do you feel that your cheating your partner sexually if she/he satifies you and

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   M.clutchposted 14 years ago

   do you feel that your cheating your partner sexually if she/he satifies you and they don't...
   
   return the favor? what do you think about this.

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   DeathStrokeposted 14 years ago

   Yes, i do so much it's not funny. It's like in a relationship your in it together, but if you can't satisfy your partner then you start to question yourself. I question myself everyday and sometimes depression sinks in, due to not satisfying her. You feel depression, self doubt, stress, and start to wonder why are they with you when you can't do a simple thing.

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   darrylcrawfordposted 14 years ago

   Satisfying your partner is part of the plan in a relationship.
   Without carefully taking the vital steps to keeping them pleased we run the risk of someone else coming into the picture which is not good on ether side.
   
   It's best to learn all you can on what they want and what they need. Keeping a careful watch on how and what we say and do to them. Love them completely and not half way. Marriage is suppose to be one of the best moments of your life so we have to invest as much as they invest in every way. No exceptions. When you say I do, we're also saying I will offer you and honor you all of me and share you with no one and go the extra mile to please you until death do us part. Why do they withhold? That's an important question to ask.
   
   It would be cheating if one knowingly withholding their love from their partner knowing they know what they need. On the other hand if one never does the research to know what to do that in time would be considered cheating from a certain point of view.
   
   Returning the favor is part of the plan if you want to wear that ring. Love without passion is the act of holding on to someone that doesn't mean that much to you, in short that is settling for less. Giving with all your heart is the act of holding on to someone which means everything.
   
   I believe we should all marry the love and divorce the doubts. If it's real love, passionate love, there are no limits.NONE! Even if it doesn't look great at the moment. Love will always rise as satisfy until it's over flowing. If it is not real love it will fade away or one will forever have to hold there peace in pain, sadness and that isn't good. Give with all your heart for the one that really matters to you. We're not perfect and no one should expect that but one should expect to be loved in like manner as they give. Never give up on love. Love is your best. Never settle for less. Find every reason to hold on to love and give it with all your heart, not part of it.

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   kelkel7posted 14 years ago

   Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together. If your partner is not giving you what you want sexually, or is not interested in sex than tha is not the person for you. First you need to talk to your partner about the issue. Personally, if I all of the sudden lost my sexual desire, I would take an emergency trip to the doctor. There may be something physically wrong with your partner. Men's testorsorone levels can drop, which decreases their sexual desire. Women can have hormone imbalances. All those things can be fixed. If your partner wont go to the doctor, therapy and wont contribute sexually to the relationship LET THEM GO!! If you cheat that is only going to make things worse. Leave your partner enough to let them go. Go find someone who wants to have a healthy sexual relationship. There are plenty of people out there who do. Go get happy!

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