Soooo basically ive been in a on off relationship with a guy for a year and ive became pregnant ive told him and he said get rid and we will be fine he said I will ruin him if I have this baby what would you do? Baring in mind I have two other children from a diffrent relationship thanks
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Yes I am against them BUT like I said in another post I had doubts that maybe it was an option! And that I did want others opinion but when the replys started coming in I was like christ why did I think or ask this
I dont think so what because I have no support you think I should give it up for adoption are you kidding me??? How could I judtify when it gets older and asks why I give it away but kept 2 other kids this response was not thought through at all
Yes it was. You're not putting the baby into foster care or an orphanage, you're providing a loving and caring environment in which it will be able to flourish. If the child ever asks tell the truth, you did what was best for child.
You guys know literally nothing about this woman other than that she's a single mother and you're suggesting that this baby is better off somewhere else? Good grief.
It is an option, and a viable one. If the only reason not to is fear of the child asking why later in life, then the answer is the truth. If she thought about it, got good counsel on her situation and decided it was best, that's the truth.