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LOVE OR STUPIDITY?

  1. bekybouncyboobz profile image66
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    This is a topic many of you avoid. But truth be told, This is something you NEED to hear whether you "want" to hear it or not. Women you have power, but you sometimes seem to forget that when you're in a relationship because you tend to be so vulnerable that you blind yourselves with your very own emotions. Sometimes love isn't love. It's stupidity. As our mothers would say it's being young and dumb. Now I know relationships will have it's ups and downs but really, ladies where do "you" draw the line? How many times are you really going to your spouses get away with things.  Sure we've all been cheated on, lied to, deceived but how many times?, How often? Aren't you tired? If you knew better you'd do better.  And as much women say " I'm done", "it's over" how come you never leave? Don't get me wrong I don't fault any woman for trying to keep her family together and making her relationship work, but sometimes you have to stop being "stupid" and naive to the things going on around you, and stand up for yourself. Because the minute you settle for less than you deserve,  you get less than you settled for. So don't ignore that fact that your man stays out all night, or cheated a couple times. It's okay to forgive people but when you look at your relationship and it's like a reality show or soap opera filled with drama you need to learn to let go. I get so tired of people saying "I can't, I'm in love"......So tell me what is love? Because if your relationship is like a CD that keeps repeating it self, you need to stop trying to play it. You can get a cotton ball and swab it with rubbing alcohol ,you can blow your breath on it and smear it with a shirt,  you can wipe it with water and tissue. Doesn't really matter cause no matter how many times you try to clean that CD it will always skip & you know it. So quit being cheap and go buy another one, a new one. You get the point. Ladies stop being stupid and weak, because as long as you allow him to do what he wants and take him back he'll never change. Learn to let go. Don't be afraid to be alone, don't be insecure, and most importantly don't be stupid. Because who ever you are with, God didn't stop making men when he made him. If you knew better you would do better. You only have ONE life to live. Why would you want to live it being stressed out and miserable . Sometimes you have to stop being so damn stupid, let go and move on. It's his loss not yours. And sooner or later, someone you deserve will come along and appreciate you

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  2. ralwus profile image94
    ralwus
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    This shoulda been a hub. an' quit preachin', yer scarin' 'em away from me.

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  3. Justine76 profile image85
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    thanks, i feel better now.

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  4. ralwus profile image94
    ralwus
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    Why do people talk about ‘girlie’ things but never ‘boyie’ things?

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  5. Justine76 profile image85
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    Justine76 wrote:

    thanks, i feel better now.

    ps you spelled boobs wrong

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  6. Justine76 profile image85
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    ralwus wrote:

    Why do people talk about ‘girlie’ things but never ‘boyie’ things?

    boyies dont wanna hear it smile

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  7. ralwus profile image94
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    Where'd I miss boobs?

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  8. Flightkeeper profile image93
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    Beky, you should write a hub in this week's hubmob. The topic is all about men.  Maybe you can turn your post to a hubmob topic for this week.

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  9. Justine76 profile image85
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    ralwus wrote:

    Where'd I miss boobs?

    her name

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  10. Justine76 profile image85
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    Justine76 wrote:

    ralwus wrote:

    Where'd I miss boobs?

    her name

    they are bouncy....

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  11. lyricsingray profile image94
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    I want bigger boobs lol

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  12. lyricsingray profile image94
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    lyricsingray wrote:

    I want bigger boobs lol

    I'll just go get some - I'll be back - great thread  lol

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  13. Justine76 profile image85
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    lyricsingray wrote:

    I want bigger boobs lol

    i want bouncy boobs. smile

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  14. Justine76 profile image85
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    lyricsingray wrote:

    lyricsingray wrote:

    I want bigger boobs lol

    I'll just go get some - I'll be back - great thread  lol

    go get some where?!

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  15. Flightkeeper profile image93
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    I just want mine to be perkier.

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  16. lyricsingray profile image94
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    Great forum indeed lol  lol  lol

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  17. EYEAM4ANARCHY profile image94
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    Does that work with the rubbing alcohol and the cotton ball? I've got a DVD that I've been having a lot of trouble with.

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  18. Justine76 profile image85
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    EYEAM4ANARCHY wrote:

    Does that work with the rubbing alcohol and the cotton ball? I've got a DVD that I've been having a lot of trouble with.

    try mild detergent for dvds  smile

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  19. bekybouncyboobz profile image66
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    Thank you all! I really appreciate all of your comments. And I did make this a HUB. Become a fan to read all my HUB posts. Thanks again :-)

    Posted 2 weeks ago
  20. Lady_E profile image97
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    lyricsingray wrote:

    Great forum indeed lol  lol  lol

    It is. It tickles me when the topic changes in the thread.

    Posted 2 weeks ago
 
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