How do you handle other people spreading lies about you?

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  1. Virtual Treasures profile image61
    Virtual Treasuresposted 10 years ago

    How do you handle other people spreading lies about you?

    Do you confront them or let it go?  Do you let it get to you?  How do you just shrug it off?

  2. lburmaster profile image76
    lburmasterposted 10 years ago

    I find out if what someone else says about me is true or not. If it is not true, I normally laugh or get back at them.

    1. Virtual Treasures profile image61
      Virtual Treasuresposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Haha!  Great answer.  Glad you don't dwell on it!

  3. jennshealthstore profile image82
    jennshealthstoreposted 10 years ago

    If you let what other people say affect you in a negative way then they are actually in control of you. Agree with them. Who is going to want to bother with you if you are nice to them? It will first off drive them nuts, and why let someone make you unhappy.

  4. kj force profile image60
    kj forceposted 10 years ago

    I figure I must be doing something right that they would take time out of their  life to
    spread a rumor/lie...They must live a very mundane/boring lifestyle..If I later run across them, I will usually let them know I am aware of their deeds...
    I remember once I had occassion to bump into someone that had spread a lie about me..we chatted ( I never mentioned the deed) and somewhere in the conversation I muttered " I understand your husband is sleeping with your best friend" she promptly said " what did you say ?" I said I like what you did with your hair, it becomes you"'s called subliminal plant a thought in the persons mind..then later the words will give thought..and they person will question
    Satisfaction guaranteed......


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