How Do I Recognize Lasting Love?

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  1. ngureco profile image82
    ngurecoposted 9 years ago

    How Do I Recognize Lasting Love?

    What Is The Time Tested Tips To Recognize That Love Will Last And Shield Me From Being Hurt In The Future? Is What I See What I Get?

  2. profile image57
    Olukayodeposted 9 years ago

    How to recognize lasting love is a very difficult task. A lasting love can be recognize by the passion, truthworthiness and less demand for sex by the opposite partner. Lasting love is when pains are share when during the time of difficulties we are always there to help, during the time of need we are ready to give and during the time of sorrow a partner is there for us. A person that will always give a candid answer to a question and stand by it. A friend that will not desert us during difficulties. The true love is that of a pigeon, they live together, play together and if one of the couple dies, the other partner will never have affair with any other other and soon the lonely one die.
    If one is faithful, there will be a lasting love.

  3. marisuewrites profile image59
    marisuewritesposted 9 years ago

    When you've been there for 10 thousand years.

    No one in love has guarantees.  A couple in love must make daily committments, daily.  Pass through the misery, eat the hard like candy, endure the pain like a warrior, carry the burdens like a pack mule, and float on dreams and fantasy as if they are real. 

    Understand the need for forgiveness especially when you don't want to, try harder when hope is lost, and crawl on your belly when your pride is dissolved. 

    Know that a bad day is just that, a bad week is only that, and poverty for a year is just richness delayed. 

    Believe in self-sacrifice and take the vow of silence, voice praise for others as if your life depends upon it, and bite your tongue when the urge to criticize gurgles up.

    Look beyond the messed hair, bad breath, and puking flu so often that it's hardly noticed because you're so busy nurturing. 

    Take the ruler out of your emotional toolbox and never purchase the time it takes to make sure you're getting "yours." 

    Make it habit to look for the sunshine, the good deeds, the small quirkiness, the funny faces and hilarious behaviors that make the days good.  Write about them, talk about them, and stand long in those moments.

    Then, one day, as you seem to suddenly appear at the end of your rainbow of time, as you look backwards seeing forwrd, in that full circle will you be able to recognize lasting love.

    What seemed like a difficult and costly journey will be your actual pot of gold.

  4. Tamarii2 profile image62
    Tamarii2posted 9 years ago


  5. tanay253 profile image61
    tanay253posted 9 years ago

    Signs You Found True Love
    The chemistry between a man and woman can be either good chemistry or bad chemistry. Many of us, through lots of experience know what it feels like to be in a relationship where the chemistry can be very strong, but it is destructive on an individuals level and as a couple. Relationships founded on this chemistry are often riddled with pain, guilt, fear and any number of thoughts and feelings that are energy depleting and can quickly spiral to obsessions and depression.

    What about good chemistry, what does it feel and look like, and how do you know the chemistry between the two of you is good? How do you know you are with the right person?

    1. You feel very comfortable with one another, as if you have known each other longer than you actually have.

    2. You tend to agree with one another on most issues, and there is a feeling of warm familiarity surrounding your personal belief systems, values, philosophies and life goals.

    3. You instinctively consider each other as equals and no one person does more sacrificing to be with the other.

    4. You are very much involved in one another's daily affairs and conversations between the two of you are generally mentally stimulating and lively.

    5. You joke around with each other a lot, and your relationship is spontaneous and light, adding a happy and friendly boost to your interactions.

    6. You nurture each other with specialized attention, mutual appreciation, acceptance, admiration and playfulness; these keep the romance alive.

    7. You enjoy spending plenty of quite time together in homely surroundings giving true meaning to the words feeling "at home" with one another.

    8. Open communication is alive and thriving, making it possible to be yourselves with one another.

    9. There is a shared feeling of growth and support of one another and both of you give each other room to grow as a self-directed independent individual.

    10. You are more able than most couples to remain objective about your relationship and to work through problems that most couples find very difficult to deal with.

  6. ChiaraAngel profile image60
    ChiaraAngelposted 9 years ago

    Your heart will tell you. Your heart has the answer.

  7. stricktlydating profile image82
    stricktlydatingposted 9 years ago

    There are no guarantee's when it comes to love, but lasting love begins when two people both make a strong committment to eachother - like in marriage.

  8. profile image48
    david masonposted 9 years ago

    Here's how I figured it out... 


    If you answer yes, it's lasting...  if you doubt you would, it's time to move on

  9. profile image0
    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    Through actions, I think people need to pay attention to others actions.  If every human lost their tongue, we would still be able to communicate quite well through body language.  It's sometimes good to just pay attention.   Body language is the new language,  It never lies.....ciao

    P.S.  What you see is not always what you get....these days people tend to play a lot of games for whatever reasons they choose to.  You get exactly what you see on rare occasions

    Vonda G. Nelson


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