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9 Secrets to Rekindle Romance in Your Relationship

Updated on July 8, 2015

9 Secrets to Rekindle Romance

How do you rekindle romance when it’s completely gone in a relationship? While rekindling romance in a relationship can make you become more appreciative of each other, it takes a little more effort, but the fruits are really rewarding. To help you through, here are 9 secrets to help you bring back romance in your relationship;

1. Create Time for Romance… You cannot rekindle romance if you don’t dedicate time for it. On your calendar, mark special dates such as the Valentine’s Day or anniversaries so that you can have to appreciate your partner in more than one ways.

2. Take a Walk down the Memory Lane… Sometimes, sitting down to recount what you’ve been through since the first date can be one of the most romantic things you’ll ever do. Taking time to reminisce the past makes you laugh at your mistakes while appreciating the trying times as well.

3. Spice up Bedroom Matters… Frequently sprucing the sex is a major step towards rekindling romance in a relationship. That sex is imperative in relationships cannot be overstated but you need to get creative a little bit so as to make it more exciting. You can move from the old sex position to new ones for instance.

4. Talk… Frequent communication with your partner gives you the chance to share your fears and expectations. It gives you a chance to resolve any issues that the relationship may be facing thereby creating a strong bond between you and your partner.

5. Surprise Your Partner… It’s not bad to throw you partner a surprise party when he or she expects it. Surprises have a way of getting into a person’s heart since they are meant to show them they’re appreciated and have a special place in their partner’s heart.

6. Touch… There’s something to a touch that makes it very powerful. Touch your partner as often as you can. Hold hands as you walk, cuddle on the couch and get intimate more often. Don’t forget to have a good laugh while you’re at it.

7. Become Unpredictable… One of the easiest ways to rekindle romance in a relationship is by avoiding being too predictable. Perhaps the reason why the romance in your relationship is on a downward spiral is because your partner knows what to expect from you, thus engaging with you becomes boring.

8. Change the Scenery… How do you spend your pass time? Do you sit at home watching movies or tour the coffee shop for a cup of coffee? While there’s nothing wrong with that, perhaps it's time you changed where you tour and do during your free time. Take a stroll along the beach, do mountain climbing; just change the scene.

9. Focus on “We”… Having been in a relationship for some time, it’s only fair if you shifted the focus on “you” to “we”. Talk of “we need to” rather than “I need to “. This makes your partner feel part and parcel of the relationship and that you’re not selfish.

Bad times are bound to rock your relationship once in a while but this should not be a reason to let go off the romance you’ve been enjoying. In case you lose romance, bringing it back is a simple as applying these 9 secrets to rekindle romance in your relationship.


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