contradictions...my man says he doesn't want a relationship, but calls me his gf. what do i do?
he tells me sweet nothings then back pedals... what does he want? I've asked but all i get r contradictions...
He wants to pleasure of sex without the pain of commitment.
Refuse one or demand the other and see what happens.
You tell him that 'girlfriend' = relationship and then to grow up. :-)
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He wants everything except commitment. Move on, find someone that worth your time.
It seems he isn't ready t commit. If that's what you're looking for then you should move on.
Is he really your man or are you guys just seeing each other? With the way your question reads, it sounds as if he wants a relationship of convenience, a/k/a friends with benefits arrangement. And if this is true, and it doesn't fit with what you're looking for, you have to be honest with him and see how he responds. If he continues to say that's not what he wants, then you have to sever the relationship.
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