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If you have Divorced or ended a long-term committed relationship, Do you sometimes:


a.) Regret ever becoming involved with this person in the first place? b.) Wish you'd have ended it all much sooner? c.) Regret that you both did not try harder & longer to remain together? d.) Not even think about that time in your life?

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Best Answer DJ Anderson says

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Looks like there are 3 very smart women here: YOU, Bethany & Katy! When things don't work out as we had hoped.....it's not a reflection on us, but a sign of much better to come.

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Linda Bilyeu (Sunshine625) says

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    And 2 Gorgeous, intelligent, lovable daughters they are!! You definitely did a lot of things RIGHT!!

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Michael Kismet says

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Oh Michael...your description of how "indescribably precious" the girl in your life was to you...takes my breath away. I have known that degree of love...so utterly treasured and sacred, you can barely speak of it..Thank YOU for opening ur heart.

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Sandy (Hankscita) says

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Sandy...Karma will catch up with that man for what he has done to keep a son from his Mom. That is the worse child abuse ever. You have the love & happiness you deserve now. Thank you for sharing your experience.

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Paula (fpherj48) says

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MasterDripper says

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Thanks for your input. Did someone say, "COFFEE?" Mmmmm. IMO, coffee is the nectar of the gods....the world's most wonderful beverage!

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Mary Craig (tillsontitan) says

2 years ago
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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Hi Til...Yes, you & Larry are one of the few very blessed, fortunate long-lasting true loves......that I admire and respect. If you ask a lot of ex-wives, they can name that dead horse for you!! LOL

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Shauna L Bowling (bravewarrior) says

2 years ago
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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Sha...You speak wisdom and truth. I takes 2 to fix what 2 have broken...as for that 2nd dude....Bye-Bye, So long...don't let the door hit U in the A$$....You are a better more patient woman than I, honey. Nice to be independent, eh? Amen


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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Vincent...How I hurt for you. I may have said this to U b-4, but I wish I could meet your children and tell them what a wonderful, loving and prolific man they are missing the opportunity to have and to love.

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Kay Adams (SagDiva) says

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    SagDiva....Better later than never. Happiness is within. It will happen when you least expect it. And now you'll be Free to embrace it. Good luck.

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    dashing..a powerful common sense answer. Your last paragraph can strike a Universal nerve....so true & realistic. Those words can serve as a real "Wake-Up Call" to anyone still living in the past!

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Ash Ryan (Ashley Ryan P) says

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    Paula (fpherj48) 2 years ago

    Ashley....Sadly, we women can take "nurturing" to a point of regret, foolishly believing Love Conquers All. It doesn't. Those Fairy Tales are LIES. You are now a better, stronger woman. That's what matters.

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