On the whole, people in this village of HP are really good folk. Seems they always show up supporting newbies, trying to bring rational balance to hot topics and a lot more.
Then there is the neighbor who shows up with a chip on his/her shoulder and know which way the world runs, and it's just that way. Despite having no practical experience in the matter.
I begged (really, I *begged*) my teenage daughter to NEVER grow up because when I am old and frail, I would so desperately need to know the answers to everything, since she had them at her disposal with so much ease and arrogance.
However, she grew up. Now she has so many questions she can't find answers because it just creates more questions. I told her she is grounded till she's 99. She smiled and hugged me and said, "I love you, you pest." And I said, "For a dumb chick who used to have all the answers, I'm so very, very proud of you."
She is a wonderful human being.
It will take time for know-it-alls to learn what they must, but inevitably, they will.
No worries here.
Blatva, you are perfect the way you are. Despite any condition of your body, you are exactly who you need to be, and if there is anyone in this little village who would sleight you in any way, just remember, you have plenty of friends who outnumber them.
Rock on, neighbors.