Star, I know this is a stretch, but there have been a few Christmases that were pretty bleak for one reason or another. One of the best ones was very, very simple, but we used the "as if" principle. We acted as if it was the best Christmas because there weren't going to be *any* gifts for anyone, so the ones we had were especially nice. We acted as if it was all a wonderful, pleasant surprise and we giggled ourselves into a wonderfully, happy day. Sending best vibes your way.