first place?

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      Leta Sposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Agreed.  Mutual consensus seems to work most of the time.  smile

  13. lrohner profile image83
    lrohnerposted 7 years ago

    Having had a relationship with a man that was not amply endowed, I can tell you that it's not all about size, but it certainly is not all about skill either! 

    Someone made the comment about women worrying about their boob size. Yeah. They're either too large or too small. They hardly ever perfect. That's just a female thing.

  14. Misha profile image74
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Most of all I like the variety, you know wink

  15. Jellyrug profile image60
    Jellyrugposted 7 years ago

    Interesting thread.

    This is a catch 22 situation, those who say they are gifted would literally be blowing their own horns. Those who say anything else, may be perceived as lacking several inches of reach.

    So, I shall remain silent.

 
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