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FILIPINA - A GOOD PARTNER???

  1. Leptirela profile image74
    Leptirelaposted 6 years ago

    hmm.... is this a question? eloaborate?

  2. ceciliabeltran profile image85
    ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago

    I'm a little offended but yes, this happens to southeast asian women and white guys

    1. Leptirela profile image74
      Leptirelaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      I find this a very 'narrow' nervy question,..... people should not be judged on where they're from.... hmm...... sad sad question

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        ryankettposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Not even aesthetically? Some men may be attracted to the idea of a physical relationship with a female of typical Filipina appearance, whilst they may not experience any natural emotion when encountering females from a certain other race. There is nothing narrow about sharing an affinity with a particular race.

        I have always had a thing about the French accent, does that make me narrow? Or does that just make me attracted to the French accent?

        1. myownworld profile image82
          myownworldposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          ... attracted to the french accent! big_smile

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            ryankettposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Do you have a French accent?


            http://serve.mysmiley.net/love/love0001.gif


            I am now going to imagine everything that you write being spoken in a French accent lol

            1. myownworld profile image82
              myownworldposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              big_smile Tu es incroyable.... !

              btw. when you spend 6 years in france.... that accent haunts you in your sleep! Have to say the sign boards are what drives you up the wall! Whew....the relief at being in london now....!

              edit: BUT should be ok for a night though... wink

        2. Leptirela profile image74
          Leptirelaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          I just think it could have been more elaborated in the question.....

          a person is a person.... in the end it all comes to mutual feelings, love, understanding respect and some... filipino or not... human is human..

          Maybe I'm just seeing it wrong , don't know smile

          1. ceciliabeltran profile image85
            ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            NO you are not seeing it wrong because economic status was highlighted.  It is super freaky. What's sad though, is I've actually met women like this on my travels. And I swear the men treat them like housemaids they can sleep with.It's humiliating!

            1. Leptirela profile image74
              Leptirelaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              Hmm..... could it be down to the women (personality) not BECAUSE THEY'RE FILIPINO or??...:s

              1. ceciliabeltran profile image85
                ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                I think its economic desperation more than anything because as you go up the economic ladder, it changes.

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        kumar1234posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        regret if any of you feel offended. for your kind notice, she was one whom i loved the most and still!...i still have filipino friends and some share my workspace as well!..if i am not wrong, i tried to emphasis about those who concentrate this as business..can you see porn pix if you type american, britian, russian ro aussie in goggle? try it with filipina! yes definitly, they could clean this out if try well...
        ask me, i still choose a filipina for love or for marriage..

        1. ceciliabeltran profile image85
          ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          you are obviously obsessed to put it in a forum.

          Next time, date someone who actually went to college. I have many friends who married outsiders and they ended up being the bread winners. Why? Because they're from rich sugar families and they had the best education.

          Okay? Not all Filipinas are like your love interest. A majority prefer to get married to another Filipino. It's just the desperate not so educated ones who gets into these kinds of affairs. And its not just Filipinas. Asian women fetish is a bad combination with southeast asian widespread poverty.

          By the way I'm a Filipina and I think dating outsiders is cheap. The idea makes my skin crawl because of the association that you have brought up.

          1. Leptirela profile image74
            Leptirelaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            AM with you on this ceciliabeltran, well said!

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        kumar1234posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        my mom is from philippines...offcourse i should be feeling more bitter than you. Cant help it, i can change it to filipino girls instead! yea?

        1. ceciliabeltran profile image85
          ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          well I lived in Bangkok too. This happens to girls in southeast asia. not just the philippines. My neighbor when I lived in europe also had this situation and it's sad because the women feel like they've been saved, but the men they have no clue what they got into and just bolt out when the pressure to support becomes too much.

      4. ceciliabeltran profile image85
        ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        well I'm filipina. it's offensive but there's something weird going on with old white men and southeast asian girls from rural areas. It's like somehow they find each other and it works.

        The women sincerely fall in love but just really can't stop helping their relatives and the white men, they feel the love but on the one hand feel that the poverty surrounding their love interest is just too much to handle. Then they leave their girls pregnant and in a worse position they were in because no Filipino guy would marry her now.

        1. Leptirela profile image74
          Leptirelaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          again, you make sense...

          1. ceciliabeltran profile image85
            ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            thank you but I've lived around many parts of the worlds and seen these types and the other extreme. What's annoying is people from outside the country can't tell the difference.

            I've been asked if I was married to an old white man and I was thinking, "will you look at me? Look, look closely. Listen to me, do I seem to you like the type to you?" but then i realized they really can't tell. They're profiling me the way mister rural filipina lover is.

            Ah well. such is life. I hate it. But that's what I get for living in the Upper East Side in New York where most Filipinas you'll see roaming there are the nannies of Jewish families.

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              Twenty One Daysposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              lol true that.

              1. ceciliabeltran profile image85
                ceciliabeltranposted 6 years ago in reply to this

                I probably will get better treatment in Queens. But let's just say I have no intention of travelling 30 minutes by metro to get to central park. lol

  3. LeanMan profile image81
    LeanManposted 6 years ago

    My wife is a Filipina and I would not be without her, my ex-girlfriend was a Filipina and was a pain in the ass!!! You can't generalise about people by race or origin..

    1. Leptirela profile image74
      Leptirelaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      LeanMan , well said smile I could not put it in better words! Totally agree...

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    ryankettposted 6 years ago

    Many Filipinos that I see strike me as more more than sufficient partners for the short term, perhaps one night. I would have to get to know them better before deciding whether they would make good partners for the long term, say three nights plus.

























    And yes I am joking.

    1. LeanMan profile image81
      LeanManposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Would you like to borrow my "wanted, overnight meaningful relationship" t-shirt??

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        ryankettposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I'm not too sure that my girlfiend would appreciate that one, but thank you for a very kind offer!

  5. leeberttea profile image60
    leebertteaposted 6 years ago

    Sounds like that poster got screwed over and he's a bit bitter! I don't think nationality matters when it comes to being scammed or falling in love, (even if it's just for the night0. In every case one has to use caution! wink

  6. prettydarkhorse profile image60
    prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago

    Not all Filipina are like that!
    Sorry that somebody must have scammed you! I  guarantee you that a true color of heart is not dependent on race. Sometimes stereotypes happen and we fail to see the true color of a person because we brand them as such!

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    sandra rinckposted 6 years ago

    LOL.  Me love you long time! lol.

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    Tilecleaninghubposted 6 years ago

    Asian women are hot.

 
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