man says he doesn't want a relationship, but calls me his gf

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  1. DJ Chinita profile image56
    DJ Chinitaposted 8 years ago man says he doesn't want a relationship, but calls me his gf.  what do i do?

    he tells me sweet nothings then back pedals... what does he want? I've asked but all i get r contradictions...

  2. LetusPonder profile image78
    LetusPonderposted 8 years ago

    He wants to pleasure of sex without the pain of commitment.

    Refuse one or demand the other and see what happens.

  3. iamJstyle profile image82
    iamJstyleposted 8 years ago

    You tell him that 'girlfriend' = relationship and then to grow up. :-)

    - J

  4. GoGranny profile image76
    GoGrannyposted 8 years ago

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  5. Parentinghelp profile image34
    Parentinghelpposted 8 years ago

    He wants everything except commitment. Move on, find someone that worth your time.

  6. profile image44
    dmyers7usposted 8 years ago

    It seems he isn't ready t commit.  If that's what you're looking for then you should move on.

  7. Himitsu Shugisha profile image75
    Himitsu Shugishaposted 8 years ago

    Is he really your man or are you guys just seeing each other? With the way your question reads, it sounds as if he wants a relationship of convenience, a/k/a friends with benefits arrangement. And if this is true, and it doesn't fit with what you're looking for, you have to be honest with him and see how he responds. If he continues to say that's not what he wants, then you have to sever the relationship.

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