He cooks and pay half the bills. Hard working. Good dad. Don' t show any affection towards you. Been talking about it for years and nothing's changing.
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Roommates with the same last name does not make a marriage! Sometimes it's best for everyone to move on.
Life is short!
She said: "Been talking about it for years and nothing's changing." There's 2 basic reasons why people won't give their mate what they asked for.
1. They don't have it to give. (It's not who they are)
2. They don't believe you're worth the effort
Usually when we talk, he's not listening. He says he want to spend his life with me. We haven't kissed, hold hands in years. I tried to hold his hand, he' ll take his hand out of mine. I don't want to kiss him. We been together since I was 15.
Tammy you said: "I don't want to kiss (him)" that pretty much says you are over this relationship. At some point you're going to either walk away or you're going to cheat on him. No amount of communication will cause you to (want to) kiss him.
It wasn't like that before, the kids
Some men are view women who are the mother of their children completely different from other women. They don't see them in a sexual way anymore. In some instances women never regain the pre-baby body. Maybe a therapist can change his mindset.