Judging people

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   mkrandhawaposted 13 years ago

   If you judge people you have no time to love them(Mother Teresa)

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      cindi hposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      true but what's the question?  By judging we can also determine whether or not they are worthy of our love!!

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         Deborah Sextonposted 13 years agoin reply to this

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         You're confusing discerning and judging.
         It is not up to us to judge

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      Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Judging people is done by watching their actions. Their actions dictate their individual understanding of their own life.
      
      Everyone is a judge of others and of self. Only those who choose ignorance, try not to judge others. It's human nature to judge people's actions and to not do so, you fight against yourself.

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      Freegoldmanposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I just dnt knw what to say....only i have been negligible in this case......

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   Jessicabloxposted 13 years ago

   Judging people means "Knowing what he thinks".

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      cindi hposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      or thinking you know what they think?

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         Jonathan Jancoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Or thinking they know what you think.

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            R.S. Hutchinsonposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            or knowing what you think they think you know

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               TJenkins602posted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Or know that they think what you know...
               
               
               
               ...THINK!!! (runs away) :p

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                  Brenda Durhamposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  ...or knowing they think you don't know they don't think...
                  

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                     TJenkins602posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     You speak such knowing thoughts of knowledge

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                        Brenda Durhamposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                        heh
                        You know such thoughtful knowledge of speaking. 

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   earnestshubposted 13 years ago

   Having served Hells angels and other motorcycle club members in my shops for many year, I don't judge people on their circumstances, appearances or financial position.
   
   I have met bikers who are wonderful human beings, and doctors who are complete p*icks.
   My old man used to say take all people as you find them, and I do.
   
   Give a man a good name, and most will live up to it.
   
   I never refused to take a check from my customers, and the first check that I received that bounced was after sixteen years of business, and that was from a well healed doctor from our richest suburb!

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      Obscure_Treasuresposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Judging people means that you pass a value judgment on what others think or do or say, of which judgment implies making a decision whether something is right or wrong. Thus, when someone say that we should not judge others, they are in fact passing a value judgment (that judging people is wrong) and thus anyone who does so (judging other) is doing something that is wrong. Thus, those people who say that we shouldn't judge other are in fact doing exactly what they say they shouldn't do; judging that people who they perceive as judging others are wrong. Thus, this sentence is self-defeating. In fact, because this is so, those people who say that we shouldn't judge others are in fact hypocrites, because they practice the thing they condemned in others.

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         earnestshubposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         So not passing judgement on people who are stereotyped makes me a hypocrite So be it.

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   lea86posted 13 years ago

   People who often judge did not see their flaws,they are mentally sick whereby jealousy and envy are the reasons they defend themselves to cover their weakness from others who are actually better than them.

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      cindi hposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      WHAAAAT!!!!

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   ubanichijiokeposted 13 years ago

   I don't judge others. But, i believe that those who do, do so out of a preconceived idea or a particular notion. Some judge cos of the background and upbringing, crooked mentality and orientation given him or her as they step to maturity. Too bad

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   Sunny2o0oposted 13 years ago

   Realistically, judging people is a natural part of the human psyche.  It isn't even necessarily wrong--in some contexts, the ability to judge other people contributes to a very valuable set of social skills, particularly those pertaining to one's selection of his/her friend group.  People who lack the ability to judge others in this fashion are prone to forming friendships with anyone who will will spend time with them, which often then leads to exploitation and abuse.

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