Virginity. How old were you?

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   AdviceDoctorposted 14 years ago

   I was just wondering if anyone would like to share how old they were when they lost their virginity.
   
   To make it less shy, I'll begin ... I was 14.
   
   How old were you?

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      aka-djposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I haven't lost it. I know EXACTLY where it is (was).

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         kirstenblogposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         

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      missrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      For me it was the night before my 17th birthday and it was a rape.

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         AdviceDoctorposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Does rape qualify as losing your virginity ... ? I thought that was supposed to be with someone you care about..

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            missrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            It still technically counts unfortunately. Other than that I guess I lost it when I was almost 18 to the guy I'm still with 7 years on.

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            Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            really?
            of course it counts!! sex is sex, wether you like it or want it or not. it is a horrible horrible thing.
            
            Missreal, i am so sorry that happened to you, and I hope your well now.

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               AdviceDoctorposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               I had no idea that counted...
               
               And missreal, I'm also very sorry it happened to you.

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                  stylekitty3posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  It doesnt have to count if you dont want it to. My 1st time I was 20 I didnt count it cause I didnt mean to lose it at that time so I just put it in my head that wasnt true and i still believed i was a virgin but now I admit I lost it at that time cause now I love that guy I didnt mean to lose it with.

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               missrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Thanks Justine76, it's nice to have support!
               
               I don't think it matters whether you consider yourself late or early, as long as you were ready

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                  Black Lillyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  That's the thing - losing your virginity must be your choice. Noone has the right to use force, on any occasion.
                  I hope that idiot got what he deserved.

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                     Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     It should be your choice. Many times it isnt, and if it isnt, it can casue life long issues with sex, how you view it, how you feel about it, it can damage your self esteem and how you view your body, it can make it so you dont enjoy it....all kinds of stuff.
                     I cant abide the thought of men/boys/males thinking they can just take that from someone. I really wish there was mroe punshiment for this crime, especially "date rape" or "spousal rape". (I realize it does happen to men by women as well, I just dont personally knwo any who have had that ahppen, so cant speak for what it does to them. I am sure it is just as awful.)
                     sorry guys..off topic agian...oops

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         pisean282311posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         @misreal i m sorry to hear what u went through...

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         Moonchild60posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Wow Misreal, I lost my virginity to rape as well.  I was 15.  And sadly, it still counts, you still lost your virginity, even if it was forced upon you.

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            nlowmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Moonchild and Misreal, join the club. I was 14.

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         Moonchild60posted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Me too, raped at 15.

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      nasus loopsposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I was 15, approaching 16.  We had a sexual relationship for quite a while after this too. I must add though, that even though the boy/man was a older than me he never once pushed for us to do it before that night.  The next was my husband of 10years now.

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      usahaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      who was the calprit ,disclose pl.

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      me43posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I'm not shy . I was 34 when I lost my virginity . It's better to wait for Mr.Right than to give it to Mr. wrong . But ! I married Mr. Right before I did anything with him . As you can tell , I'm female . Most guys out there will hit it and run . I stuck to my vows with this man until his last day on earth . I've proven myself as a faithfull woman .

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      BrandenAposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I am 17 and I have never had sex with another person.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         What about your hand; does that count? H

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      hattie82posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Well truth be told it s better to wait for mr/ms right, but in today's world it's far from realistic. And 14 is a bit young to be exploring that side of life. But my first time was at 20 and it was not all that joyous for me. BrandenA, i am more than impressed with you and proud of you,that is a very smart thing to hold out at such a young age, you hav somuch ahead of you and thinking out sex should'ntbe one of them. Get your life on track and know who you are and where your going before deciding on such things.

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      breek24posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I was 13 years old and was with one of my older sisters friends trying to fit in with her crowed. He was 17. I am still not sure to this day if i was ready but it happened i still talk to him I have had sexual relationships with 2 other boys besides him but it was not till high school. Now I am engaged to the man I lost my virginity to.

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      taylorsweetsposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      i was 19 hmmmm

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         lauren03posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         the day after my debut

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       caroline22posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       i was quite 17

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       leebertteaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I'm still waiting for the right girl.

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       etymologicalposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       16/17, to a friend a few years older. It was awesome. (I say 16/17 because I was 16 for my first sexual act, but 17 for penetrative vaginal intercourse, which seems to be how most people define "virginity".)

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       Mrs. Tiger T 21posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       12years old my first time

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Older tan I wanted to be. H

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       Jake Gene Barnesposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       15
       
       Not really a topic that can be expanded upon further. I suppose I could give details of that night, but it being my first time and all... it wasn't very interesting. I was a scared kid making pelvic thrusts for ten minutes before expiring.

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       kinkitty04posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       i was 13
       , i Lost it a Day before EDC june 24 , 2010

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       nataliearcher91posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       i was 16 when i lost mine

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       duffsmomposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       19 and on my wedding night.

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       duffsmomposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       19, on my wedding day.

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   kirstenblogposted 14 years ago

   I think I was a late bloomer, I was close to 20

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   Poppa Bluesposted 14 years ago

   I was 16 but I spent years before that trying! LOL!

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   Pearldiverposted 14 years ago

   Who gives a rat's butt how old you were?
   Is this the best you can offer this community?
   Get a Life!!
   Maybe one with real qualifications and a brain!

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      kirstenblogposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Cranky PD?
      
      Surely this is better then asking, how do I get traffic to my hubs? Or I have been here a whole week, why have I not made money yet?

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         Pearldiverposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         No Not Cranky..... Just annoyed that at my age.... I can't remember

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            kirstenblogposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Why not make it up surely that is one of the perks of age, that and you can cuss, be rude and shocking and who is going to say anything! I sooo want to be like Betty White when I am old, thinking specifically of her character in the movie lake placid

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               Pearldiverposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Don't tell Bovine then! Just invite him to Lunch

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            Mikel G Robertsposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            LMAO!!!
            
            

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      THE LIPposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      If at this age ur wondering who gives a rat's butt then when are U going to go for the pussy urself or maybe Ur wondering what a pussy once was?
      No offense Meant just feel Sad When Sex Moves Out Of The Pants & Gets Lost Between The Ears!!!

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   thirdmilleniumposted 14 years ago

   Believe it or not, my wife was the first. And, after marriage too. And, she is the only one

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      poetlorraineposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      same for me, and i was a very young starter, and i have a husband and not a wife, thankfully

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I often wish I would have been wise enough (or listend to people who told me this was best) to do this. Congratulations to you both, I admire that.
         and at PoetL "thankfully" 

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            thirdmilleniumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            

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            thirdmilleniumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            

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      kirstenblogposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Yours is a rare story these days, good for you, I hope that its brought you enough happiness in your life that you would not do it any other way if you could

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         thirdmilleniumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Yes,I would not have it any other way
         
         Thanks

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   jimmythejockposted 14 years ago

   simple answer lol old enough that it was legal.....jimmy

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   ragnaworksposted 14 years ago

   For me it was 19.

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   Black Lillyposted 14 years ago

   Did it quite late - 16 I guess...
   
   One thing that i remember was a huge relief afterwards - it was such a burden

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      nasus loopsposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I would not consider 16 late, just normal!

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      AdviceDoctorposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You think 16 is late? I'd say it's pretty early.. I think you're late when you're like 24 or something.

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         Black Lillyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I think that was late, because I was really feeling uncomfortable with it, for about a year definitely. Feared it a bit. Did not feel confident enough, etc.
         It was a relief, really.

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   betsieposted 14 years ago

   i know where i kept it

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    fishtiger58posted 14 years ago

    I became an adult in the 70's the best decade ever, drugs sex and rock and roll. Oddly enough I waited until I was 20 and then was so disgusted by the whole thing I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. My girlfriends had all lost their virginity and were hounding me about it and so I finally gave in. It was a big mistake on my part.

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       chigoiykeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       It just happens like that and you cannot take it way. Its just peer pressure. Imagine hanging out with some guys ant they are bragging about stuff and yo:lol: u just keep mute. Awww. You gonna try something.

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    keywc58posted 14 years ago

    I forgot.

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    surferdudeposted 14 years ago

    19 - It seemed a lot more daunting than it was lol

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    tantrumposted 14 years ago

    18 here. did it not in love, but because I thought it was getting really late.
    and I don't regret it. It was a good start !
    

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       ragnaworksposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Actually I don't think that was late at all. I think it would be a good idea for everyone to wait till they're adults. Nowadays, there are people losing it as early as 12, before they even become teens

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       Black Lillyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       
       got someone like-minded here

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    Jonathan Jancoposted 14 years ago

    I was 18. She was the first and still the worst.

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       tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       

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    chigoiykeposted 14 years ago

    funny question, but can I really remember?

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       tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Maybe it was too traumatic ?

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          chigoiykeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Nah, can I say it was so good that I forgot the day?
          

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             tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             

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    cheaptrickposted 14 years ago

    What a curios way to describe it,i Lost my virginity,it was here a minute ago,maybe it fell behind the couch or i left it in the bathroom.
    In any case,if you did Lose your virginity by mistake you can always go to the Virgin Islands and get recycled,I did.

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    Almost 18, but I had done other "Clintonesque" stuff before.

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       Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       
       snowblowing?

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          habeeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Funny! Nah...I don't think many guys are into that. Is this a great way to start a morning, or what???

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             Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Im laughing about the clintonesque word.
             this is one messy morning...

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          Betty Reidposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          How old were you when you found out what "snowblowing" means?  I just looked it up and now wish I hadn't.

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             TheGlassSpiderposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             You mean it doesn't mean "using a special machine to move snow off the drive way"?

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                TheGlassSpiderposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Wow...You know...I thought I was pretty well-informed about this stuff. hm.

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                   thekidandblueposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   we call that snowballing round our way
                   
                   oh and 19

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             Ghost32posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Yuck.  I see what you mean.  I was 66 when I found out...about 33 seconds ago...
             
             Now, there's also "seagulling"....

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    18 and too young and dumb and full of...

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    Justine, I'm stalking you now...er, ummm...following you, I mean.

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       Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       
       I think Im following you...maybe...hang on...

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          Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          yeah, I am..went to your page and it told me to quit following you..
          
          

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       hi habee, am I a follower yet?
       
       hi just

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    prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

    21 when I got married

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       ltplposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Start actual Life and take God gifted love which make Imagine handsom and gloriouse life which you can not feel bebore married.

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    That reminds me of a poster I saw. YOu know the evolution pic with the series of characters, ranging from an ape to a Neanderthal to modern man? The last guy in the link is turned around saying, "Stop following me!" I don't know why, but I found that so funny.

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Funny indeed

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    I think something is wrong with my HP account. I read your hubs, PDH, and I would have sworn I was one of your fans several weeks ago. Anyway, I fixed it! I'm stalking you now, too!

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    PDH - I read your hub about online degrees and made a comment days ago. I told you about my daughter who is earning her degree that way - but the comment isn't showing up.

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       oh I will have to check about it habee, thanks

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       not in there habee, put a comment again, I dont know what is wrong, sometimes I put comment to other hub and then I cant see also if it has been sent, i have prob with that too

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    AEvansposted 14 years ago

    Old enough to understand and  wise enough to know I could have waited longer over. Bottom line nobody's business.

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    shinujohn2008posted 14 years ago

    I lost it at 19

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       ltplposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Ofter loss in 19 You get actual life  inow you fell you are joine heven with the help of to take god gifted love which is you can feel only not described it in any form.

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    PrettyPantherposted 14 years ago

    I was 19; he was 36.  I was in awe of his mind.  And, I've always liked older men.  Still do.  :-)

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    my husband was my first not my only but definitely my first and I was in my 20s...glad I waited for the right man to take it from me

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    Ghost32posted 14 years ago

    To paraphrase Bill Clinton, "Define virginity."

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    Colebabieposted 14 years ago

    I was 18 when I turned in my V-card.

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    DogSiDaedposted 14 years ago

    16 here.

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    qwarkposted 14 years ago

    In some cultures, as soon as a girl experiences menses, she is expected to start producing children.
    If girls are considered too young, say at 10 -11 years old to have kids, don'tcha think this biblical god thing phucked up again when "it" started their menses?

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       DogSiDaedposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Drifting off topic qwark...

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          qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Dog:
          I redeemed myself.
          Read my last post...right on target...:-)

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             DogSiDaedposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Lol yep that still doesn't answer the question xD Funny though

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                qwarkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Hey Dog:
                Wasn't the question: How old were ya?
                I surely did cover that...in my sleeping bag..:-)

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    Will Bensonposted 14 years ago

    I remember the first time I had sex...I was scared to death.
    
    I was all by myself at the time.
    
    (With apologies to Rodney Dangerfield).

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       prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       hehehe, DIY

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    danielthorneposted 14 years ago

    15 and I lasted about 2 strokes before blasting off...

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    qwarkposted 14 years ago

    I was a 13 yr old boyscout.
    I had a picture of a naked girl in my pocket.
    That nite, in my sleeping bag, I had sex with my right hand and had my first, unforgettable ORGASM!
    I had been introduced to Heaven!
    From that nite forward, My right hand became obsessed with sex and before long "it" became a sex addict.
    The years passed and I found that there is no cure for my right hand. It will have to spend the rest of it's life "walking-the-dog!"
    Thank "god" I haven't grown that telltale hair in the palm of that hand.
    I am not "blind" so the boyscout manual was wrong!
    My G/f understands this powerful addiction. I love her so much. At times, she takes the situation in hand. She handles my problem like a real pro.
    Bless her!

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    qwarkposted 14 years ago

    Oh! Dog..
    Ya mean ..oh ok..I gotcha!
    See I was raised on a farm in oregon.
    My gramma used to send me to the chicken coop for eggs.
    I guess I was about 14 when I figgered, hell, if those big eggs come outa that chicken..oh yeh! I should be able to fit in!
    Lemmee just say this, if ya havent tried it, don't knock it!
    Chickens are GOOD!  :-) and they can't say no!   lol

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       chambersgirl21posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       thats so gross

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       THE LIPposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Better Eat Ur Chickens After U've Beaten Them Else One Of These Days One Of Em Is Going To Ring The SPCA doorbell & Get U & Ur Girlfriend Inside A Coop 4 RAPE & More!!!

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    qwarkposted 14 years ago

    Hey Dog:
    Just in case yer wonderin' My G/f knows about this too.
    When I need a little variety, she holds the chicken.
    Damn I love that girl.  :-)

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    Millionheirposted 14 years ago

    15 over here and boy did i regret it....

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    Denno66posted 14 years ago

    Um, qwark that's not a version of the H1N1 serum, dude.

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    mega1posted 14 years ago

    So, what you're asking, is if I want to tell a bunch of strangers how old I was when I lost my virginity?  You are kidding, right?  Why would anyone want to know?  Its a slow news day, must be.  Nor do I really want to hear about their ages! I thought I was rhe frivolous one, but now I'm realizing how deep I actually am!

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       Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Yes, the Hub Tribe is silly, huh?

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    AdsenseStrategiesposted 14 years ago

    You're assuming I'm not still one

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       Jonathan Jancoposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Hey I'm a virgin, now! Well, a born again virgin, that is.

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    Anamika Sposted 14 years ago

    21. After i got Married.

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       ltplposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Start Actual life .You can feel Heven in earth with the help of god gifted love which make your life bewetiful,excellent imagine and glomeriouse which you can feel only not Imagine.

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    Hokeyposted 14 years ago

    I was 14 and it happened during a game of strip poker with two older girls. They took turns. I am grateful for their experience because I sure as hell didn't have a clue. 

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    Bill Manningposted 14 years ago

    Damn, I think I was the oldest out of all of ya! I was 22, she was a slut. Wish I had waited for someone better.

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       SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Yeah and you were so much better than her since it takes two to have sex .  This and the chicken comment early in the thread, well at least people are not attacking anyone, but this thread is just weird.

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    Rafiniposted 14 years ago

    I was 18 - with a guy I barely knew.  Just wanted to get it over with, didn't think it was such a big deal.  Now I think I was wrong to feel that way.

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    gsus_17posted 14 years ago

    I was 15 with a girl I barely knew... I was really freaked out because I knew she had done it before and I didnt want her to think I didnt know what I was doing..
    
    It's safe to say it didn't last too long and she definitely knew I had no idea what I was doing.. lol
    
    it was fun but I would have liked to have done it with someone I actually cared about..

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    Jared in Vegasposted 14 years ago

    I was 19. We had to be really quiet. We were at her dad's house for spring break and his room was right below hers. He was a district court judge and I was scared of him.

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    StormRyderposted 14 years ago

    15...No big story to with it.

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       Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       3, I think, or 4 or 5. Dunno. Remember, but don't know.

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    brianzenposted 14 years ago

    13 and so lame of a story.

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    Mikel G Robertsposted 14 years ago

    I was 16, the night I lost my virginity was after the first basketball game at my school, after I had my liscense, and it was in my first car. The next night I had my second and much better experience with another gal in the back seat of my buddies car while he and his girlfriend did it in the front seat.
    The second time was... the second gal...I should have hung on to. I was her first.

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    haiidotposted 14 years ago

    I am happy to say that still now i dint lose my virginity. now i m 22.... i dont like to lose before my marriage

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