In general, if teo people part ways - there was a reason and that reason probably still exists... so be sure you want to get your ex back
However, to get your ex back..
show your dedication ... be there for them and interested in them ... but dont drive them crazy or look too desperate.
express your desire to make things better the next time around and willingness to change or compromise but dont make promises you are unwilling to really keep
First and foremost remember he/she is an ex for a reason and likely that reason has not changed. People rarely undergo huge changes.
Your future lies ahead of you and not behind you.
The underlying definition of "soul-mates" is (two people) who share the same values, want the same things for the relationship, naturally agree on how to obtain them, and last but not least have a MUTUAL level of love/desire/respect and appreciation for each other.
If someone has chosen not to be with someone then it's clear they aren't "soul-mates". In order for him or her to be "the one" they would have to see you as being "the one" and vice versa.
Walk away!
Go on with your own life and think about you. Space and time can be very useful and gives both parties time to think. They may find they miss you as much as you do them. Absence often does make the heart grow fonder or opens your eyes to the problems that made you exes, those do not magically disappear. Face them with open eyes or you may just be putting off the inevitable.
I've written a Hub on this topic, but to put it simply to win your ex back you simply need to tell them how you feel in person or over the phone, lay it on the line and be honest about it. Then you have opened the door to letting them change their way of thinking about you. You then need to leave that person alone, completely, and allow them time to make up their own mind if they want you back in their life.
If your love for your spouse is genuine, you should be able to forget the bitterness you felt and concentrate on building up your relationship from the scratch. Do not bring up the past and show lots of care, love and appreciation.
by ShanteD 5 years ago
Can you really have a relationship with someone you don't trust.You can love them and want your relationship to work but if you don't trust them can it? Do you give it time and hope for the best?
by sureshprasad2100 14 years ago
The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back. The first step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up. Even though...
by Shefali K 9 years ago
How do you make your ex fall for you??
by charlesefe 14 years ago
I know to most people,it is very difficult,but if only you know how some things are,and how they were made, you will find out that to get back with your ex is very easy.
by Toyshika Epps 12 years ago
Is it important to meet the ex-wife or ex-husband's new "partner" if you have kids?Should the ex wife or husband be obligated to tell the ex-spouse if a marriage is being planned, or is that none of his/her business?
by Hurbermichael 12 years ago
My ex-girlfriend wants to have sex with me badly. She is in a relationship but she says she does not mind. I am temped to give in because she said she is not after a relationship but just a moment. I am confused.
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