The hidden truth
94- IntimatEvolution
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Whether it is a secret fantasy, personal need and desire or even something you've done and have never shared- what's the one secret that you've kept hidden all this time.
Mine, I wish my husband was better at foreplay. It's not the best I've had.
96- Scott.Life
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IntimatEvolution wrote:
Whether it is a secret fantasy, personal need and desire or even something you've done and have never shared- what's the one secret that you've kept hidden all this time.
Mine, I wish my husband was better at foreplay. It's not the best I've had.have you told him this?
86- tantrum
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I'd rather keep my hidden secrets, hidden.
that's why they are called secrets.
About secret fantasies, I would be banned
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- IntimatEvolution
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Scott.Life wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
Whether it is a secret fantasy, personal need and desire or even something you've done and have never shared- what's the one secret that you've kept hidden all this time.
Mine, I wish my husband was better at foreplay. It's not the best I've had.have you told him this?
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
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tantrum wrote:
I'd rather keep my hidden secrets, hidden.
that's why they are called secrets.
About secret fantasies, I would be bannedSurely you have an innocent one to share. Have you ever read any on Nancy Friday's books.
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IntimatEvolution wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
Whether it is a secret fantasy, personal need and desire or even something you've done and have never shared- what's the one secret that you've kept hidden all this time.
Mine, I wish my husband was better at foreplay. It's not the best I've had.have you told him this?
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
You should tell him. Something better is much better than just something
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- tantrum
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IntimatEvolution wrote:
tantrum wrote:
I'd rather keep my hidden secrets, hidden.
that's why they are called secrets.
About secret fantasies, I would be bannedSurely you have an innocent one to share. Have you ever read any on Nancy Friday's books.
What's that ? I'm not american . - 96
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IntimatEvolution wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
Whether it is a secret fantasy, personal need and desire or even something you've done and have never shared- what's the one secret that you've kept hidden all this time.
Mine, I wish my husband was better at foreplay. It's not the best I've had.have you told him this?
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
I think if you told him in the right way and took the time to work with him in finding what you like and what feels good you might be surprised. MOST men are pride driven and the ability to completely satisfy their woman or spouse will motivate them to new things.
85- Cagsil
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IntimatEvolution wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
Whether it is a secret fantasy, personal need and desire or even something you've done and have never shared- what's the one secret that you've kept hidden all this time.
Mine, I wish my husband was better at foreplay. It's not the best I've had.have you told him this?
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
And here all this time I thought relationships were not suppose to have secrets? Hmmm......I always thought a relationship between two people who love each other thoroughly, keep no secrets, because they value the relationship.
This makes your secret seem like a dirty and direct insult to your relationship and your partner's love for you.
Hmm...I'll think I leave it there.
As for me, I have no secrets, the government, has made that apparent, since privacy is a thing of the past.tantrum wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
have you told him this?
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
You should tell him. Something better is much better than just something
I agree. You don't need to be blunt, but bring it up.
Make it into something fun.
My hidden truth? I say that I'm not happy and that I want more, but secretly I'm very happy with my non-dating, no pressure, no commitment, have-some-fun-when-you-want-to boyfriend. It's the opposite of what I usually want in a relationship, but... I'm loving it
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Well, I'd go for telling him about it. If it were me, and I was not paying attention enough to notice, then I would hope you'd smack me upside the head for not doing so.
Scott.Life wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
have you told him this?
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
I think if you told him in the right way and took the time to work with him in finding what you like and what feels good you might be surprised. MOST men are pride driven and the ability to completely satisfy their woman or spouse will motivate them to new things.
This is true.
I wish I had known this when I was younger and more "polite".- 89
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wyanjen wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
I think if you told him in the right way and took the time to work with him in finding what you like and what feels good you might be surprised. MOST men are pride driven and the ability to completely satisfy their woman or spouse will motivate them to new things.
This is true.
I wish I had known this when I was younger and more "polite".You're still young. Chalk it off to a learning curve.
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wyanjen wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
I think if you told him in the right way and took the time to work with him in finding what you like and what feels good you might be surprised. MOST men are pride driven and the ability to completely satisfy their woman or spouse will motivate them to new things.
This is true.
I wish I had known this when I was younger and more "polite".I dated older women for about eight years then turned what I learned loose on younger women. Knowing you satisfy your girlfriend like no man before is the ultimate ego boost, at least for me anyway. I like the way they look at you afterwards wondering how I did that. I hate being single now.
Denno66 wrote:
wyanjen wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
I think if you told him in the right way and took the time to work with him in finding what you like and what feels good you might be surprised. MOST men are pride driven and the ability to completely satisfy their woman or spouse will motivate them to new things.
This is true.
I wish I had known this when I was younger and more "polite".You're still young. Chalk it off to a learning curve.
I'm a lot less polite, that's for damn sure
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wyanjen wrote:
Denno66 wrote:
wyanjen wrote:
This is true.
I wish I had known this when I was younger and more "polite".You're still young. Chalk it off to a learning curve.
I'm a lot less polite, that's for damn sure
Sigh. I will refrain from saying what came to my mind.
Scott.Life wrote:
wyanjen wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
I think if you told him in the right way and took the time to work with him in finding what you like and what feels good you might be surprised. MOST men are pride driven and the ability to completely satisfy their woman or spouse will motivate them to new things.
This is true.
I wish I had known this when I was younger and more "polite".I dated older women for about eight years then turned what I learned loose on younger women. Knowing you satisfy your girlfriend like no man before is the ultimate ego boost, at least for me anyway. I like the way they look at you afterwards wondering how I did that. I hate being single now.
See, what you just said there, Scott...
This is why I secretly like not-dating the guy I'm with.
I'm supposed to want a family, before it really is too late to try again. And in many ways I do.
But apart from the subject we're discussing here, I do like being single. I would not imagine this could be true, I was in a panic when I got divorced.
But here I am.
You need to find a friend with best benefits.- 94
- IntimatEvolution
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tantrum wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
Scott.Life wrote:
have you told him this?
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
You should tell him. Something better is much better than just something
I know, but this isn't about whether I should or not. Realistically, it is perfectly fine. I have a naughtier nature than he does. So it is more like a fantasy.
There, now can we start unloading and sharing? I don't want to make this about me. I write sex theme articles. I would never use anything that was said in here, but I'm curious to see what kind of stuff we all like to keep hidden. Thanks. - 86
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wyanjen wrote:
tantrum wrote:
IntimatEvolution wrote:
No, it's my secret. Something is better than nothing.
You should tell him. Something better is much better than just something
I agree. You don't need to be blunt, but bring it up.
Make it into something fun.
My hidden truth? I say that I'm not happy and that I want more, but secretly I'm very happy with my non-dating, no pressure, no commitment, have-some-fun-when-you-want-to boyfriend. It's the opposite of what I usually want in a relationship, but... I'm loving itI'm sure you do !
I don't like commitments. nor pressures Denno66 wrote:
wyanjen wrote:
Denno66 wrote:
You're still young. Chalk it off to a learning curve.
I'm a lot less polite, that's for damn sure
Sigh. I will refrain from saying what came to my mind.
The subject of my fan count did come up today...
I mean, the number of fans I have, not the..
oh hell, never mind.
