a.) Regret ever becoming involved with this person in the first place? b.) Wish you'd have ended it all much sooner? c.) Regret that you both did not try harder & longer to remain together? d.) Not even think about that time in your life?
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Looks like there are 3 very smart women here: YOU, Bethany & Katy! When things don't work out as we had hoped.....it's not a reflection on us, but a sign of much better to come.
And 2 Gorgeous, intelligent, lovable daughters they are!! You definitely did a lot of things RIGHT!!
Hi Til...Yes, you & Larry are one of the few very blessed, fortunate long-lasting true loves......that I admire and respect. If you ask a lot of ex-wives, they can name that dead horse for you!! LOL
dashing..a powerful common sense answer. Your last paragraph can strike a Universal nerve....so true & realistic. Those words can serve as a real "Wake-Up Call" to anyone still living in the past!
Ashley....Sadly, we women can take "nurturing" to a point of regret, foolishly believing Love Conquers All. It doesn't. Those Fairy Tales are LIES. You are now a better, stronger woman. That's what matters.
Sha...You speak wisdom and truth. I takes 2 to fix what 2 have broken...as for that 2nd dude....Bye-Bye, So long...don't let the door hit U in the A$$....You are a better more patient woman than I, honey. Nice to be independent, eh? Amen
This is why I now prefer to be single. Love having my bed all to myself and no one's expectations disrupting my mojo.
I have a saying that I live by: If it feels good, do it. If it doesn't, don't. And when it stops quit!
Sha...I LOVE it. Great motto, girlfriend. Need to jot this one down in my book of Good Words to Live BY!!!!! smiles
Sandy...Karma will catch up with that man for what he has done to keep a son from his Mom. That is the worse child abuse ever. You have the love & happiness you deserve now. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Vincent...How I hurt for you. I may have said this to U b-4, but I wish I could meet your children and tell them what a wonderful, loving and prolific man they are missing the opportunity to have and to love.
Oh Michael...your description of how "indescribably precious" the girl in your life was to you...takes my breath away. I have known that degree of love...so utterly treasured and sacred, you can barely speak of it..Thank YOU for opening ur heart.
SagDiva....Better later than never. Happiness is within. It will happen when you least expect it. And now you'll be Free to embrace it. Good luck.