Seriously...?
Most of the time I don't attract men, but when I do, I seem to attract younger and immature guys (this sounds like a meme for "The Most Interesting Man in the World"). I had one guy hit on me recently, telling me that I was cute and that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. Well, since we only met, somehow I managed to get by without saying anything. A week later, I discover that he's in a relationship with another girl on Facebook. My first thought was "WTF?" "Didn't you just say you wanted me to be your girlfriend? What the heck is your major malfunction?" I'm glad I didn't say that I wanted to be his girlfriend--since I got ditched three days after V-Day by another guy this year.
So I took to Facebook--because I was so confused and kind of mad, I admit even though I hardly knew him (he was cute, alright)--and defined the word 'douchebaggery' just to be sarcastic (I managed to customize my settings so everybody but him--despite how seemingly dense he was). This is my definition that I posted:
"Douchebaggery: (adv) an act of stupidity. EX: A guy/girl tells you that you're hot and wants you to be their girlfriend/boyfriend. They tell you that they love you and want to kiss you. A week later, on your birthday, you find out that they got into a relationship with somebody else and they still tell you they love you and miss you, forgetting that they posted a picture of their new GF/BF on their timeline and not making it private."
I'm glad I played everything by ear, but, come on...seriously? How immature.
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I'm actually glad that I listened to my gut, but I hate to admit that I was still surprised with all that crap (and it's still coming). But I'm not worried, because he just proved to be immature and continuously so.
Sometimes it's hard to trust your gut, especially when the words they feed us are pleasant to the ears... and being cute don't help either! lol
It is hard, but caution was on my side. I'm so proud...
You should be proud... I'm one to say "really, you think I'm pretty? *bats eyelashes* ... couple months later... crying in the fetal position on the floor! lol
Lol... well, I've got those shoes that I beat people over the head with... lol. Maybe I need to start playing "Whack a Mole" and bop 'em in the first place rather than waiting until after they've ruined me... lol. How many times can one heart break? lol
Hey, I'm smiling... I'm not in counseling and I don't take medication... lolI guess I need to go to the arcade and sharpen my "Whack-a-Mole" skills.
Ha! That's too hilarious! LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!
*ahem* Yeah. I did say a guy. Thankfully, that's all he is.
That sounds about right. Way too many guys (including some of my friends, and some former friends thanks to the same) do that with women. Perhaps it has to do with feeling powerful at being able to be with any woman they want at any time. I don't know, I'm weird for a guy, so don't take my advice/insight into the male mind as gospel.
That situation reminds me of John Tucker Must Die though. XDWell.... I hope I did not offend. I know not ALL guys are the same, but a lot of the 'not so good ones' give the good ones a bad name. Being a good guy shouldn't have to be 'weird for a guy' lol
I won't take it as gospel, Winterfate, but I still think you have some good insight here. From the first time I saw that picture on Facebook, I suspected that he thought he could take me for a fool--otherwise he wouldn't have left that picture up for the world to see. I don't think he was being malicious, though, just immature. Oh, well.
I don't know...squirrel!
Oh my goodness... I'm laughing so hard... and getting nothing productive done... I'm a grown damn woman! lol
Kinda
Cantuhearmescream . . .yes you are a grown woman, but really? Do you think that "I" am like all other guys? I beg you. Do not lump me with wife a users, jerks, deadbeat dads . . .whewww, I feel good now. Love you
IS THIS HER? LOL
That's her! More or less...
Yup... this one seems fitting.. lol
I don't think she was from YuGiOh! She looked like she could be a Harpy Lady, though.
Oh... lol... I separated YuGiOh... that's cause I had to try hard to make sure I was spelling it right; did it in steps, you know? lol... I know that I can relate to her insecurities.... "Why don't you like me?' hahaha!
No, it's separated. I'm just too lazy to put dashes in. Anyway, yeah. I love the picture. The Fire Princess is from the show. I just remembered. LOL!
Fire Princess is from Yu-Gi-Oh! And Hawk Girl is Justice League! Looking back on this forum, I think we did a good job steering it from the main subject. LOL!
You're looking at insanity. You don't have to follow this forum, anymore, Zelkirro, if you don't want to! I think we've established that the guy that had been hitting on me was immature and then the forum took off in an entirely different direction. LOL! I wouldn't worry about it.
Hey... just wanted to pop in and say; sorry about rerouting the forum (But I'm pretty sure Kenneth started it.... lol)
Anyway, you know who you are and guys are going to come at you from all directions... you've just got to learn to develop good sensors... which of course is easier said than done. But remember this, if ever your sensors are off and you find yourself dealing with a turd... I've got shoes and they're ready to be used
Not your fault, Kenny! Let's just say we had too much fun and somebody didn't appreciate it!
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