It doesnt have to count if you dont want it to. My 1st time I was 20 I didnt count it cause I didnt mean to lose it at that time so I just put it in my head that wasnt true and i still believed i was a virgin but now I admit I lost it at that time cause now I love that guy I didnt mean to lose it with.
It should be your choice. Many times it isnt, and if it isnt, it can casue life long issues with sex, how you view it, how you feel about it, it can damage your self esteem and how you view your body, it can make it so you dont enjoy it....all kinds of stuff. I cant abide the thought of men/boys/males thinking they can just take that from someone. I really wish there was mroe punshiment for this crime, especially "date rape" or "spousal rape". (I realize it does happen to men by women as well, I just dont personally knwo any who have had that ahppen, so cant speak for what it does to them. I am sure it is just as awful.) sorry guys..off topic agian...oops
I was 15, approaching 16. We had a sexual relationship for quite a while after this too. I must add though, that even though the boy/man was a older than me he never once pushed for us to do it before that night. The next was my husband of 10years now.
I'm not shy . I was 34 when I lost my virginity . It's better to wait for Mr.Right than to give it to Mr. wrong . But ! I married Mr. Right before I did anything with him . As you can tell , I'm female . Most guys out there will hit it and run . I stuck to my vows with this man until his last day on earth . I've proven myself as a faithfull woman .
Well truth be told it s better to wait for mr/ms right, but in today's world it's far from realistic. And 14 is a bit young to be exploring that side of life. But my first time was at 20 and it was not all that joyous for me. BrandenA, i am more than impressed with you and proud of you,that is a very smart thing to hold out at such a young age, you hav somuch ahead of you and thinking out sex should'ntbe one of them. Get your life on track and know who you are and where your going before deciding on such things.
I was 13 years old and was with one of my older sisters friends trying to fit in with her crowed. He was 17. I am still not sure to this day if i was ready but it happened i still talk to him I have had sexual relationships with 2 other boys besides him but it was not till high school. Now I am engaged to the man I lost my virginity to.
16/17, to a friend a few years older. It was awesome. (I say 16/17 because I was 16 for my first sexual act, but 17 for penetrative vaginal intercourse, which seems to be how most people define "virginity".)
Jake Gene Barnesposted 7 years agoin reply to this
Not really a topic that can be expanded upon further. I suppose I could give details of that night, but it being my first time and all... it wasn't very interesting. I was a scared kid making pelvic thrusts for ten minutes before expiring.
Why not make it up surely that is one of the perks of age, that and you can cuss, be rude and shocking and who is going to say anything! I sooo want to be like Betty White when I am old, thinking specifically of her character in the movie lake placid
If at this age ur wondering who gives a rat's butt then when are U going to go for the pussy urself or maybe Ur wondering what a pussy once was? No offense Meant just feel Sad When Sex Moves Out Of The Pants & Gets Lost Between The Ears!!!
I became an adult in the 70's the best decade ever, drugs sex and rock and roll. Oddly enough I waited until I was 20 and then was so disgusted by the whole thing I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. My girlfriends had all lost their virginity and were hounding me about it and so I finally gave in. It was a big mistake on my part.
It just happens like that and you cannot take it way. Its just peer pressure. Imagine hanging out with some guys ant they are bragging about stuff and yo:lol: u just keep mute. Awww. You gonna try something.
Actually I don't think that was late at all. I think it would be a good idea for everyone to wait till they're adults. Nowadays, there are people losing it as early as 12, before they even become teens
What a curios way to describe it,i Lost my virginity,it was here a minute ago,maybe it fell behind the couch or i left it in the bathroom. In any case,if you did Lose your virginity by mistake you can always go to the Virgin Islands and get recycled,I did.
That reminds me of a poster I saw. YOu know the evolution pic with the series of characters, ranging from an ape to a Neanderthal to modern man? The last guy in the link is turned around saying, "Stop following me!" I don't know why, but I found that so funny.
In some cultures, as soon as a girl experiences menses, she is expected to start producing children. If girls are considered too young, say at 10 -11 years old to have kids, don'tcha think this biblical god thing phucked up again when "it" started their menses?
I was a 13 yr old boyscout. I had a picture of a naked girl in my pocket. That nite, in my sleeping bag, I had sex with my right hand and had my first, unforgettable ORGASM! I had been introduced to Heaven! From that nite forward, My right hand became obsessed with sex and before long "it" became a sex addict. The years passed and I found that there is no cure for my right hand. It will have to spend the rest of it's life "walking-the-dog!" Thank "god" I haven't grown that telltale hair in the palm of that hand. I am not "blind" so the boyscout manual was wrong! My G/f understands this powerful addiction. I love her so much. At times, she takes the situation in hand. She handles my problem like a real pro. Bless her!
Oh! Dog.. Ya mean ..oh ok..I gotcha! See I was raised on a farm in oregon. My gramma used to send me to the chicken coop for eggs. I guess I was about 14 when I figgered, hell, if those big eggs come outa that chicken..oh yeh! I should be able to fit in! Lemmee just say this, if ya havent tried it, don't knock it! Chickens are GOOD! :-) and they can't say no! lol
So, what you're asking, is if I want to tell a bunch of strangers how old I was when I lost my virginity? You are kidding, right? Why would anyone want to know? Its a slow news day, must be. Nor do I really want to hear about their ages! I thought I was rhe frivolous one, but now I'm realizing how deep I actually am!
Yeah and you were so much better than her since it takes two to have sex . This and the chicken comment early in the thread, well at least people are not attacking anyone, but this thread is just weird.
I was 16, the night I lost my virginity was after the first basketball game at my school, after I had my liscense, and it was in my first car. The next night I had my second and much better experience with another gal in the back seat of my buddies car while he and his girlfriend did it in the front seat. The second time was... the second gal...I should have hung on to. I was her first.
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