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A woman without hair on her head... what d'ya think?

  1. Mamelody profile image59
    Mamelodyposted 7 years ago

    I don't know about you but I find a woman without hair completely revolting.. yuk!

    As I was going to the pharmacy today I bumped into this girl who scared the pajamas of me as she was totally bald.. She really did look hideous.. even a cancer patient looks better than this girl!!

    My grandmother once told me that the essence of a woman's beauty is her hair.. Now I don't mind short hair but no hair on girls is like mixing acid and alkaline..

    But it now seems fashionable for women to loose their hair.. I mean we already are constantly showing more skin, but the skin on your head is one thing NO-ONE wants to see!!

    1. IzzyM profile image89
      IzzyMposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I thought Sinaed O'Conor (?sp) looked great without hair!

      1. Mamelody profile image59
        Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        well ok she's probably the only one who can pull off a bald look.. but she looked better when it grew a bit..

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        Kathryn LJposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I agree, she looked beautiful.  I much prefered her bald.  Imagine how great it would be in terms of time wasted, money etc if we were all bald.  Though I supose it would be taken up by sun screen, or if you live in Northern Europe; hats.

        1. Rochelle Frank profile image89
          Rochelle Frankposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Sunscreen and hats, for sure-- but all that other stuff just takes so much time . . . away from forums.  big_smile

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            Kathryn LJposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Maybe wigs are the answer.  Shove one on your head and get hubbing, fabulous,  Always hated my hair anyway.  But I'm told they make your head hot.  Still it would cut down on heating costs.  Wigs it is then.

    2. Patiopursuit profile image60
      Patiopursuitposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol that's so mean hahah, but yah, my girl has to have hair on her head and i like long hair too plus i love the smell of a girls hair, i don't think i'd enjoy smell a bald head

    3. Mark Knowles profile image60
      Mark Knowlesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Well you do seem extremely shallow so I am not surprised. One of my ex-girlfriends was totally bald and it was never an issue for me.

      But I am sure that is you in your avatar. lol lol lol

      1. Lily Rose profile image84
        Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm with Mark - you must be shallow.  How the hell do you know that she wasn't a cancer patient?  Did you ask her?

        That was me about a year ago.  I did not like the way I looked bald, but I couldn't stand to wear a wig and sometimes went out in public without a head cover when I was going through chemo for breast cancer.

        How DARE you .... you know, I'm not even going to justify you with any further insults!!!!!!!!!!

        1. h.a.borcich profile image60
          h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Glad you survived! I am trying to do that also!! Holly

          1. Lily Rose profile image84
            Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            BEST WISHES, Holly!

            1. h.a.borcich profile image60
              h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              You too! So glad you survived - it is a hell to get to that place. Holly

        2. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Why are you so angry ???
          as I said on my posts. Family members had cancer and they died.
          They were happy people until the end, and laughed at their baldness all the time.
          We see things differently. Maybe because we don't feel guilt. We don't believe in God.

          1. Lily Rose profile image84
            Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I was sensitive about my hair loss, yet I also was able to laugh about it - I never had anyone call me hideous!!!

            1. tantrum profile image61
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              But nobody called you hideous !

              1. Mamelody profile image59
                Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                EXACTLY!!

                I called the woman I saw hideous because I was trying to be as graphic as possible in describing her.. I made no reference to cancer or anything to do with cancer..

                If I called you hideous then you would have the right to have a go at me but this aint about you so just pipe it down will ya?

        3. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

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          1. Uninvited Writer profile image81
            Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            How do you know she did not have cancer? Some cancer patients look very healthy other than being bald.

            1. tantrum profile image61
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              How do you know she doesn't ??
              lol
              well, everybody
              thanks for the laughs!
              I can't believe this !! really !! lol

            2. Mamelody profile image59
              Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              so you telling me that every bald woman has cancer? geez..

              I know loads of African women who shave their heads.. some look good others don't but you wont hear them whining about cancer..

            3. Lily Rose profile image84
              Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I did!  Look healthy, that is...

              1. Uninvited Writer profile image81
                Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I did too, my cheeks were very rosy smile

    4. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Maybe she was an alien.

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      Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Perhaps she was a cancer patient!

    6. Disturbia profile image60
      Disturbiaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Gosh, I seriously hope you never have chemo and lose your hair.  Imagine having to live with your bald and revolting self.

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        how so sad, to truly believe your very essence is in how you look...

      2. Lily Rose profile image84
        Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I think she deserves it!

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          and you my dear deserve a triple shot tequila and some chloro-foam..

          where's hokey when I need chlorofoam ? lol lol

          1. Lily Rose profile image84
            Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Chloro-foam?  You think I need a heavy-duty cleaning?  Now that's original!

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          Deborah Sextonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          You think someone deserves cancer and chemo?
          NICE

          1. tantrum profile image61
            tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Nice !

          2. Lily Rose profile image84
            Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            If anyone here does, it's her.

            1. tantrum profile image61
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              That's not very Christian, is it ?
              Maybe we should report you? People have been banned for less than that mad

              1. Lily Rose profile image84
                Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                What makes you think I'm christian, Tantrum?

              2. tantrum profile image61
                tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Why don't you leave ?
                don't make me !

            2. Mamelody profile image59
              Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

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              1. Lily Rose profile image84
                Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

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                1. Mamelody profile image59
                  Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

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                  1. Lily Rose profile image84
                    Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    What more nasty things could you possibly say about me - you don't know me?  You know nothing about me except that I'm a cancer survivor and was bald not too long ago.

                    Like I said, you spoke up.  You removed all doubt.  You are a fool.

                    I AM laughing - at how utterly stupid you are!

                  2. Uninvited Writer profile image81
                    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    You mean you and Tantrum...you are the only two laughing...

    7. Dave Mathews profile image61
      Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Your view is distorted for you are only noticing the outward looks and appearances, which are at best superficial so I guess you are a very superficial person. It is time you looked at yourself "Vanity Vanity thy name is woman." Start looking at the person inside for a change and you will see someone more beautiful than you have ever see before.  Maybe that woman has cancer and has been taking kemo-therapy?

      Brother Dave Mathews.

      1. tantrum profile image61
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        this thread is only for fun ! lol
        This is the Sandpit.
        If you want to seriously comment about the inner self go to Religion Forum ! lol lol lol

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          ah what would I do without Tantrum eh? Cheers for that.. yeah this is for fun actually.. smile

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          Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          oh yeah, sandpit...

          I forgot.

          lol

        3. Uninvited Writer profile image81
          Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I guess it's okay to say mean things as long as you add "just kidding" after...

    8. Maddie Ruud profile image79
      Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      How heteronormative.

      I had a buzz cut for a while.  The amount of judgment and cruelty it brought out of people was stunning.

      If you don't like how you look without hair, have hair.  But don't walk around acting like everyone else has to conform to your aesthetics.

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ahhh, good word!  wink

    9. h.a.borcich profile image60
      h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I cannot believe you had the shallow mindedness to start this thread. Chances are she is a cancer SURVIVOR. After several surgeries, loss of body parts, health, maybe even her career to stay alive...and you are revolted she lost her hair???
      Chemo laid me out so bad I wanted to just die. This woman is walking around and she revolted you?
        You revolt me. Holly

      Do you think cancer is fashionable? Ever will be? We didn't sign up for it you know.

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      Deborah Sextonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      A woman without hair on her head... what d'ya think?

      *****************************************************
      I think she's bald.

    11. darkside profile image81
      darksideposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You are entitled to your opinions. But when you express them the way you have done in this post you are showing to the world what a shallow person you are.

      1. tantrum profile image61
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        And what's a problem with being shallow ?
        Why do you care ?
        I can't care less what you are.  You can be whatever you want

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yep am shallow and I love it!! lol

          1. tantrum profile image61
            tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Thanks for the good time! I really needed a break !! lol

        2. darkside profile image81
          darksideposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          People can be shallow, whether it be their choice or they were dragged up that way. But it's to their own folly that they would publicly broadcast just how shallow they are.

          1. tantrum profile image61
            tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            And ??
            Who cares what people thinks? I don't.

            1. Mamelody profile image59
              Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              THANK YOU! I don't care what anybody thinks of me.. the fact that everybody thinks am shallow says to me that am that important for you to think about..

              The sooner people stop fussing about what people think of them the better this world would be..

  2. Haunty profile image82
    Hauntyposted 7 years ago

    I don't find such women attractive, but I wouldn't call them hideous either.

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      well if you saw this woman today you'd agree with me.. she was hideous!! yikes

  3. Arthur Fontes profile image88
    Arthur Fontesposted 7 years ago

    Does anyone remember Actress Persis Khambatta went bald for her role in Star Trek.

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    You say she was in a pharmacy, maybe she had chemo too. Er, maybe I read it wrong as you said you were on your way to the RX and bumped into her, but still... .

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      yeah
      wow
      I honestly feel like this is toatlly mean...
      how on earth do you know she was bald on purpose?
      wow   sad

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Even if she were bald on purpose, it's quite common for friends and family members of a cancer patient to shave their heads as well. I know I shaved my head when my aunt started losing her hair. It wasn't an aesthetic thing, it was a way to show her that we supported her and we loved her no matter how much hair she had or didn't have.

      But, because of people who constantly judge others by how they look, I took to wearing a stocking hat in public, even in the summer.

      1. Maddie Ruud profile image79
        Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Why give in to the pressure?  You do not exist for other people's viewing pleasure.

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          Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          It's called choosing your battles. Instead of explaining to every person on the public bus why I was bald, it was just easier for me to wear a stocking hat.

          1. Maddie Ruud profile image79
            Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Yeah, when I shaved my head, I picked my battles too... by choosing not to explain myself to people I didn't know. wink

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              Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Saw these people every day for years, I knew them pretty well, just not well enough to go into personal details about the health of family members. Also, because of my mental illnesses, I dislike being stared at so it was just a lot easier for me.

              1. Maddie Ruud profile image79
                Maddie Ruudposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Oh, I'm not condemning you for it.  Of course, everyone should do with their own appearance what s/he pleases.  That's all I'm saying.

      2. Betty Reid profile image60
        Betty Reidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        That's really cool.  I never heard of shaving your head to show support.  I know that would be comforting to me if I had cancer.

  5. Rochelle Frank profile image89
    Rochelle Frankposted 7 years ago

    I don't like to see people in their pajamas going to the pharmacy, but I guess it is a choice. I have long thought that if all people were bald, life would be simpler.

  6. TheGlassSpider profile image73
    TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago

    I think there are more people than you might think who do not have a choice about their baldness.

    I think there are some women who pull of the bald look amazingly well.

    I love my hair; I probably wouldn't shave it because I don't have the kind of face that would work well with the look, but I find it intriguing and striking on others.

    I think calling anyone hideous based on how they look is a bit superficial...if you're going to call someone hideous at least make it based on something that matters (i.e., their inner person) tongue wink

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    StormRyderposted 7 years ago

    For the most part I would say it isn't an attractive look, but I have seen a couple of ladies that pulled it off well! big_smile

  8. Haunty profile image82
    Hauntyposted 7 years ago

    I think Mamelody is trying to ask what people think about women who choose to be bald. But, yeah, calling someone hideous is very mean.

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      well is there a better word to describe someone who does not look good at all without hair?

      1. Greek One profile image77
        Greek Oneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hair is an over-rated leftover vestige of our cave-man days.

        One day, every person in the world will have what I have termed the "upstairs Brazilian"

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          Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          hair to caveman = how to get woman home from bar...
          thus longer is better

          1. Greek One profile image77
            Greek Oneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            ...but with the invention of the apple martini, hair has become obsolete

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              Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              lol lol phew

        2. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          now you talking! that reminds me I need to get my Brazilian wax done... roll

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            Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            oh crap, it IS almost swim suit season now that you mention it....

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        Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yucky on purpose...hideous, they know what they did.
        bald due to illness, sure, they might look hideous and that would be an accurate word, but an ill person who is suffering deserves just a smidgeon of tolerance and udnerstanding.

        no joke, two days ago I was taking a bath, and thinking, I love my hair. Its reddish brownish blonde and curly/wavy goes to just about my waist. (Im not really a manly looking carrot)
        I sort of felt vain thinking about how much I like my own hair. But really, my hair is nice and I work at keeping it nice.

        I would be so sad if something happend to make it fall out. I think any woman who looses hair due to illnes, its insult to injury and I think it would be godawful to make fun of her. BUT if she did it on purpose and it looks yucky, you should be allowed to say so.

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          true.. on purpose we can call it hideous but if its illness or an accident then well we just tell 'em they look nice even if they don't hahaha

          I think the only time I remember having short hair is when I stuck gum on my hair.. I was chewing gum and fell asleep and the gum ended up all tangled in my hair.. I did everything I could to prevent cutting but eventually I did. I cried for two months before it grew back again sad

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            Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            HAHAHAHAHHAHA
            when I was a kid, I had straight hair, and it suddenly started to go curly and I cut all the curly parts out....

            1. Mamelody profile image59
              Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Strike a pose darling! Nice Avatar smile

  9. megs78 profile image60
    megs78posted 7 years ago

    I went bald once because of lice.  I have 3 kids with a lot of hair and I also have a lot of hair.  But because I didn't have anyone to help me and do my hair when the horrible lice hit and i was already doing my two daughters, I made the choice to shave my head to simplify the problem.  It wasn't beautiful but my hubby actually found it sexy.

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      oh my god!!!!
      lice suck, I  have three daughters, with hair below their waists...and mine is close
      once hubby treid to "help" ...I was nearly bald.....

      stupid schools and stupid parents "its too embaressing for the children so we dont make them stay home or anything..."

      now lice will NEVER be gone!!!!!!!!!!!!

  10. Greek One profile image77
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    three boob-like objects are better than two, i guess

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  11. Greek One profile image77
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    as a man with a shaved-head myself, I thank Michael Jordon for paving the way for bald men to be accepted for what we are... very, very sexy.

    The world just needs a drop-dead hot supermodel to shave her head and make the look popular for woman too

    1. Betty Reid profile image60
      Betty Reidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      What a great point!  Bald used to be considered unattractive for men.  Now there's plenty of bald male sex symbols.  A few female celebrities have pulled off the buzz cut.

  12. Phoenix Fan profile image54
    Phoenix Fanposted 7 years ago

    I love long hair.  I have a thing for it.  But if you were perfect for me in every other way I would not kick you out of my bed. Besides, you can always buy wigs for times when you don't want to be bald.

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    Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago

    I like long beautiful hair on a woman, but short hair is nice too, and bald wouldn't bother me either, what's most important is a beautiful smile and bright eyes and that look that says, I'm glad you're mine!

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      or Im glad Im yours.  wink

    2. Greek One profile image77
      Greek Oneposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      i hated it when my girlfriends used to have that "I'm glad I'm Poppa Blues'" look sad

  14. Lady_E profile image81
    Lady_Eposted 7 years ago

    I think we shouldn't give them odd looks. It suits some people - like Sinead O'Connor. She chose to be bald. However, 9 times out of 10, it's due to an illness. Some people wear wigs, some choose to be brave and leave it bald. (because that's what the illness did).

    Example:  Gail Porter below (famous in UK)

    http://images.askmen.com/imagesmodel/2001_jan/gail_porter/gail_porter_150.jpg


    Gail Porter after her illness:

    http://www.exposay.com/celebrity-photos/gail-porter-run-fat-boy-run-london-movie-premiere-arrivals-1Rt9GX.jpg

    So, in my Humble opinion – we should just leave them be. See the beauty within. smile

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Actually she looks beautiful.. the woman I saw today looked scary.. I wish I took a pic of her but that would have been rude eh?

      1. h.a.borcich profile image60
        h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Should have taken picture? MIGHT have been rude? Sheesh

  15. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    We don't know if she had cancer or not.
    This is the Sandpit ! Just relax !!!
    Why assume things?
    Why all this discontent ? I think you people should have a break !! mad

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You tell 'em Tantrum!!

      Some people just don't know how to have a good laugh.. I'm glad people like you see the lighter side to this..

      1. tantrum profile image61
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Well, we are in the Sandpit.
        Time for a break !!
        Pleeasse !! lol lol lol

        Hi girl ! It seems a lot of people here don't like you LOL !
        That means your wonderful big_smile

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I knew it! wohoo am wonderful.. !!! big_smileD

          cheers tantrum ur a star!! wink

      2. h.a.borcich profile image60
        h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Maybe someday you will have to experience it for yourself....maybe some shallow chick will gasp and horror at you.

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          What a nasty comment ! lol
          coming from a Christian !

          I don't know what Mamelody would reply, but I can't care less if soemeone think I'm ugly. There's a lot of thinks in my life that are beautiful. Someone like you could never visualise them, because you can only see your 'Godly' reality.

          1. h.a.borcich profile image60
            h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            My nasty comment? I had hoped she would realize she may one day be in the bald womans shoes.
            My being a christian has nothing to do with being horrified and this lack of maturity or compassion. Her mental menturity is very questionable from her original post. Obviously not all hubbers are adult enough to not make fun of an unfortunate situation.
            If she was your mom, sister or friend - would you laugh and joke and gasp? Probably huh. Holly

            1. Mamelody profile image59
              Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I love having up tight suckers in here.. welcome to my thread.. some rum to loosen you up dear: lol

              1. h.a.borcich profile image60
                h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Sorry - I am a cancer patient - no alcohol allowed.

            2. tantrum profile image61
              tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Did you see my post ?

              'We are all adults. Can't we  see when one is only joking and when one is being serious ?
              If you don't like the topic ,there are a lot of other threads where to post.

              we can be stupid sometimes if we choose to. Do you have any problem with that ?'

              If you can't have a laugh or don't like the topic move to another thread.
              this is the sandpit. It's like abreak LOL
              There have been cancer in my family as well. some died. but they laughed until the end, even of their baldness. We have another way of seeing life. We're not serious Christians.

              1. h.a.borcich profile image60
                h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Apply this post to yourself when you hit the christian living forums. I doubt you could - you have double standards.

                1. tantrum profile image61
                  tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  Please point out my double standards lol

                  1. h.a.borcich profile image60
                    h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    "If you don't like the topic - stay off the thread." Plain enough for you tantrum? There are others I won't bother to point out.
                    And Back off by the way - you have hounded my posts and previously called me names in the forums. It makes you look like a juvenile.
                    I am disabled from advanced cancer and I am mostly housebound - got a joke for that? Holly

              2. tantrum profile image61
                tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                @ Holly
                Not everyone sees life as you do.

                1. Mamelody profile image59
                  Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  I doubt she even has a life lol lol

                  If she did she wouldn't be in here lol

                  1. Uninvited Writer profile image81
                    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Like you?

                2. Uninvited Writer profile image81
                  Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  And not everyone sees life as one long joke.

                  1. tantrum profile image61
                    tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Well I do. Some problem with that?

        2. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          now why am I not surprised she is a Christian..

          I think the room you're looking is for the nut house called religious forums dear

          1. h.a.borcich profile image60
            h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Oh my - a bully with a mouth...Get real.

            1. Mamelody profile image59
              Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I am real.. you my dear are sad case of an up tight sucker who didn't figure out that we're in a sandpit and not bashing pit..

      3. Lily Rose profile image84
        Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Laugh?  Laugh at what? - I have read nothing funny here!

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Then go to another thread.
          and you're right. This thread is very boring ! lol

        2. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          You obviously have issues honey.. Go take it out on yourself and learn how to laugh..

    2. Lily Rose profile image84
      Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Just because it's the sandpit doesn't give her a license to be a superficial b**ch.  What she is saying is insulting and only shows that she is not a goof person, sandpit or no sandpit!  YOU relax, tantrum!

      1. tantrum profile image61
        tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm not the one with issues
        But thanks for your concern ! big_smile

      2. Mamelody profile image59
        Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        seriously piss off.. if this offend you why you here??

        For goodness sake when are people going to learn that if something doesn't please you don't join in..??

        Bloody babies we got in here..

        1. Lily Rose profile image84
          Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I am here because I, too, have the right to my opinion and I am here to voice my opinion for all the bald women who may cross your path.  I am here because I was bald from cancer and I probably looked hideous but it was part of a process to save my life and i dealt with it and thankfully never crossed your ugly path.

          1. tantrum profile image61
            tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            But this is not a thread about cancer.  It was only about a bald woman.
            Once my daughter shaved her head and everybody said nasty things to her on the street.  So ? we laughed at the pettiness. LOL
            Have your break please. Nobody's attacking you !!!

            1. darkside profile image81
              darksideposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Perhaps if I called mamelody petty instead of shallow then you'd approve of my opinion?

              1. Mamelody profile image59
                Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I think you mean Pretty.. THANK YOU lol lol

                1. darkside profile image81
                  darksideposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  If you feel the need to take what others have said and twist it into a compliment and it works for you, then so be it.

              2. tantrum profile image61
                tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                You are entitled to whatever opinion you like.
                As I said before, I don't care what people think.
                You think she's petty ? OK laugh at her then ! I'm not going to stop you lol

          2. Mamelody profile image59
            Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            whatever... weak minded, easily offended people like you shouldn't be in here.. seriously... it will only raise your blood pressure

            1. Lily Rose profile image84
              Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              If you only knew just how strong I am - don't you dare call ME weak!

              1. Mamelody profile image59
                Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                If you were strong then you would realize you're in a sand pit and people laugh in sandpits and not take things personally when its not even aimed at you..

                so sorrie you're weaklin darling...

  16. blondepoet profile image75
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Bald, curly, straight, short long...let us celebrate the joy of womanhood together smile

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Sure thing.. pop the champagne nurse.. I think people in here need a drink!! lol

      1. Betty Reid profile image60
        Betty Reidposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        But if you drink too much and pass out, I'm going to shave your head.

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol lol lol I'm wearing my hat then lol

  17. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    We are all adults. Haven't we grown out of making fun of people we see on the street?

    And you are a life coach?

    1. Arthur Fontes profile image88
      Arthur Fontesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I must admit I enjoy poking fun at grown men with their pants under their butts and the boxers showing.

      1. Mamelody profile image59
        Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol lol that makes the two of us..

    2. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      We are all adults. Can't we  see when one is only joking and when one is being serious ?
      If you don't like the topic ,there are a lot of other threads where to post.

      we can be stupid sometimes if we choose to. Do you have any problem with that ?

      1. Uninvited Writer profile image81
        Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I do when it's the kind of kidding that little children participate in, not adults.

      2. Mamelody profile image59
        Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        don't mind them tantrum.. some champagne or would like strong rum so we can speed up the happy vibe in here? big_smile tongue

    3. Lily Rose profile image84
      Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Are you kidding?!?  A life coach?  I don't know if a license or certificate is required for that but hers should be revoked if so!

      1. h.a.borcich profile image60
        h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I think so too. I'll even research the idea.

  18. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    Are you sure you are over 18?

  19. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    There is a difference in laughing about your own baldness than that of complete strangers and saying they look revolting.

  20. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    You have probably gathered from reactions that those who have suffered from cancer are still sensitive about how they were and are perceived by strangers while they were going through their treatments.

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That's true. But if they're dso sensible, why stay here ? hmm
      and anyway this is not a thread abour cancer !!!!
      It's about a bald woman. that's all !!!
      So... PLEASSEE !!

  21. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    It is different when people laugh at their own baldness.

  22. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    Yes, whining about cancer is so boring...

    This is a public forum and if you don't want people commenting then I suggest you start your own forum.

    Only teeny-boppers laugh at other women and how they look.

  23. h.a.borcich profile image60
    h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago

    Pathetic - I am done with this. I hope you grow up.

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I will never grow up. I love to feel like a teenager lol
      thanks for the compliments. Appreciated ! big_smile

      1. h.a.borcich profile image60
        h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Wow - You attention seeker - that was directed at the OP.

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I don't care. I reply whenever I feel like it. I'm a free person

        2. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          oi! don't you dare attack tantrum as she is entitled to whatever she wants.. you're the attention seeker as you come here and talk crap and you call yourself a christian.. piss off!

          1. h.a.borcich profile image60
            h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Life coach? There must be a mistake. Adult? Do you go to childrens hospitals to laugh at hurting kids or do you just limit your humor to women fighting cancer? Look in a mirror to get your kicks.

            1. Mamelody profile image59
              Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              excuse me, I thought yo packed your bags and left? what the hell are you still doing in here??...

              ah.. can't get enough of me eh? HAHAHAHAHAHA lol

      2. Mamelody profile image59
        Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yep I love feeling like a teenager 24/7.. no wonder I look 3/4 my real age wink

    2. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      FINALLY!!!  GOODBYEE!!!

  24. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    Are you trying to get yourself banned?

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      yep.. am addicted to this forum and asked for ways to stay away from it and most people advised me to get myself banned..

      I'm doing a pretty good job so far eh?

  25. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    But the OP might have had she seen her as she obviously thinks women without hair are revolting.

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      The OP was commenting about one woman in particular. She never said bald women where ugly. Just only that one!
      and please, don't tell me  none of you have never laughed at somenone  once in your lifetime !! Geezzzz !!

      1. Uninvited Writer profile image81
        Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        She said

        "don't know about you but I find a woman without hair completely revolting.. yuk!"

        And no, I do not laugh at how others look...at least not since I became an adult.

        1. tantrum profile image61
          tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Well I don't laugh either, but I don't see anything wrong if one want's to do it. In the end, nobody's laughing at someone ! Just at the idea of an anonymous bald woman, who it seems was very ugly
          and of course nobody's laughing at cancer patients

  26. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    But don't you get it? You never know when you make fun of someone's appearance whether or not they are suffering from a disease. She might have had cancer, she might not have. She might have had alopecia, she might not have. She might have just chosen to shave her head. It's not up to you to judge how other people are allowed to look.

    You asked what people think, and we are telling you. Sorry we didn't all agree with you.

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      oh am not hear to just entertain those who agree with me.. I welcome those who disagree with me as well  BUT not those that spit off crap and not understand what I'm saying..

      But cheers, you seem to be one of the few humans in here and I appreciate your comment. wink

  27. darkside profile image81
    darksideposted 7 years ago

    Mamelody, you do realise that the sub-forum is called The Sandpit, ie: a place to play and have fun.

    Maybe you misread it as "The Snake Pit"?

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Maybe the people that came here feeling offended of this 'shallow' comment, didn't understand, don't you think ???

  28. Lily Rose profile image84
    Lily Roseposted 7 years ago

    "It's better to remain silent and be thought of a fool than to speak up and remove all doubt."  I'm sorry to say, but Mamelody you have removed all doubt to most posters here that you, my pretty, are a fool.


    This is what you said, is it not? - "don't know about you but I find a woman without hair completely revolting.. yuk!"  Sounds like a generalization, not just a comment about one woman.

  29. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    I would rather see a woman who is ugly or "hideous" on the the outside than ugly on the inside.

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I can see both.   And go on with my life

  30. Mamelody profile image59
    Mamelodyposted 7 years ago

    oh oh.. ban bells are ringing...

    See you later Tantrum.. It was nice having a laugh with you smile

  31. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    Nice drama!
    Thanks to everybody !
    I'm off to dinner ! bye !! big_smile

  32. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    A THOUGHT

    “Growth in wisdom may be exactly measured by decrease in bitterness”

    Friedrich Nietzsche

    1. Lily Rose profile image84
      Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I am only bitter toward people who have no wisdon - like mamelody.

      1. Mamelody profile image59
        Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Deleted

        1. Lily Rose profile image84
          Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Nah, I just don't like ignorant people such as yourself.  No, I don't want to be your friend, I have enough already.  You can't even back up your statements!

  33. Lily Rose profile image84
    Lily Roseposted 7 years ago

    I guess without Tantrum you have no guts.  Have a great evening.

    1. Mamelody profile image59
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Deleted

      1. Lily Rose profile image84
        Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Tell me exactly how am I being stupid.  Can you, please?

      2. blue dog profile image73
        blue dogposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        your evil side was unleashed by starting this discussion.

      3. Lily Rose profile image84
        Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm shaking in my boots (er, well, socks)!

        1. Mamelody profile image59
          Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I didn't think you had any strength to shake with your cancer and all.. tongue

          1. blue dog profile image73
            blue dogposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            mamelody,

            your insecurities are only outshined by your ignorance.  if hp doesn't slap a permanent ban on you and your ip address, there are serious issues with this site.

          2. Lily Rose profile image84
            Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            You're obviously not very good at paying attention, either.  My cancer treatments ended one year ago - I think I made that pretty clear more than once.

            You still haven't answered my question.  i guess that's because you truly can't.  I'm not surprised.  At all.

      4. h.a.borcich profile image60
        h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Laughing about a hairless woman in a pharmacy is far from nice. Cancer survivors are tougher than you realize, and have no problem standing up for what is decent and right. If you are banking on good looks to carry you for life - you may find out looks are temporal. That core beauty is what matters.

  34. blue dog profile image73
    blue dogposted 7 years ago

    and this is what is wrong with hubpages.

    1. Lily Rose profile image84
      Lily Roseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You are very right.  I'm ashamed that I got roped into this madness.  I have always thought that the bs that goes on in these forums (like in the religion and political ones) is ridiculous and completely unnecessary.  I have only participated in the forums thus far to ask question or gain technical information mostly - this is definitely my first forum "drama."  I guess I'm a little touchy about certain topics.

  35. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 7 years ago

    You really have a lot of growing up to do Marmelody...

    I think this discussion is over for me...the fat lady has sung...

  36. Lily Rose profile image84
    Lily Roseposted 7 years ago

    Guess the good ones got the last word, Holly!

  37. Norah Casey profile image67
    Norah Caseyposted 7 years ago

    This thread has spiraled out of control and will now be closed. In the future, please do not respond to personal attacks and let us take care of them.

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