Any suggestion on how to save a marriage that that involves online cheating

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   kimberleyjposted 12 years ago

   Any suggestion on how to save a marriage that that involves online cheating

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   JsHumminBirdposted 12 years ago

   My suggestion would be counseling for both parties. The guilty party should consider looking into a support group.

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   duffsmomposted 12 years ago

   Does the person that did the cheating want to save the marriage and if so I would want to know why they did it in the first place.
   
   It is such a complex issue, I think a counselor that specializes in marriage would be your best answer.

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   kimberleyjposted 12 years ago

   i just found out this morning, we have been married 22 years and just less than 1 month he began to act strange. He says he wants to be friends, but does not want counselling. I am in shock can't think what to do, say, how to react.

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   wonderful1posted 12 years ago

   Unfortunately, you can't "save" a marriage if the other person is not willing to do the same.
   
   If he refuses counseling, and is emotionally detached from your marriage, then it's rather pointless to chase after him. They call that "prezeling," and it will only make him run faster.
   
   Take the high road, and find a good lawyer. I'm guessing that he is probably already cheating with some other woman (and probably it's become physical).
   
   I had this happen to me, too, so I know where you're coming from. Remind yourself that you deserve better than to be treated with such disrespect for your vows to each other.

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   CJ Sledgehammerposted 12 years ago

   1) Ask your husband what his major malfunction is
   
   2) Pray for your marriage
   
   3) Unplug the computer
   
   4) Insist on marital counseling for couples
   
   5) If hubby does not cooperate, then legal separation should be considered
   
   6) Continue to pray for your marriage. If all previous measures fail, then......
   
   7) Pray that your hubby can afford a good divorce attorney

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   Shil1978posted 12 years ago

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