What did you do to get over your ex after they ended the relationship?

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  1. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 13 years ago

    What did you do to get over your ex after they ended the relationship?

  2. toby26 profile image40
    toby26posted 13 years ago

    Just go on with other dates with other hot girl/guy. Talk to friends. Sleep in all days. That would help.

  3. Antionetteb profile image60
    Antionettebposted 13 years ago

    Your life consists of WAY more important things than being upset behind the breakup..just remind yourself that u do have a life..keep really busy, party with friends and be flirty

  4. profile image0
    reeltaulkposted 13 years ago

    Focused on self and returning to a place that made me secure as well as sane!  Any who if the truth be told I chose to stay way too long, I had to remove myself when realizing the truth.

  5. Jonesy13 profile image61
    Jonesy13posted 13 years ago

    I think that being away from them really helps.  Find something that brings you joy and happiness. For me it was my nieces, just being around the pure simplicity and the smiles made it easier for me. Find something you enjoy doing that they were never apart of, because if you enjoy doing something that they did it'll only bring back those memories.

  6. kseniastone profile image61
    kseniastoneposted 13 years ago

    Honestly, deleted their phone numbers from my phone, erased any and all information about any of our memories together. Let them be alone for a while- and this kills them... they might start calling you again, and a strange number will show up on your caller id, and you'll have long forgotten about them! it is very empowering. remind yourself of all the reasons they were not "the one" and remember that they left you because they did not understand the wonder that is you. save it for someone else...

  7. advisor4qb profile image77
    advisor4qbposted 13 years ago

    If I am upset about something, I throw myself into my work.  I put it out of my head and plow through my life.  Of course, that is only a temporary fix, but eventually I sit down and have a good cry.   Then I realize that the relationship ended so that another could come into my life.  As one door closes, another always opens.  Cheers!

  8. glorina profile image60
    glorinaposted 13 years ago

    At first , I was so upset that I cried for a month more. Crazy isn't it? Well, actually these word were uttered after I woke up from, from this bad dream, I consider it one.
    What I did was, I looked at myself in the mirror and talk to myself, in the way of scolding and cheer myself up saying
    "I can make it, he is not only the man in this world".Wake up girl and turn around! There are someone around who's meant for you! You are beautiful!
    Ha ha ha ,sounds funny but it did help me.so I kept myself busy in my studies and work till I found the person ,That God gave to me.. My real love....But so sad that God get him back after  15 years of our mariage. However, I am already strong enough facing the life and accept the reality of life.

    1. benashiraz profile image58
      benashirazposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      God bless his soul. I am very impressed of your strong spirit. Keep it high forever (:

  9. itsmollyy08 profile image58
    itsmollyy08posted 13 years ago

    do not look at their facebook! if you do, it just ruins your day to see that they have moved on and are okay with it.

    what i did was i moved. i redecorated my entire apartment. I got a new job and i cut my hair into a different style.

    I wanted to become a new me.

  10. the pink umbrella profile image77
    the pink umbrellaposted 12 years ago

    No contact. Have you phone number changed, your email changed...everything. The hardest thing in the end is staying away. But its the most beneficial.

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    dracaslairposted 12 years ago

    well what i did istook time to deal with the brake-up.i started dated again.soon after that i was able to love again.thats what i did.closeing one door opeans another

  12. New Life profile image59
    New Lifeposted 12 years ago

    I start working on something new, whether starting a new project or starting new period.  Forgiving the situation - releasing - what happens your mind clears and you move on then new doors open..

  13. Nicholas Wells profile image59
    Nicholas Wellsposted 12 years ago

    I need an answer for this.  I had a recent breakup too and it is even harder because it wasn't we didn't love each other it was because our life paths forked in different directions and had to go seperate ways.  I would almost die to keep this going but she would not except such a irrational act and the same on my part...

    What I am doing is finding ways to strengthen my understanding and acceptance of what happened and trying to except the inevitable.

  14. aheil profile image59
    aheilposted 12 years ago

    read this: http://developyourlife.net/relationship … -break-up/

    it explains exactly what to do.


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