HI GIRLS THIS IS OUR THREAD

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   \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

   Last time this did not work as all the men came along....
     what will happen this time
   
   
       Ladies lets get all the problems of the day off our chest, have a moan about your man, about all the things us females have to put up with day in and day out, see if the men will give us a bit of peace at least on here....
   
       who is going first

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      Helen Caterposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I am in need of a good moan today. The kids flooded the kitchen. There is toast crumbs all over the floor and the lights were left on all over the house. I guess that leaves me home alone to clear up behind everyone. Well I'm not, I am going shopping LOL.

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         geminimoonposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         So what kind of shopping deals did you buy?

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      rebekahELLEposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      how funny Brenda, you know these forum men are going to be secretly following this one
      
      I'm not currently in a relationship but dating~~ I have some stories. I'll come back when I have more time.  the guy I've been seeing recently does cook and he loves to cook for me! now that I like!!

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      elisabethkcmoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      enjoyed your hub using this thread as inspiration

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   \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

   i will go first
   
   Why do men love football so much, and neglect us because of it

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      RedSonja94posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I'm the one that loves football in our house.  I just wish my hubby would let me watch without complaining so much!  And going to my son's games is always an arguement with hubby.

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         \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         wow so do you have the perfect husband? tell us more

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            RedSonja94posted 13 years agoin reply to this

            My hubby is far from perfect.  He leaves his clothes every where, doesn't help around the house and drives me nuts with his bad temper.  In all other respects outside of football he is all man.  And all pain in the butt.

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               \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               but you would miss him if he was not there, eh?

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                  RedSonja94posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  Yeah,  I'd miss the lout.  He drives me crazy some days but I love him.

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      Cranooposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I don't love football or sports
      
      I love hanky panky lol

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         \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         and you can't manage that on your own in front of the t.v. screen...... don't answer that please

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   \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

   why don't men ever cook for us, instead of us having to do it all the time

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      emdiposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Because you are such a wonderful cook,your husband really appreaciate it

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   Rehma Jamshedposted 13 years ago

   Why do men have such a HUGE EGO!!

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   \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

   that is a real good question.   Lot's of them need it boosting daily, by us too...... i mean why???????????

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   Rehma Jamshedposted 13 years ago

   Why are they more frequent in criticizing than appreciating.

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   \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

   yeah why .......... they think we are there slaves

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   wrenfrost56posted 13 years ago

   I don't know the answer to any of these questions but they are good ones. However I do wonder why some men think that crazy big boobs and a teeny tiny waist is so attractive?

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      probably because of the way the media and other publications like playboy and other various tv shows, brainwash people into thinking that physical beauty is the nature of sexiness.

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   \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

   I know, they are obsessed with womens boobs aren't they.... and who wants to be thin.... most of the men are no oil paintings them selves are they ........

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      wrenfrost56posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      yes they are, when I was younger it used to make me feel really inadequate!

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    buy something for yourself you deserve it...... you are a great hubber, always reading of your success......... now can we have a little moan about your man, just a little one, or men in general

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       Helen Caterposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I have to be careful here as he has just had a heart attack, but I will say the sympathy is wearing a little thin now and if he carries on he may well give me one too. I am horrid but you said have a moan so I have.

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          \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          sorry to hear that so we could put that into the category
          
            Why are men such babies....... they cannot take pain or suffering like what we do all the time...... thanks for that

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    Rehma Jamshedposted 13 years ago

    Seems they are obsessed with artificiality. Be it boobs, waist, big butt, fake lashes. Anything fake and you have men drooling!! Thin is sick!!

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    Pearldiverposted 13 years ago

    I'm Not Like That All At!!
    
    Why do Women generalise so?
    
    Love cooking, intuitively know the results of the football, just an averagely huge ego, never forget birthdays, put the seat down, hold the door open, have all those wonderful scorpio attributes, know how tie my shoe laces, look 15 years younger and can bite anything that upsets you.
    Ummmmmmm I'm a great catch... What a pity I'm Single!!!

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       and tell me you are not even demanding in the bedroom department?

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          Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          It's not about being demanding is it? Buggar I prefer mutual outcomes

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             \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

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                Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                "Oosshit really?  Who Ordered the Pizza then?"

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                   emievilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                   PD my niece wants to adopt your puppy . She keeps bugging me about that darned "puppy" avatar .

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                      Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                      Well there you go!!! Someone with Great Taste; who didn't just feel they needed to be polite coz I was standing there holding the door open with a free pizza and a kind heart [sniff]
                      
                      Honestly Brenda, All you had to do was throw a stick [sniff][why is my tail between my legs?]

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       Eaglekiwiposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Do you shake n drip all over the place after your bath PD ..

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       Daniel Carterposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Amen. I belong to PD's church.
       LOL

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          \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          maybe you are single because if any of us lovely ladies, took you for their own, we would have no one to nag at, we lov to nag.

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             Eaglekiwiposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             Men whine lol

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       Wendi Mposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I wrote a hub titled Man-Bashing...I think it explains, at least a little bit, what causes women to generalize.  Oh, and it's not a cruel piece about men...just something I threw out there when I was irritated with a certain MAN!

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    Cranooposted 13 years ago

    Can I stay in here with all the girls?
    
    I'm in heat! lol

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       Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       But You're a RAT!!! They hate rats... you Wally!

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          \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          WELL we don't really want you, but can we make you go, what do you say girls

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    archdawposted 13 years ago

    Wish I had one to moan about (Lol), but I can moan about being at work at 4:30 in the morning.

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    are you a lady Pearldiver, as this is only for ladies this thread....

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    ha ha ha don't embarras me, how do you spell that.  I don't want anyone to think that us females, could not function without a man,,,,,,, i mean we soooo can.......

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    Lisa HWposted 13 years ago

    My immediate and "immediate extended" family is pretty much all male except for me, my daughter, my sister, and a couple of other women/girls; which may be why, even though I absolutely adore a good number of the men in question, I thought the following refrigerator magnet was funny:
    
    "So many men.  So few aspirins."
    
    (Now I feel guilty for posting that little joke because the guys in my life are really decent, good, and sometimes even thoughtful () people.  Oh well - anything for laugh, as they say.)  (Shhhhh - but a few of them really do give me a headache at times.    )

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       emievilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Hmmmmm, it's the reverse here. Only my husband among us (me, my niece, my mother, my househelp and my nanny). But even if that's the case, I keep a good supply of aspirin all the time, for him not me

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    we all love men really don't tell them.   We are just having a little chat amongst ourselves about the negative aspects of them, we can talk about positives another time
    
      No Need To Feel Guilty..... it is just fun

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    when i lived at home as a child, there were 3 girls my mum, the cat and a dog, all female except my dad...... poor man, but he was a pain, we all had headache tablets even the animals when he was around

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    Lisa HWposted 13 years ago

    Brenda, I know it's just fun, but I tend to feel guilty anyway  .  I'm just kind of one of those people who feels guilty about stuff for no real reason.    (Maybe it's the Catholic upbringing.  )

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       oh yeah it is the catholic upbringing, they really do molecuddle there men, the boys here are still like babies at 26....... have a moan go on do it

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    here is a little story
    
    I have 2 sons married now. When Lee was 16 he came home from work and rolled over on the floor in supposed agony.... i did not believe him and sent him upstairs, saying he was making the place untidy.  Later that night he was rushed in hospital to get his appendix out...... still not suffered like we do having babies and all eh

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    Helen Caterposted 13 years ago

    I am in a house full of men. There is little ole me and three grown up lads, hubby and the grandchild who is also a boy. The main thing that really gets to me is the toilet situation. I mean how old do you have to be as a man before you get your aim right.

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       well in my opinion they never actually get the aim right ever. poor you all men.... i had one daughter at least.   Do they ever cook for you.....

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          Helen Caterposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          You must be kidding the last time hubby cooked for me he produced a plate of tinned mushrooms and tinned mince meat. I think I will pass on that one LMAO.

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             \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             was he a mummy's boy

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    Helen Caterposted 13 years ago

    Now I am on a roll. TOWELS. Towels on the floor in the bathroom. last time I dared to enter there were at least 50,000 sodden wet towels on my beautiful wooden floor. Why can't they pick them up? Why do they need 20 each time they shower? And why do they use all my expensive products to wash their bits. Ew!!!

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       men   they always use loads of towels, because they feel the cold.... They cannot stand to get wet and not be all wrapped up as soon as they get out of the water.  Babies. buy them cheap stuff from the pound shop, and lock your lovely stuff up.  I think you need a medal for all your men in the house, you are wonderful

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    Lisa HWposted 13 years ago

    I had a friend who made an observation about her husband; and I have to see I've observed it in a few guys, as well.  She always said, "Whenever he gets a cold it's never a 'regular cold'.  It's always something 'more serious'; but if I get a cold it's always 'the sniffles'" (as far as he was concerned).  The same woman would often say, "I can never be sick alone.  Other people can be sick alone, but if I get sick he somehow manages to be sick too."     I'd add one more to her observations:  When women know their child has come down with something they are worried about the child.  When "certain men" hear their child has come down with something their first remark is often, "I suppose that means I'll get it too." 

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       oh yes i know..... my mother in law had five sons, she worshipped them all and waited on them hand and foot.  She was  never ill, but every time she was, she would say...... he will get this now only it will be worse.... ha ha ha

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       RedSonja94posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Has she been peeking in my windows?  My hubby is like that 100%.

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    cannot live with them cannot live without them....

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       RedSonja94posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Far too true!  LOL

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    Rehma Jamshedposted 13 years ago

    Hope they feel the same about us!!

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       RedSonja94posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I know mine does.  He even says he couldn't do it without me. 

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    my husband adores me, i feel so sorry for him,as even if i go away over night he sooooo misses me, he says did you miss me, i have to say well yes i suppose.....  but one night i ask you

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    wrenfrost56posted 13 years ago

    I love my boyfriend very much, I am very lucky he is very supportive. I guess even though we all moan a bit, we are all pretty fortunate huh!

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    ah yeah my man is good really, and i do like interaction on here with males..... as if you had  not noticed, my prediction would be that in 30 seconds a male will give his comment.  I was wrong, it has been much longer
    
    
        What else can we say about men
    
          Pearldiver where are you????

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    why does it take a man an hour to read a newspaper or even more, i flick through it in two minutes

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    Poppa Bluesposted 13 years ago

    Really if you don't want men to respond to your thread don't title the way you did! (that only attracts us)
    
    Looks like most of the moaning here is about men. If you really want answers though it might help to ask the men themselves.

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    well it was just a general moan by the girls at the first but we are missing the men so glad you came along........ any more men want to join in

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    We had a lot of chickens when I was a kid. Hens and a few Roosters. The noise they made when they got together for a gathering was like this thread. I would just laugh at them as they gossiped and clucked about their lives. Once in awhile a fight would break out over a grasshopper or who gets what nest, but they always had their little get together and seemed to sort out all of life's problems.
    When they had babies, they were much to be respected and demanded it too. Funny thing is how upon laying a little egg they would cackle as if they laid an asteroid! I don't think it was from pain, I think they just were so proud. Love hens.

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       rednckwmnposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       and the rooster too, how he crow's to get all his ladies, and dont they come running? Chickens are so funny. I have sad news, a fisher or weasle got in to my barn and my poor poor rooster, he's left with one hen...
       Sometimes here in my little world, I feel like the last hen standing...
       I don't know why it is or if its the same for men, somehow I think maybe not, but women get lonely without other women. I love my man, I can not imagine life without him, but there are some things he just CAN NOT sympathize with, nor does he even want to.

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    love women too don't ya

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       ralwusposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Haha, I thought that is what I was talkin' 'bout.

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    Poppa Bluesposted 13 years ago

    Oh by the way, I don't watch football, or any sports for that matter, I prefer to play them! Occasionally I'll watch tennis, but that's because my wife puts it on!
    
    Yes shes says I criticise too much, but I don't think I do, only about her driving, and that's only because she always has to drive! When I drive she does the same to me!

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    AEvansposted 13 years ago

    I love men and what would we do without them?
    
    FYI: My hubby's cancer is in remission so I am defintiely going to have a great day today and I hope all of you do too!

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       emievilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Wonderful news AEvans, the best I heard today .

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       have a great day also love to your husband

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       Daniel Carterposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Amen again!
       I'm truly so happy for you! Celebrate this! It's wonderful!

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       I*n*v*i*c*t*u*sposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       WOW, what great news!! That gave me the chills in a beautiful way..Many blessings to you both for a long, loving future together!!

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          Precious Pearlposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          AWESOME!! I am so happy for you and your family. Many Blessings and continued Healing!!

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    OMG, that is wonderful dear AE. thanks for letting us know. I am so happy for you, all three.

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       AEvansposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you!

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    well we are liking clucking hens sometimes i suppose, and we do get broody....

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    AEvansposted 13 years ago

    To all of you thank you so much for all of the support you have given me through those times!!!!! (((Big Hugs)))

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    cindyvineposted 13 years ago

    That is great news AE!

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    Yes, you need friends to get by, and women are better listeners too. Sorry about the loss of the roosters hens.

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       rednckwmnposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Thanks. He is doing better these past 2 days, but it was quite hard on him at first. I have a younger set of hens, but the hatchery accidentaly sent a rooster with them, I am afraid therer will be fights. before it was ok, as the older group had 6 hens and a rooster, and the "babies" had 5 hens and a rooster, they all kept in thier seperate groups. I am considering getting some more full grown hens for him, before winter, but I dont know how good that would work?

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    Haha, well for one thing they might keep him busy and warm. Now I got to git out of here, it's for wimmins.

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       rednckwmnposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       OK. Have a good day!!

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    was wondering if you bought yourself a prezzie

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    JulietduPreezposted 13 years ago

    why was I bought up to believe I should buy the groceries? And why can't I get rid of that belief?

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       and do the ironing too and the washing

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    Rehma Jamshedposted 13 years ago

    That's a thought provoking question!!!!!!

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years ago

    oops uninvited writer it was this thread sorry......

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    Beth100posted 13 years ago

    Why do men think that running a household is any less demanding than their job????  and
    
    Why do they think it's THAT easy???? 
    
    and
    
    Why do they think that dinner can be whipped up in 5 minutes and be filling, nutritious and hot????

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       rednckwmnposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       we make it look easy, just like anyone with a talent they were born with. Some people make painting look easy, or tennis. Some men think our job is easy, because they don't have to do it.

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    torimariposted 13 years ago

    *sigh* Today, I have penis envy...

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       rednckwmnposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I would love to be able to pee over the fence.
       but they wish they had boobs... 

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          \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          i bet they dont wish they had boobs...

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             Poppa Bluesposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             The only way I would want boobs would be in my hands!
             
             So maybe we're no good at running a house hold but I'll bet all you girls would love to be able to pee your name in the snow inside a little heart with the name of your lover!

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                \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

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                missalyssaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                I care not about peeing anyones name lol! And all the cool stuff guys get to do - working on cars, cutting down trees, clearing land, hunting - I can do better - All girls can do better! jk...sort of...

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                   ralwusposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                   My chainsaw is getting to be a wee heavy for me anymore. I need ten more stumps dug up and a huge Oak tree trimmed. I already replaced my rear gas tank in my Eddie Bauer Ford Truck, can you please change the front one for me? I do not hunt anymore as I run out of energy too quickly, my sons do it for me, but I bet you are better than I now. So come help me, and I'll do your laundry and even fold your panties proper. I will also cook up great food for you and mebbe give your feet a wash too.

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    missalyssaposted 13 years ago

    ok all I want to know is why guys insist on choosing a sports bar EVERY time we go out? Really? Am I so boring that you need 50 tvs showing everything from football to golf? Really, golf?!? I mean, ouch - golf is more interesting than me? lol

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       yeah why why why why

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          missalyssaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          Really my new boyfriend is in a band so I haven't had to go to a sports bar in months! But seriously, I spent years in sports bars and I LIKE BOOKS, not sports....I've always been a nerd

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    Poppa Bluesposted 13 years ago

    Come on girls! Why are you all complaining about why a guy does this or that! You're the ones with all the power! You can make us do whatever you want, you simply have to get better at learning how to use your power for good!

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       \Brenda Scullyposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       there is only so much a girl can do  with a man, i mean she only starts off with a male, she can do a lot but miracles no...... we like you kicking around though stay ha ha ah

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       missalyssaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       We're not complaining really Poppa...girls just like to laugh about this stuff because it is sooo common. And we're girls - you know we talk about ya especially when a big group of them get together!!

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