I think my wife might be cheating on me. Should I a the spouse spy software?

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    DollarPileDealsposted 8 years ago

    I think my wife might be cheating on me. Should I a the spouse spy software?

    I think my wife might be cheating on me. I did a search online and a spy or detective would cost too much but I found a software that supposedly acts like a spy and captures emails and web cam pictures of them. Do you think this is a good idea? and have any of you used it before? Thanks!

  2. darkprincess profile image53
    darkprincessposted 8 years ago

    that software is a waste of time in my opinion, if i was you i would come straight out and ask the question, you will be able to tell straight away via her reaction if she is indeed cheating on you.

    You should also be able to be open enough with one another that spying isnt required, theres a communication problem to begin with

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    Housewatch24-7posted 8 years ago

    If you believe your wife is being unfaithful, and having an affair, please accept my apologies.
    To answer your question, I would install a hidden camera somewhere in the home. If you visit housewatch24-7.com, you will be able to find cameras that will "fit" any decor, and record any and all actions to prove or disprove your suspicions. To be able to check and monitor computer activites I also have a program called Intellispy.

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    Midasfxposted 8 years ago

    Just get rid of her, dont buy more stuff for her, even if its sping stuff.  save your money. Dont ask her, if you have the idea that she is cheating your marriage is already on the way down. Save yourself the heartache, time and money. Get a divorce and leave her asap.

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    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    If that works for you more power to you.  If there is indeed a communication problem you being upfront is not going to solve it, especially in this situation.   You need to deal with this situation accordingly.  I experienced the same thing but it had nothing to do with cheating.  This individual lied as well as was blatantly deceptive, although I did not confront them or inquire.  I always respected their space as well as their word, but when things didn't add up, I took it upon myself to spy/snoop call it what you must and it was only then that I got the truth as well as woke up!  Sometimes it just isn't worth behaving "mature" with certain individuals, because they take your decency as a weakness instead of respecting it!

    Just imagine how frustrated you would be asking her and she continuously lies, but it obvious she is. 

    Vonda G. Nelson

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    mcinthiawposted 8 years ago

    oh yeah!!! if yuothink she is cheating on her go to www.cheaters.com never be to sure you dont want to be the stupid one in the relationship

  7. Jerry Thompson profile image53
    Jerry Thompsonposted 6 years ago

    It happened to me and I used http://www.SnoopPal.com installed the software on my pc. She used it a few times..Then when she left I went in to look at the screen shots of what she was doing and saw the txt between her and this dirt bag. I was so pissed but it worked out because now I met the love of my life. Good luck!


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