You do partner cheat?

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   Ronilo Blancaposted 10 years ago

   You do partner cheat?
   
   In one relationship, Despite the hardship and the loyalty of one partner why the other partner cheat? What is the key factor why it happens?
   
   

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   simpleromaposted 10 years ago

   This is one very tough question to give answer so everybody can only give their opinion about this issue. I believe no expert can really answer why one partner cheat despite that they are happy with their current partner. Experts and studies can only give some reasons why people cheat so then those statistics being gathered through research and experiences will serve as guidance to spot the red flags if one partner is heading to the path of cheating, better know the signs as soon as possible. I think the reason why cheating happens is because we ignore the signs and we deny that our partner cannot do that, maybe too much confidence, but if we are alert and more observant, but not to the point that you are paranoid in thinking that your partner is already cheating although he or she is only heading that way. Better prevent him or her take the path of cheating by giving him/her more reason to love you each and everyday.

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   MThackerposted 10 years ago

   My answer to this question is based off of a biblical perspective. The reason for one partners commitment, while another cheats is the lack of God in their lives. God is the glue for everything, including relationships. Without a relationship with God in which both persons take part of, then there will be the lack of true structure within the relationship itself. Relationships are complex and therefore require a complex entity to help keep everything held together. When both focus on God and growing together in and with God, then there will be true growth within the relationship and when the tough times get going the two will battle through as being one.

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   dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

   People cheat for a numerous reasons. In some instances it has nothing to do with their partner at all. Some people bore easily and need "variety". There is nothing their mate could have done to keep them from cheating. These are called "Incessant Cheaters". Most likely they have never had a long-term monogamous relationship in their lives. These types have charisma, flirt a lot, use sexual innuendo with strangers, and are generally adored or popular among crowds.
   Another group of cheaters are the "Unbelievable Opportunity Cheaters." They don't necessarily proactively look to cheat. They cave into temptation if a "once in a lifetime" opportunity presents itself to be with someone they've had a secret crush on or fantasized about. Frequently this happens under perfect a scenario where they aren't likely to get caught such as a business trip. This type of cheater however often feels guilty afterwards if she or he has a loving partner and may eventually confess months or years later to absolve themselves of guilt feelings.
   Last but not least is the "discontented cheater". He or she is very unhappy with some aspect of their marriage. Their partner may be neglecting them, taking them for granted, stopped being romantic, or verbally abusive. However they may be a good provider or do other things to enhance the couple's lifestyle. The goal of this cheater is to hold onto all that is good in their primary relationship while addressing their other needs on the "side". They feel (justified).

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   Jynzlyposted 10 years ago

   Not all partners cheat. Cheaters are born cheaters, they have no sense of value in their depths; they are blind to honor and dignity as a true human being is intended to be. Cheaters cheat themselves first of all, they cannot help it, it's  their natural tendency and inclinations. We just have to accept that fact and check ourselves to learn lessons from them...

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