Do you have difficulty establishing boundaries and maintaining them with your children?
Reminding my children of boundaries (whether personal space, conversation etiquette, or other) is a daily task. Do you experience this challenge? Which areas are the hardest?
Children in my care had trouble keeping bounderies until I explained to them how they do not like when others, like friends and playmates, touch or play with their things, 'without asking'.
I go on to explain and remind the kids how upset they become when their rooms get messy because others have 'not put stuff back'.
Another problem is when toys are broken when 'someone' was touching or playing with them, without permission.
So now the kids understand why they need to be careful and respectful with other people's property.
I hope this is useful to you, and saves time and energy with your current situation!
Instructions in how to overcome some of the major obstacles in setting boundaries with your children. It includes the common problems and areas needing boundaries. read more
I have a hard time saying NO to my children. I get to the point where I feel walked on then I blow up. Like "Katie Kaboom".
My older boys refuse to clean up their own messes. I am getting to the point where I feel like throwing all of their belongings in the dumpster.
Honestly If someone says that life is just peachy and that their kids obey them and listen all the time then I have a strong feeling they are about to Grow a LOOOOOOOOOOONG point nose
by cruelkindness 4 years ago
Aren't we all selfish. We are born to experience life as an individual. In the end you will only have you and your experiences. I try to be selfish with good intent to not hurt others. If i'm not doing it for me than someone else is using their selfishness. So isn't it...
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by Kathryn L Hill 6 years ago
But I do care! I care about personal strength, responsibility and capability. I care about YOU having the freedom to choose YOUR goals, interests, ambitions, and follow YOUR motivations. ... and YOU, who say that to me, know who YOU are!
by Grace Marguerite Williams 11 years ago
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