what to do when love failure occurs???

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   geethakasiramposted 14 years ago

   what to do when love failure occurs???
   
   In our daily news papers written that  some people commit suicide  ,because of love failure.Then the person would become a drug addict.Why these people could not considered  their family?? Is it right ??

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   DancingRedFeatherposted 14 years ago

   First of all, your asking if it is right..is way off..because you have to go in dept to find out what and why someone did something. One cannot say it is right or wrong not knowing the situation and then, who can judge. Unless you walked a mile in the person's shoes..you can't give an answer.

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   stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

   If someone feels they are becoming severely depressed because of the ending of a relationship (or for any other reason) and, like you said, is turning to drugs, or thinking suisidal thoughts, they need to find the courage to seek proper Medical treatment. Having "Depression" is not anything to be embarrassed about or ashamed of, and there is many treatment methods available within the community.  It is devistating for the families involved, but more tragic that some don't seek support for their condition and have lost their life after trying to battle this illness on their own.

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   NeverCeaseToCareposted 14 years ago

   For a person who has gone through the truama this may be the only option to get out of it.........but the fact is his/her mind is not ready to rationalise.....they just keep thinking of why it happened to them.and feel worthless and angry.......this thought process goes on till they hit the point of getting into some activity that will help them to forget or leave the past behind.....evrybody will want to chose the easiest way out.......but dear there is no easy way out.......the only way is to face it and accept the reality of what has happened to you....this process is the toughest and will take alot of courage and will power....u can get help from friends or family who are supportive coz that will keep you alive:) during the process...and time is the only healer........just give time to yourself....u will get thru...and remember you are not the only one who has/had loved and failed.....there are millions out there....so just move on...gud luck

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   MysticLingerieposted 14 years ago

   There is nothing better then the feeling of being love, feelings insects crawling in your stomach or flying aka butterflies lol. Love is like a high, that makes you really happy but most people dont understand that what goes up must eventually come down. Even if its just for a short time. The problem is that when love ends people often dont know what to do, they miss being happy and think they will never fall in love again. People need to understand that they can fall in love multiple times, there is such a thing as true love but no one ever said it can only happen once. Theres alot of fishes in the sea, all unique and all can bring something new to the table.

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   pisean282311posted 14 years ago

   have written hub on basis of personal experience
   
   http://hubpages.com/hub/Forgive-and-set-yourself-free

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   reeltaulkposted 14 years ago

   Their family?????????    What can their family do for them?  I am gathering you have never really been in Love.  Love has nothing to do with anyone outside of the person you love.  Love can be extremely dangerous in more ways than one, so don't ever feel you can stand on the outside and look in on someone relationship and understand as well as give your two sense regarding what they should, could or would do.  Doesn't matter if you are family and have known them forever.  Them being in loves changes whatever you thought you knew about them.  Love can wire your brain to think in ways that will deem you crazy.
   
   Vonda G. Nelson

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   musasoposted 13 years ago

   uhm according to my own philosophy  that is not good and it actually happens especially among youth!! So my advise is why can`t we even look at our fathers they have divorced with many moms but they still alive. To divorce is just normal don`d worry if failure occur in you love just be brave enough and try to find another 1!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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