I know, right? Here's from a different one, his mother had purchased flowers, and a card for me, but signed his name and said it was from him on valentines day. She thought she was helping to "keep him out of trouble". So, Im all happy thinking he finally remebered me once, he gets home...throws his keys at me and yells.."who the F**K bought YOU flowers?"
OK, here is a funny one. It wasnt intended as bad, it came out bad tho and it was real funny. One day my hubby looks at me, and looks all concerned, and says to me..."Oh, honey. I can see why your back hurts, having to carry that thing around all the time.." he meant my butt.
Oh I got plenty of butt ones because I work in an office it was " its ok for you, all you do is sit on your ass all day". I gotta admit I miss her intelligent remarks. Or if something electrical went " Why couldn't you have been a handyman " and like why in all our years of marriage didnt she work.
OH NO!!!!!! dont get worked up!! Oh man, I have so many shi**y things that have been said, that I laugh at now...kinda.. "are you EVER going to get dressed again?" "its not like YOU work, you dont do anythign all day.." "you need to manage your time better...".that one cuz I hadnt wahsed the dishes that day. My baby was 2 days old, and I had a 3 year old, and we had moved 5 days before... Oh, and I get this one ALL the time..."this dumb blonde..no offense.." WTF??!!!!
You know what? It seems to be the "thing to do" with exes--doing their best to run you down, make you doubt yourself. I went through that, too, AIDY...it's just a common tactic, and I'm really glad to see that you are realizing that now.
It's pretty obvious to me, and a lot of others that you are a very special person...
I have a shirt in my closet that I never wear because every time I try it on it poofs in the front. Just not a good style. I say "This shirt makes me look pregnant, not happening" We were in a store, I took a top off the rack and held it up to me. He said "No baby remember, thats the kind of shirt that makes you look pregnant". (I can think it but you can't!!) He didn't mean it to sounds mean.. but I was like "Are you kidding? Go to the apple store, I'll meet up with you later"
When my ex and I split up, he told me that no other man would ever want to be with me, and take on two little kids...
Well, a few months later, I met Tom, who tucked those two little kids under his wing, and has been the father to them that my ex NEVER has been...and my son actually changed his last name when he turned 18, so it would be the same as his "real" dad, Tom...
Some exes just shouldn't even be allowed to talk, lol...
My main problem is we are seperated a year but she still phones me every other day for a chat like we are mates. Its weird and it makes it hard to move on, but then life is strange, shit maybe it's just me thats strange !
I don't have a partner now, but the worst thing my ex ever said to me was... hmmmm I cannot think of what it was. I do know what the BEST thing he ever said to me was..."I finally got the divorce papers mailing them to you and all you need to do is sign them". Oh, ok, I know what the worst thing was...he said "I saw you talking to your ex" (this is not horribly bad or anything, maybe offensive like he was claiming that talking to an ex is cheating). No, I take that back, the worst thing my ex ever said to me was "happy anniversary" ...why? cuz I had no idea it was our anniversary and I forgot the anniversary date right after we got married.
Okay there are two exes I can think of....one broke up with me in an email! yes I said it an EMAIL! He wasn't even man enough to braek up with me face to face. disgusting!
And then the second wasn't waht he said but his actions. He was a marine statioedn out here in Cali and we hooked up. He then used me the last month he was here as a sex toy. After he moved back to Texas he called and told me that he was going to get back with his ex wife and try to make things work for their daughter, thus like I said just using me as a sex toy. nothing more.
Yep it sucked but hey it has made me a stronger person and I have married a great guy who has loved me since Freshman year in HS. So I'm glad for the experiences because I am now where I am supposed to be, married to a real man and a great guy.
To daughters out there, what was the VERY WORST thing that your mother SAID to you? WasTHIS a RARE/ONCE IN A WHILE occurrence,done IN THE HEAT OF ANGER or a QUITE COMMON, even NORMAL occurrence that was just typical behavior of your mother? How did such effect your sense of...
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